What should I do if my parents don t agree to be with my boyfriend?

Why is there a reason for the difference, sit down and talk about it, marriage is a big thing, you can't have a rebellious mentality, you have to think about the problem rationally.

Every parent wants their daughter to marry into a good family, and there must be a reason for their opposition. But if you insist on being with him, you have to think about it clearly, don't get carried away by love, everything is good when you're in love, don't wait for it's too late to regret it.

Weigh the pros and cons and see if this man knows that you are going against the wishes of your parents, and if he has the confidence and can put it into action to give you a happy life, you must seize it. If he doesn't have faith, your persistence is meaningless. I hope you are happy.

Hehe, communicate well with your parents, a lifelong event. It's up to you.

If you and your boyfriend are genuinely in love, you have to stay the course and prove to your parents how much you love each other, that you will be happy with him, that your parents love you, so they will make you happy.

Then why didn't your parents let you stay together?

Only the love of parents is the most selfless in the world, parents must have their reasons, lovers can be found again, and they will never come back if they lose their parents. Have a good talk with them.

Parents definitely have their ideas. But the only motive is for the good of his children. You have to communicate well.

If you really love him, try to convince your parents to accept him.

If your parents don't agree with two people being together, you can have a good talk with your parents to understand why they don't agree, and then work it out with your boyfriend.

After many people fall in love, they think that when they are about to get married, they will take the other half to meet their parents, but the standards of parents are different from those of their children, and many parents have their own considerations, and some parents will consider it comprehensively when facing the other half of their children, and they will not agree if they think that the two parties are not suitable. When faced with this situation, children should be considerate of their parents' intentions and patiently seek solutions. <>

1. Ask why your parents don't agree, and then think of a solution. Many young people are very blind when they talk about love, they only care about the good or bad of their feelings, and they don't think about their future life at all. However, parents think about different perspectives, and when they look at their children's other half, they will think about the future life of the two people, so the perspective will be different from that of their children.

When parents do not agree with two people being together, children should figure out the reason, and then persuade the parents to solve the doubts in the parents' minds. <>

2. Discuss with your boyfriend and face the problem together. Feelings need to be faced by two people, when one of the two parents does not agree with the two people together, must not face the parents alone, to the two people together to find a way to solve the problem, if the parents think that the two people are objectively inappropriate, make changes, let the parents change, if the parents subjectively do not agree with the two people together, the two people can show their attitude and determination to the parents together, dispel the concerns of the parents. <>

3. Both parties express their determination to their parents and patiently persuade their parents to agree. When parents do not agree with their boyfriend, they must not do it against their parents, otherwise it will deepen their parents' bad impression of their boyfriend, and they should patiently persuade their parents, when two people face difficulties together and can solve problems together, the parents' worries and reluctance will gradually weaken, and then persuading parents again will get twice the result with half the effort.

First, you can come to your home with your boyfriend and discuss and communicate with your parents. Second, insist on your own ideas, parents do not agree, mobilize friends and relatives to persuade parents together.

You should take the initiative to communicate with your family, and you should also talk about some good advantages of your boyfriend. In this way, you can get your parents to agree. You should also praise each other more. There is also the need to slowly do the ideological work of parents, so that it can be solved.

Summary. Hello, I'm glad to reply to you, what to do if your parents don't agree to be with your boyfriend: 1. Positive communication should first explain to your parents that you love your boyfriend very much, and he has many advantages.

In today's society, money can't solve everything, the most important thing is to value people's feelings, as long as they are good to themselves, that is the most important thing.

Hello, I'm glad to reply to you, what should I do if my parents don't agree to be with my boyfriend: 1. Positive communication should first explain to your parents that you love your boyfriend very much, and he has many advantages in the body. In today's society, money can't solve everything, the most important thing is to value people's feelings, as long as they are good to themselves, that is the most important thing.

Second, show your determination After all, when you are in love, you will live with your husband in the future, not your father sending Wang's mother to live with your husband. Although the opinions of parents also have a great impact on everyone, after all, they start their own family. If you choose to break up just because your parents don't agree, it's disrespectful to the other party, and it also means that you are very unassertive, so you can listen to your parents' opinions when looking for a boyfriend, but if your parents don't say anything right, you should correct it in time, and you can't listen to it blindly.

3. Listen to the opinions of your parents because your parents are very old, so they have a lot of experience in society. They may be able to see at a glance what kind of person has what kind of character, so as children, they should also listen to their parents' opinions and laugh at them.

1. Emphasizing that your boyfriend's good habits affect your parents' perception of the loser of the dating partner, and one of the most common ways to check the disadvantages is to emphasize the good points of your partner. 2. Show your commitment to your boyfriend.

They don't want me to marry far away.

How far? You are not an only child.

He is Guangxi, I Hunan, and I have a younger brother.

Then the teacher doesn't recommend marrying far away.

Marriage is a matter for two families. It's not a matter of two people.

After marrying far away, my daughter was bullied and had no mother's family, what should I do?

Your parents did the right thing.

But he was to me.

You think he's nice to you, don't you.

Be. What boy in love is not as good as a girl?

It's just how you get along, and you can't decide whether your parents will marry you off or marry you far away.

It's just too easy for you to think that what is good in love, and it will be the same if you are in marriage.

Summary. If our parents are against being with our boyfriends, we can try to tell our parents about the advantages of our boyfriends, and by talking more about the advantages, we can slowly change our parents' opinions about our boyfriends.

If our parents are against being with our boyfriends, we can try to tell our parents about the advantages of our boyfriends, and talk more about the advantages of our friends, so that we can slowly change our parents' and brothers' views of our male friends, and if we do a good job, we will often let our parents agree.

If your parents are against being with your boyfriend, we can also let your boyfriend make some efforts, constantly improve their abilities, and do a good job of being able to make some achievements, which is also easy to make parents change, and the better the results, the easier it is to succeed.

If parents are opposed to being with their boyfriends, we can also try to communicate with our parents to explain that the type of boy we like is what our boyfriend is like now, so that parents can understand why they chose him, which is very important.

Recently, I am about to get married, our local bride price is 100,000 yuan, the neighbors who are married around them are all 180,000 lead eight bride price, my object is in a different place, their wedding bride price is small tens of thousands, it may be a cultural difference, my parents feel that my former scum my boyfriend is not sincere, and I feel that the bride price is too Hui Sui is too quiet, so they have been persuading me, thinking that I am blind, he is not worth it.

I think I am getting married, and I am lowering myself to change the auspicious file, and it is true that his family conditions are not good, just a father in his sixties, a valuable villa, and his argument is gone.

In this case, it is a question of economic conditions.

said that he was afraid that I would endure hardships, first, his family was not enough for his parents to divorce, and secondly, the family conditions were dry and unbalanced, and he had no savings, and he was not stupid in his twenties, because he was deceived by pyramid schemes in the first two years.

Your parents are there for you.

To be honest, according to his conditions you said, it is really difficult to find a partner.

That is, he is the person who likes him.

You're hell-bent on getting married.

The combination of factors that parents say is not taken into account.

Brother, seeing that you are quite old, do you think he is suitable for life, he has a sense of responsibility, and he is very good to me, I have been talking to him for eight years, and his first love is him.

The premise of living is ability, and it is the economy.

To tell the truth, he went to Henan to set up a stall before, and he made a lot of money when there was no epidemic, but then he closed the city and returned to his hometown.

Is he a potential stock?

Summary. Every parent thinks about his children, because your boyfriend is not doing a good job, worried that you will marry and suffer hardships, and feels sorry for you, if you really love each other, try to convince your parents and ask for their consent!

Hello, the emotional problem is still decided by both parties, of course, parents have their parents' hail round concerns, because parents experience much more things, if you really love each other, communicate with your parents well, tell them that your boyfriend is very good, and the follow-up may be complicated by the family, but the person himself is very good, it is worth cherishing, and communicate well.

Hello, the problem of feelings is still decided by both parties, of course, parents have their parents' base bridge to take concerns, because parents experience much more fighting, if you really love each other, communicate with your parents who have eliminated their hands, tell them that your boyfriend is very good, worth cherishing, and communicate well.

Can you tell us why your parents disagreed?

Because this boy doesn't have a good job, he graduated from junior high school, and he is a driver.

I am a primary school teacher.

I am a college graduate.

Dear, this situation would normally be prevented.

So what should I do?

Every parent thinks about his children, because your boyfriend is bored with his friend's work is not good, he is worried that you will marry in the past, and he will feel sorry for you, and if you want to send a chop is your true love, try to persuade your parents and ask for their consent!

Or do you have plans for the future?

Is the boy going to be a driver all the time?

He is a truck driver.

The salary is more than 10,000.

It's a lot of money, but it's not stable, if you're looking for a civil servant, even if it's 3,000 a month, your parents will feel it.

Suitable. Because he can do it until he is old.

The driver is different, he always drives outside, and in the eyes of his parents, he is often not at home and can't take care of you.

And you're going to have to worry about him.

Summary. Even for your siblings, there is no need to be unhappy with them about this matter, just show your own intentions, so that they don't have to worry about you, but it doesn't seem good to say that, so thank them for their kindness, and they will naturally understand what it means.

Hello, I am very happy to answer for you, my parents do not agree with you to be with your boyfriend, I think my parents are from the past, they are very experienced in this area, since he opposes you being with your boyfriend, then they have their own ideas, so at this time you should also calm down and consider your parents' opinions, whether you are really not suitable for being with your boyfriend.

Of course, if you have been together for a long time and are truly in love, then you can communicate with your parents, explain your point of view, your confidence in being with your boyfriend, and through your sincerity and confidence, so as to convince your parents, and also agree that they will agree to you to rent a hui and be with your boyfriend.

If my siblings don't agree with me as a boyfriend, how do I get back to them?

Brothers and sisters don't agree with this Zhaozhi It's not a big problem, you can reply to them, I chose my own clan Song Minzhi and my boyfriend are also well thought out, and I understand your Sakura-shaped kindness, thank you.

Even for your brothers and sisters, there is no need to make a fuss with them about this matter, it is to show your own intentions, so that they don't have to worry about you, but it doesn't seem good to say that, so thank them for their kindness, and they will naturally understand what it means.

Parents do not agree to be with their boyfriends, listen to the reasons for their parents' objections, explain to their parents, behave in front of their boyfriends, make an agreement with their parents, don't quarrel with their parents, etc.

1. Listen to the reasons for your parents' opposition.

Don't drink your parents to "draw a line" just because your parents are opposed, and you must believe that your parents will not harm you. Ask your parents why they don't agree, and then calmly listen to your parents' analysis and understand your parents' painstaking efforts.

2. Explain to your parents.

Parents who disagree with their daughter's relationship are generally because they find that the boy has a bad personality, or the family conditions are not good, etc. At this time, you have to explain to your parents one by one according to the questions raised by your parents, so that your parents can understand that the truth may not be what they see.

3. Let your boyfriend behave in front of you.

Let your boyfriend show himself a lot in your parents' labels, and let your parents see that your boyfriend is not a good-for-nothing boy.

4. Make an agreement with your parents.

If you agree with the reasons why your parents are against you being together, such as the boyfriend's sexual circle, then you should make an agreement with your parents to give your boyfriend a period of time to correct himself. In this way, parents will be receptive to your advice.

5. Don't quarrel with your parents.

When your parents oppose your relationship, don't argue with your parents head-on, you should communicate with your parents calmly, see what your parents have said and written, and then make a decision. <>