What do you hate most about posting in other people s circle of friends?

1.Privacy and security issues: More and more people are worried about the leakage and theft of personal information, because the settings of the circle of friends are not perfect, and it is difficult to control who sees and saves the content they share.

2.Social relationship problems: Posting a circle of friends requires a stable social circle, but now many people often change social circles, which causes them to stop following and communicating with their former friends, and lose the willingness to share.

3.Mental stress problem: Many people post Moments to get likes and attention, but it takes a lot of time and energy to think, choose and content, and need to follow other people's Moments to get a response, which will be mentally burdensome in the long run.

4.Audience aesthetic fatigue problem: content and trends on social networks change too quickly, and it is difficult for people to keep up with the trends, so it is becoming more and more difficult to publish fresh or attractive content, so people start to lose interest in posting friends.

In this case, posting moments not only takes time, but also makes socializing more hypocritical and superficial, which is not good for mental health.

In conclusion, as social behaviour shifts, so so does people's needs, so posting moments may no longer be a concern for them, and this needs to be adapted to this change.

Life is stressful, work pressure is high, and more and more people may only click on Moments once a day, let alone post Moments.

Those who are lonely, have a relaxed job, and have a lot of free time may swipe their mobile phones many times a day, and look through WeChat or Moments many times. But not everyone has free time to browse the circle of friends.

Now there is nothing to show off, but I like to watch others show off. If you post some good life, you think it is very common, others will think that you are showing off your wealth, if you are in a bad mood and post some complaining moments, people will say that you are complaining. Therefore, if we get a bad evaluation when we post a circle of friends, we should post a little less moments at this time.

In the circle of friends, no one can really understand you, no one will care about what you went to today, what you did, what you ate, you yourself have countless layers of meaning to say, others think it is a simple complaint at a glance. So you have to not post on Moments, pretending not to let others know about you, because if you don't post anything, of course, you will be invulnerable.

Sometimes when you struggle with who to show and who not to show it, the good mood of posting to Moments is suddenly gone. And even if you post a circle of friends, you will be told a lot of meanings. Whatever you post will more or less cause others to speculate and attack, so it's better not to send it.

You can post whatever content you want, and you can like others if you want to, but is that really the case?

When you post a circle of friends, and there are still zero likes within a few hours**, you know that the content you post may not be very pleasing, or you should usually give others more likes and send a favor.

The reason why it is a weak connection is because compared with one-to-one chat, the circle of friends is not an immediate, highly interactive strong connection, and it is precisely because of the weak connection that it is easy to be ignored.

Although the circle of friends is a display place with weak connection, it also requires you to manage it carefully.

About content sharing.

Some valuable*** articles, or your own original views or opinions, are the best content to share, and your circle of friends appears in the field of vision of others as the birthplace of dry goods, providing others with new knowledge or thinking.

You can also occasionally post some life photos, so that everyone knows your recent status, we see other people's ** in the circle of friends, and the sense of intimacy will rise involuntarily, even if it is thousands of miles away, you can feel the true state of the other party.

For some worthless articles, or even rumors, don't touch them, because this is not just a matter of an article, but represents the taste and intelligence of your whole person, and once something is lost, it is difficult to get it back.

When posting a circle of friends, think carefully about what you do for others, every act you do is building your value, only after figuring out this problem, the circle of friends you send is valuable.

For your valuable content, you can like + make a short comment, like is the affirmation of the content, and the comment is a sharing of views, which can form an active interactive effect with the best people and enhance the communication between the two parties.

It is a dangerous behavior to abruptly like someone else's circle of friends a long time ago, because it will give others a sense of tension that their privacy is being spied on.

If others don't like it, it means that this circle of friends is not for you to see, but not for you and your superiors' mutual friends, so don't join in the fun.