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Anonymous users2024-02-07All right. It's normal to be unhappy. However, the problem of unhappiness still exists, so we must adjust our emotions in time and face it positively.
If I were you, I would be united with him. Trust me, a little bump will only make your relationship stronger. After all, the future is to go together, and there will be more setbacks waiting for you ahead.
Talk to him, say something that understands him from his point of view, don't complain, say that you are willing to face it with him, and then see what he says. Then you have to be mentally prepared, I'm afraid this problem will be a long-term battle, take your time. You can grasp the fact that parents all over the world want their children to be well.
You can wipe a little tear in front of your mother or something and say how much you love him, persuade your mother to stop, and then ask him to find a time to buy something and come to your house to see your mother, with an absolutely respectful attitude. If it doesn't work once, I will come several times, and I said that we must be mentally prepared for a long war. You can go to his mother's house over there, it's still the same, the attitude should be good, and if it doesn't work once, come a few more times.
When both mothers are about the same, they can come out together to meet. said that mothers all over the world love their children. If you show that you love each other very much, and the other party does not marry, I believe that your mother will not be too embarrassed.
Finally, the process must be very hard, you have to be heart-to-heart and comfort each other. For the sake of a happy life in the future, everything that is endured now is worth it. Good luck!
Wishing you happiness!
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Anonymous users2024-02-06It's a bit difficult to do it, it's better to bring both parents to their own cities, but it's a little unrealistic. It doesn't matter if he can't afford a house As long as he has a heart to struggle, he won't be like this all the time. But have you ever seen a naked marriage, details defeat love.
So I think it's going to be hard for the two of you to be together.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Hey, speechless. Was your dad rich when your parents got married?
And then is your mother a very material person, has she often counted your father as incapable?
If you don't have either of the above, then you can still do your mother's work, and you can also ask your dad to help with the work.
If there is one of the above, it means that your mother has always been a very material person, and it should be true that she said a lot of things for your future material life, but her excessive participation will definitely add a lot of bad factors to the lives of the two of you.
Unless you find a rich second generation, you won't be able to satisfy her.
Then there's your mother's belief that your happiness is based on material things.
What kind of happiness do you want? I think you should have the answer yourself.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04This kind of thing is complicated and complicated, and simple and simple.
To complicate it, this is a pair of irreconcilable contradictions, your mother wants you to have a house when you get married, and the days behind are a little better, which is safe for you, because physiologically speaking, the woman is always in the weak party, and it may be a bit straightforward, but this is the case, but you can't buy a house right away. Contradictions are difficult to resolve.
To put it simply, happiness is in your own hands, first of all, you have to have a clear judgment about your boyfriend, whether it is a potential stock, how about personal qualities, how about your relationship, whether it can stand the test of time and money, if the answer is yes, then don't care about these, because it is an objective fact that you can't afford to buy a house now, and your mother has to let it be a subjective will to buy a house, and you can only change your subjective will when the objective facts can't be changed. If you have a good relationship and you have confidence in your boyfriend, you can convince your parents that happiness is your own, that you are adults, and that you should have your own opinions.
Speaking of which, my lover and I didn't buy a house when we got married, and the house was bought after we got married, and after giving birth, and now we have everything.
Finally, I'm a man.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03Old man, knife mouth, tofu heart, now avoid sharp, let your object care more about his parents, after a long time, everything will be solved. Now that the other party's parents are angry, it's best not to move their anger. Time will remove their anger.
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Anonymous users2024-02-02Whether it is a mother-in-law or a mother, they are their own elders, and they all have a respectful attitude towards them, and it is best to get along with each other.
Mother-in-law and mother actually don't usually have many opportunities to meet together, because they both have their own families, even if the mother-in-law goes to her son's house for a silver banquet, there will not be many times when the mother comes to her daughter's house to meet together, so if this kind of relationship between the in-laws is not speculative, as long as the harmony on the surface is maintained.
If the mother-in-law and Duan Lan's mother are very compatible and can get along like sisters, then it is the best.
Family harmony is what we have always been pursuing, especially when Feng Ranyin's daughter-in-law can meet the mother-in-law's wishes, and the days are getting more and more prosperous.
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Anonymous users2024-02-01When a woman gets married, she needs to deal with the relationship between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but there is a relationship, that is, mother-in-law and mother sometimes don't know how these two people should get along and how to position their relationship?
Whether it is a mother-in-law or a mother, they are all the elders of Minsou's own, and they all have a respectful attitude towards them, and it is best to get along with each other.
Mother-in-law and mother actually don't have many opportunities to meet together, because they both have their own families, even if the mother-in-law goes to her son's house, the mother will not come to her daughter's house to meet together, so if this kind of in-law relationship is not speculative, as long as the superficial harmony is maintained.
If the mother-in-law and the mother are very compatible and can get along like sisters, then it is the best.
If the mother-in-law and the mother are more cheerful personalities, they will not care so much, and they can make the relationship better for the children, like sisters, all in order to make the relationship between the children harmonious and the family harmonious, then you can contact more.
Everyone is like a family, moving around a lot, and if the relationship is very rigid, it is still rare.
As a woman, don't think that the requirements for your mother-in-law are the same as those for your mother, after all, you have no blood relationship with your mother-in-law, and you are the meat that fell from your mother.
Some people feel that they are filial to their mother-in-law, and their mother-in-law should treat themselves like their own daughters, but in fact, sometimes there is no such blood relationship, and there are still some differences.
Even if you quarrel with your mother, maybe your mother won't take it to heart, and you will get along with yourself normally later. But the mother-in-law herself politely to her, may also pick and choose, if she speaks a little bluntly, the mother-in-law may remember it in her heart, and she will have an estrangement to herself in the future, so as a woman, she must handle the relationship with her mother-in-law, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is handled well The atmosphere of the family is very harmonious, which is a good thing for everyone in the family.
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