When do you feel hopeless about marriage?

When you get married, you always want to grow old together, and in real life, the accumulation of little things makes you despair. I don't know what moment made you look at each other's faces

The most desperate thing is that I probably can't get along with the innocent heart at the beginning, and slowly realizes that it must become a game, and begins to use scheming everywhere.

Two people who don't understand the three views, life, and the expectations and risks of marriage, because of hormones, traditional concepts, and wanting to get married as a matter of course, gave birth to a baby before understanding the responsibilities of parents, and are struggling with each other.

It was the discovery that the person I married didn't love me at all. Don't think that love is an illusory word, in fact, in real marriage, it is the bits and pieces of life.

Marriage is originally happy, you should learn to get along, so that you can live happily, I won't let him despair.

For some special reason, they can't get divorced, but both parties ignore each other and can't start a new life helplessly.

I thought that if we got married, we would have a family, and then I found out that he already had a "home", and that family had his grandmother, his father, his aunt and even his cousin. This family is disdainful of me with a different surname, or people like his mother and aunt. Even if we have better material conditions and external conditions.

After 14 years of marriage, I found out that you entered into marriage because of love, but he was not. And you're going to have to live like this for the rest of your life.

The parties to the marriage have no respect for each other, no love, no cooperation, and somehow no end.

The child has a cough in the middle of the night to lose his breath, he has a fever and a cold and can't sleep well, his husband still snores like thunder, and finally has time to stay at home with the child, this is just sitting next to the child and playing with his mobile phone, never doing housework, occasionally sweeping the floor and running away from home irritablely, never supporting me in front of outsiders.

Since they are married, it means that in the future, the couple will have to work together to face the future life together. Being married is a small family that begins to become independent. I guess there are a few aspects of disappointment that I experienced.

1.Between the small family and the husband's original family, if you blindly favor the original family in the face of things, just like Su Mingzhe in "It's All Good", he is as foolish and filial as Su Mingzhe, and he doesn't care about his wife and children, he will be really disappointed.

2.No matter if the husband's purpose is to conceal it in good faith or intentionally, it will make the wife feel that her husband does not regard him as a partner, and she will be a little disappointed.

3.The most disappointing thing is probably that you think that when you start a family, you will choose each other, and you will treat each other as your support in this life, but when you accidentally find that your husband has always had a person in his heart, and that person is not you. That's really a disappointment in marriage.

Marriage is a science, and the husband and wife have a long time to go in their lives, and since they are holding hands, they will not give up easily. These disappointments are all problems in marriage. If there is a problem, it must be solved, and of course marriage also needs to be managed.

Disappointed because there is still hope. It's all because of the desire for love, so take the initiative to give love, take the initiative to try to communicate more, and empathize more, I think that slowly will influence each other, not to mention that they came together based on love at the beginning. If it is really from disappointment to despair, then it is not too late to give up, at least you have worked hard.

Disappointment in marriage starts with a few little things. After accumulating enough disappointment, I left, no goodbye, no helplessness, I used all my strength in this relationship, whatever you want.

At the beginning of a relationship, it is always full of beauty, I can't wait to know all the experiences of the other party, and every time I find a common ground, I feel that I am one step closer to the other party, as if there is an endless topic to talk about, tireless, and full of interest.

Even when you don't speak, you don't feel that life is difficult, because with you, we are full of confidence that the other party is the person I want to entrust, and your future plan has begun to have my place.

I don't know when it began, our habits of life and the tone of our speech are becoming more and more like each other, we don't have nothing to say, we don't even fight, and the necessary daily conversations are all about children, except that we have almost no topics to talk about.

Disappointed? And when did it start? Does the child get sick for the first time?

I'd love you to come back and help me? I didn't say it....I thought you would understand that my child and I need you very much, but you don't understand, except for a few WeChat questions to the child, do you still have a fever? You didn't say anything else.

Interestingly; Before, you took two days off to get married because you were young.

In the days when the child is sick in the future, there is still no you. I'm not helpless, I'm not scared, I'm not trying to cry. I didn't dare to get sick and began to fear death because I had someone I wanted to protect with my life.

Don't love it anymore? It doesn't seem to be, do you still love it? It doesn't seem to be...I was in an endless loop, yes and no. I can't find a standard answer. We are like two people who are glued, tearing apart and tearing apart, snuggling up to each other and feeling tired.

I wouldn't choose to end my marriage right away, because I think marriage is a relatively rational choice, and I can't take it personally.

In a marital relationship, two people need to look at relationship issues reasonably, and at the same time, they need to actively maintain the relationship between two people. Even if we are disappointed in each other, there is no need for us to divorce immediately. In a way, feelings are a matter of two people.

Since there is a problem in the relationship, it means that both people are responsible. I think we need to deal with the problem head-on, not through divorce to avoid the problem, and marriage will not solve the problem at the root.

First, I would choose to evaluate the relationship between two people.

However, I am very disappointed in the marriage of the current pure head, I will first calm down, and secondly, I will analyze the relationship between the two people. I will think about why the marriage between two people has come to this point, and I will also reflect on my own many behaviors in the marital relationship. All in all, I don't think about getting divorced right away, but about how to deal with it.

Second, I will find a way to actively communicate with the other party.

Because everyone's personality is different, I am personally a relatively extroverted person. When there is a problem in the marriage of two people, I will choose to take the initiative to communicate with the other party and try to find a solution. At the same time, I will try to understand the real feelings of the other party and try to resolve some unnecessary misunderstandings through communication.

If I'm disappointed in the other person, I'm sure the other person will probably feel the same way. <>

3. There will be no choice to evaluate the marriage of two people.

Divorce is not child's play, and it is impossible to choose divorce because of your emotions, which is a very irresponsible behavior, and it is also likely to make you regret it. I think everyone needs to be responsible for their own marriage, and we can't solve everything through divorce, because divorce doesn't solve the problem at all, divorce is just a means for us to avoid the problem temporarily. In this case of yours, I suggest that you actively communicate with the other person and try to solve the relationship problem through a rational attitude.

If I'm disappointed in my current marriage, I won't end this marriage immediately, Sakura Chop will calm down with each other first, and then talk about it again after calming down, if you can continue to talk about it, if you can't be together again, you can separate as soon as possible. You have to calm down and talk about it first.

No, I will communicate with the other party, find the problem between the two people, and actively solve the problem, life needs to be drafted and always run in, as long as the two people's hearts are ready to rise, nothing can not be overcome.

Yes, because then I won't feel happy in this marriage, it will only make me more miserable, and I won't let myself be in pain.

If I'm disappointed in my current marriage, but the backlash is that I'll consider my children to put up with it for a while. I can't stand it anymore, I will choose to end this marriage.

I would, and I was a very decisive person, so after seeing this noisy situation, a liter of rubber would choose to divorce, and if I persisted, there would be no result.