What if my boyfriend s parents don t approve of us being together?

If you like your boyfriend very much, and he likes you too, you should try any way possible to try to get his family's consent, whatever the outcome.

According to my analysis, the starting point of his mother's objection is a real-life problem, but this point is a shortcoming of the two of you, if you can find another advantage that his mother particularly likes, so that you can reach a small balance, and then you make up for your financial shortcomings by promising to fight for a period of time, and finally if you fulfill your promise on time, then you will all be happy.

A man who does not defend you, cowardly, has nothing to cherish.

Since your boyfriend is weak, you have to be tough!! Keep it up and prove to them that you are a capable person and a person who can make a lot of money! I think such a mother-in-law should be filial and tough to her, and she can't always bow to her.

She said that if she didn't agree, they wouldn't be together???

Well, the talk is definitely going to be discussed. But hopefully you can be firm and confident

Many girls will encounter a serious problem when they fall in love, that is, they plan to get married with their boyfriend, but their boyfriend's parents do not agree that they are with their boyfriend. At this time, if the boyfriend has not been firm, it is very likely that he will choose to break up with him, which will cause injuries to the two of them. So what should you do if your boyfriend's parents don't approve of two people being together?

If the boyfriend's parents don't agree with the two of them being together, then you can hide from the other party's parents at this time and fall in love quietly. Because many times the other party's parents do not agree to two people being together, because they don't know enough about themselves, or because it is difficult to accept it for a while. After a long time, the other party's parents' minds will change, so you can first hide from the other party's parents and quietly fall in love, wait until the other party's parents change their minds, and then confess to the other party's parents, and then have a good exchange, maybe the other party's parents will agree to the two together.

If the other party's father, Yu Zheng Ji, does not agree that the two people are together, it is caused by the other party's parents who have a misunderstanding about themselves, at this time, you can communicate with the other party's parents well, exchange opinions of both parties in depth, and try to resolve the misunderstanding. You can sincerely express your heart to the other party's parents, so that the other party's parents can understand that the two people are sincerely together.

If your boyfriend's parents are not satisfied with you, you can let your boyfriend persuade your parents more at this time. Many times, the other party's parents, as elders, don't like to put down their bodies and communicate with their juniors, but they can still listen to their son's words. At this time, as long as your boyfriend dares to persevere, the other parent's mind will change sooner or later, but be careful not to have a head-on conflict with your parents.

The man's parents did not agree with the countermeasures.

The man disagrees, don't feel that there is no future all of a sudden. First of all, look at your boyfriend's views and attitudes towards this, the attitude is positive, then insist, otherwise it is recommended to break up.

1. Look at your boyfriend's attitude.

If the man's parents disagree, the first thing to look at is the boyfriend's attitude. If your boyfriend is very resolute in order to be with you and has made a lot of efforts in front of the man's parents, it shows that he really loves you, and the two insist on convincing the parents is just around the corner. If you have a very negative attitude and do not have much positive effect on the relationship between your parents and you, then it is advisable to break up.

2. Persistence.

As mentioned earlier, your boyfriend has made a lot of efforts to make your parents accept you, and there will be hope for the persistence of those two people. Every parent wants their children to be happy, even if they don't agree to be together. When they see their boyfriend doing so much to be with you, they will also know that their boyfriend is happy with you, and they will always agree to it after a long run-in.

How to look at parental opposition.

1. Find out what the problem is.

No pair of parents will object to two people being together for no reason, so when parents disagree, be sure to find out the reason for the parent's objection and then actively solve the problem.

2. Look at it rationally.

There may not be so many contradictions between two people, but when two families are combined, there will be a lot of problems. For the problem that the parents do not agree with, we should look at it rationally and consider whether the two people are really suitable to be together, after all, the parents have more life experience than themselves, and they look at the problem in the long term.

Because the man who does not agree to give up on you.

said at the beginning that if the boyfriend gives up without making any effort because his parents don't agree, the little fairy doesn't have to be sad. Because even if you are barely together, your mother-in-law will be your super focus, and such a responsible man, your married life will be very hard, so this kind of person to break up is a better choice.

Marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, so once one party has a problem, then the life after marriage will not be happy, so whether the boy is still a girl, you need to solve the problems of the two families before marriage.