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I don't have the right to make you give up, but I think the most difficult thing for people is how to learn to give up, giving up is not a simple abandonment and escape, let alone an excuse for a negative life, giving up is a rational choice, a kind of cherishing, a kind of beauty, a deeper love. There is a saying that has not been said: sometimes the fate must be there, and the hit is not always forced.
Every choice is always accompanied by pain, because the choice will lose some people and things that we do not want to lose. In life, we are always making choices, giving up, only by giving up, we can have the opportunity to find our own life, so that we will not miss the person waiting for us at the next intersection, in order to get out of the past and no longer indulge, in order to be painful and happy, in order to live happily. If one day, we can't have or give him (her) happiness, then why can't we choose to give it up sensibly?
Even though every choice is accompanied by pain and regret, after experiencing these, we know how to cherish, know how to bear, learn to make trade-offs, understand the true meaning of life, and make our life more fulfilling, which is also a kind of possession. Only those who know how to give up can truly heal the pain of the past, feel the pain, and have real happiness, which is by no means indulgent and avoidance, let alone forced to make joy and forced to forget.
If you and I are destined to have no chance in this life, if he is destined to be a hurried passerby, then please let us learn to let go and know how to cherish it.
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If he will fall in love with me after hard work, I will try my best!
If I can't get him no matter how hard I try, I'll let it go!
If misfortune has fallen in love, give it up! It's no longer available.
What's the point of falling in love like this?
Just make yourself sadder.
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I also have someone I like very much, but I never say it because I know he doesn't like me and it hurts to say it back.
It will be myself, and I can't even answer my friend with him, so I chose to be silent, until we are all on our own side, I realized that real love, like, is not to get him, nor to have him, but to be good friends with him, so that it is satisfied, so when you love someone very much, and he doesn't like you, then you try to be friends with him, and one day you will find that this is also good.
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In fact, to tell the truth, it is not painful to give up a person who loves you very much, it is painful to give up a person you love very much, it is more painful to fall in love with someone who does not love you, it is destined to be a tragedy, some losses are doomed, some fate will never have results, loving a person does not have to have, since love is gone, then it is very simple to let go in a word, there is a kind of love called letting go, only letting go is a kind of relief, but also a new beginning and having, let go of the burden of the state of mind is much easier, Turn around and leave at the moment when the tears fall, don't let yourself get hurt, why hang on a tree with no sweetness, no happiness, no happiness, people don't love you, so how to slap people, the twisted melon is not sweet, why embarrass yourself? Why let yourself lose your self-esteem and self-love, indulge in pain, let yourself walk physically and mentally exhausted, scarred, why bother? It's not interesting, love is two-sided, it's not wishful thinking that there will be results, meeting is the destined fate of life, you can't force it, you will get it only if you lose, and those who refuse to lose your luggage will never swim to the other side.
Make yourself strong, have confidence and courage, live your own life, look back at the end of the sea of suffering, and find someone who truly loves you and what you love, which will comfort the wounds of your soul, make up for the shortcomings of your soul, and let you have and cherish. In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will be a better relationship waiting for you. At the very least, you will not live in sorrow, and you will find your own paradise, your own sweet, happy and happy life.
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As long as you like. Silently helping her.
Maybe someday. She sees that you care so much about her. She'll start to like you.
Do whatever you do as long as you don't give up. Even if it's only one percent of the time. are likely to succeed.
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I think it's time to go for it.
I can't get him in the end.
Then it proves that we have fought for it.
He didn't grasp our love.
That's his loss.
But I really tried for it.
Although we loved.
But in the end, they didn't get together.
I think so. Loving an individual doesn't have to be together.
As long as he is happy, I am satisfied.
I believe in finding someone who loves yourself.
It will be happier than finding someone you love.
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I will silently appreciate him and care for him, and I will be the first to comfort him and encourage him when he encounters setbacks, and accompany him out of the trough. If he is proud, I will bless him from afar and be happy for him.
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If that person doesn't love you, then why don't you love you?So you should cancel that image, whether he already has someone he loves, if there is someone you learn from, it's okay!
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Silently wish him (her) happiness、、、 as long as he (she) is happy, it will be 、、、
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Give yourself a chance, don't try to say that the other party doesn't love you, try your best and the result is not as you want, it is also a kind of happiness, so that there will be no regrets, good luck.
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No, if she doesn't love me, forget it, I'll find another one.
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