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For the question of high school students falling in love, in fact, there are still too many people around me who will say that in the student days, learning is the most important, falling in love will make us not have the mind to study better, and do not support high school students to fall in love, in fact, it is not like this, but we must face the matter of love rationally, and see if it is helpful to you, or will it have a bad impact, and the corresponding way of dealing with it is completely different.
In fact, when I was in high school, there were still a lot of people with excellent grades who were in love, and they all felt that boyfriend and girlfriend had no bad impact on their studies, but rather the motivation for their own learning, and it was really good to get better together, because with each other, they would study harder and want to create a better future together. And when you encounter problems when you study, you can encourage each other, compared to those high school students who only know how to study, students in love seem to have more memories of their youth in the future, and they will become more fulfilling.
Of course, the above example of love is just the experience of some people, there is no need to stop such high school students from falling in love, but there are also some high school students who just feel that love is the most important, tired of being together every day, just talking about love, not taking learning to heart at all, knowledge changes fate, if you don't study well, how can you give each other the life they want, and finally regret saying goodbye, just wasting the best time in high school, such a love is not advisable.
The chemical reaction of each thing in different people is different, and it is the same for falling in love at this age in high school, take a good look at yourself, whether the advantages outweigh the disadvantages, or the disadvantages outweigh the advantages, and then deal with it, parents and teachers should not worry too much, because this is a process of growth, as long as they are given a period of time, they can always understand, you only need a little guidance, but don't be too obstructive, after all, they have not passed the rebellious period, The more depressed it is, the worse it is. Youth is a dream that never looks back, while you are young, follow your heart, be the happiest, the most fulfilling yourself, as long as you make sure that all your decisions will no longer be regretted, so it is enough, this is your life, everything is up to you. Someone once said that there are ups and downs, laughter and tears, this is youth, if everything is happy, in fact, this is not what youth should be.
No matter what age you are, in the face of everything, first of all, put your mind at ease and ask yourself, what is the best thing for you?
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Not suitable, personal experience tells you, very unsuitable!
How old are we in high school? Sixteen or seventeen, right?! Although in ancient times it was the age when you could get married and have children, in modern times, we just don't know anything about small broken children!
When I was a freshman in high school, maybe because of adolescence, maybe because of curiosity about love, I fell in love. In fact, I know very well that there is no so-called staying together until I grow old, and there is no lifelong promise, just curiosity and wanting to know what it is like to fall in love.
At the beginning, I have been in a period of extreme excitement, I will often hold my mobile phone to chat, even if I meet every day, I will naturally avoid my parents when I go home, and I will secretly call **, as if I have endless words every day, as if I can get rid of all my troubles.
The biggest impact of falling in love in high school was the decline in my academic grades. Because I spend most of my time in love, I rarely think about studying, and my grades slipped quickly, and I fell from the top 50 in my grade to the top 200 in the first semester, and the moment I got my report card, I couldn't accept it! To be honest, it's devastating, I've never had such a bad grade.
Later, I tried to ease the conflict between my studies and my relationship, but I found that I was thinking too simply. I told my boyfriend that we would study together and then go to university together. He even called me naïve!
At that moment, I knew that girls were more mature than boys, and they had more visions for the future, so I went back and thought about what the future would look like, but at that time, boys at that age had nothing but games left, and there was no future in their minds at all, so I chose to let go.
It is said that when you are young, you always do stupid things, and you don't know how to be responsible for your future, and you don't even know what the future should look like, how can you have the ability to take care of another person? <>
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<> this is a good question, I don't think high school students are very suitable for falling in love.
High school is the best period of a person's intellectual development, and it is also a stage of rapid development of a person's knowledge. In addition, the study of high school has to face the highest examination in our country, the college entrance examination, so the accumulation of this period of time is very important. Although the college entrance examination is not something that determines a person's fate, for ordinary people, the college entrance examination is very important.
If you don't study hard, you will definitely fail the college entrance examination, and the rest of your life may be difficult.
If high school students fall in love, the impact will not be so great for those students who have better self-control. Because they can reasonably arrange the proportion of time for falling in love and studying. However, this is not the case for those students with average self-control, who may devote themselves to falling in love, so that they do not have the time and energy to study, which will eventually directly affect their academic performance.
In general, no matter how good or bad self-control is, you should not fall in love in high school because it affects a person too much. Our minds are not very mature, and it is very likely that certain things affect our emotions, resulting in a class or even a whole day not being able to attend a class.
In my opinion, the time to engage in the object should be the university stage, at this time the study will not be so intense, we have enough spare time, can be reasonably arranged. It will not affect our studies, but also prepare for the next wedding life.
As a person who has come over, I sincerely advise all elementary school students not to fall in love in high school, and study is your main task, otherwise you will definitely regret it.
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Suitable, I feel that the current love is in junior high and high school, this is the purest, women are not necessarily looking for rich and handsome, and men are not necessarily looking for white rich and beautiful.
In the future, you will find that the so-called love is just an equivalent transaction, the men's chips are height, salary, and appearance, and the women's height, weight, appearance, and age. Love is nothing but a transaction.
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High school students shouldn't be in a relationship. Some people say that if two people motivate each other and urge each other, it will be conducive to learning. But this is a minority, after all. Most of them will delay their studies because they are in love.
Because falling in love inevitably takes time and energy, you can't devote yourself to learning. This is the principle that one mind cannot be used for two purposes. Falling in love makes them overly curious, excited, obsessed, and overly indulged in the fantasy of love, and can no longer devote themselves to learning, resulting in a decline in academic performance, and some even get tired of studying.
The psychological development of adolescents is still unstable, and emotional fluctuations are inevitably ups and downs. Once you fall in love, you are prone to all kinds of negative emotions, anxiety, worry, and so on. At the same time, the young Duan faction lacks the ability to discern, is more likely to be emotional, and is often reckless. Envy.
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It's not good to fall in love in high school.
High school students shouldn't be in a relationship. Every high school student has a time when they are confused. Especially in the third year of high school, when the study pressure is particularly high, they all hope to find a partner to let themselves have a trace of emotional comfort in the usual boring study.
However, such a thing as early love can tell you very clearly, don't be in high school.
Relationships in high school are generally fruitless, unless no one is like-minded and can maintain contact for a long time, because, the life path after the college entrance examination is very complicated, and you need to endure the pain of being separated from the two places.
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Of course, it is suitable for high school students to fall in love. It's nothing more than the fear of affecting learning. Play to play, learn to learn.
If you are in love, you definitely need the company of a nuisance. Are you there? Doing things is similar to a couple's date, and it takes a lot of money.
As long as there is a pay, there will be a return, I believe that when you fall in love, you will understand each other and become friends, and you will have a further relationship. I think it's more appropriate for high school students to fall in love. Because everyone may be in school at the time.
You will meet a girl who is attracted to her heart and thinks it looks attractive and explains. You have a good impression of it, you can go up and say hello and become friends, after all, you see more girls in school, and you are less excited. Therefore, it is very suitable and normal for high school students to fall in love.
Just each other. Be honest with each other. Or do we still grow together and learn from each other and appreciate each other.
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Unhappy! High school students should still focus on their studies, falling in love will affect their studies, I hope you can understand!
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Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.
When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; also because he loves you, he calls for your interest to turn it into a ...... for him and Yu Xiao's interestOr because he loves you.
There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.
They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.
In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.
If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......
Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.
In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.
If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.
A beautiful love enriches life, and a ruined love that has passed the test is perfect.
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Well, this problem, I think you can talk about it in the first year of high school, but you have to hurry up in the second year of high school, because now many schools are in high school 2 to complete the high school courses and review the third year of high school, so the speed of high school 2 classes will be very fast, and the third year of high school is even more important, but love is not to say that you can lose it, you fall in love in the first year of high school, and you may not be able to let go of the second and third years of high school, which will affect your learning, and love is easy to hurt your heart, so it is still not encouraged to fall in love in high school.
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