How desperately should I be for enlightenment?

Updated on educate 2024-04-06
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Online dating is such a thing, some say it is reliable, and some say it is outrageous.

    But you don't know each other.

    Maybe it's really together, and it doesn't feel right again.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love is very selfish, and that's understandable.

    But living together is a real problem.

    Putting your mind at ease and giving her space is also giving yourself space.

    Love with distance can go further.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Is this netgirl still quite generous?,You can add it back if you delete her many times.,It's really yours.。 But it's still not interesting.,Why do people like to engage in online dating now?。 I feel that I prefer the illusory point, which can bring spiritual sustenance to myself.

    But think about the reality, it's better not to have any feelings for girls on the Internet. There are a lot of things on the Internet that are fake, so it's better to give up this online relationship.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Online dating is this thing.

    Be careful!! Big brother!!

    Haven't you seen many people who have turned their faces with their parents because of online dating, etc.?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Belch. I'm just online dating...

    My boyfriend and I met through ...

    It's good now, we're all college students.

    Uh-huh. You're going to meet first.

    And trust each other.

    Actually, you can date you online, or you can date someone else. If you don't trust each other, don't be together.

    Haha, we talked as soon as we went online, I have never been like this, and it feels very good, and we have a lot of common topics.

    Uh, I just like it anyway.

    After you meet, think about whether or not to continue......

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Get along for a while to determine whether she is sincere to you, use your heart to feel and experience, don't invest too much emotion at first, after all, it is online dating, if you are sure that she is sincere to you, then you need to trust her, give her her own space, it is not good to force too hard.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Just treat her as a fantasy in life, not really!! Do you understand??

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I felt the same way when I took the HKCEE last year.

    But then I got easier and easier on these papers.

    When you do it, you do it with all your might, and then after grading, listen carefully to the teacher's comments on the questions you made wrong, or ask your classmates. The rest of the time, you can read it as much as you like, but you must go through the wrong place in each test paper!

    As for the disappointment and lack of confidence that you don't do well in the exam, in fact, every year in the exam, unless you don't study, you can get a.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What makes you unhappy is the pressure of studying, and the common problem of feeling lonely ...... the post-90sIf you don't know how to do it, ask the teacher, look at the exercises, do more problems, practice makes perfect.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The entrance examination is not a selection, rest assured that the examination will be done, and it will be good for everyone to do a good job, and not everyone will be able to answer every question

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Some things don't deliberately change, then you will be very tired, last Sunday, I went to the library and bought three copies of "Meditations" in one go, everyone is eager to succeed, everyone is not willing to be ordinary, but in this world everyone's division of labor is also different, you can't see the halo background under the light as success, obscurity is mediocrity, just do your best, don't think too arrogant, each of us is ordinary, every day is doing ordinary things, It's just that you work very hard and hard to do that thing, and in the end, it doesn't seem so ordinary,。。

    When I first saw "Meditations" I was attracted by the words in it, living without dreams is equal to living in vain, I suggest you go and read this book "Meditations", although the sentences in it are a little profound, but for people like you who are thoughtful, you will definitely experience something from it.

    Don't be distressed, everyone has such a stage, the key is that you have to overcome it, overcome yourself!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you dilute your hopes and position your dreams lower, it is impossible for anyone to climb to the sky in one step, narrow the distance between reality and dreams, and then realize them step by step. Don't worry too much, think about it and do it seriously, believe in yourself, and you will succeed.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There are a lot of dreams, and that's good. Write down your dreams one by one in the order in which you want to achieve them, and write down the problems and troubles you are encountering in the process of realizing them, do you think you can overcome these difficulties? To reach the ideal is to have execution, "doing" is always more powerful than "talking".

    And trust your decision, many times it will be the same way. Life is not mediocre, it depends on how much sweat you are willing to pay.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's your psyche that makes your nerves very tense.

    However, try to relax and you will find everything so easy.

    Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The guest asked Master Xiqian. How is liberation? Answer. Who binds you? Asked again. How is the Pure Land? Answer. Who is the dirt of you? Ask again. How is Nirvana? Answer. Who will live and die with you?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I'm surrounded by people like that. You don't need to change. Recommend a book "West Point".Go for a book.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Find a job that you're willing to do. And then I'm looking for an opportunity. You have to train yourself first and gain social experience.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    What is the reason for the confusion? Have you thought about it yourself?

    It's not that you don't know what to do, it's that you don't know what you know! I don't have a skill, and I certainly don't know what I can do. In fact, the solution is very simple:

    While you are young, eat more hard. But to be effective. You can eat for two years, use the time you work to meet more people you think are successful, and you will find your interests.

    Then let's go to the study of true sex! In this way, when you have a skill, you will have rich social experience, and at that time, you may involuntarily realize that you need to learn a lot, and you will definitely learn more at that time. The more you learn, the wider the road ahead!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Go to play basketball, you can exercise, you can make a lot of friends, the key is that girls like boys who are good at sports. As for hand hair, if you don't pay special attention to your people, no one will pay attention, I think the connotation is the most important, you can draw, but also a skill, what's not happy, I think a boy who always smiles, even if it's not good-looking, it will be very sunny.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Believe in yourself that everything is possible.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Whether you look good or not is secondary, the main thing is that you have real skills, at least have a skill, and you can be the best in literature and martial arts, and your girlfriend will naturally like you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I don't think people who really like you will care about your appearance, but they have to make themselves stronger and develop personality charm.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    According to the landlord's description, you are in Beijing, he is in Chongqing, I am curious about how you met, I boldly speculate that you are online dating?

    Have you ever met each other, it's just a simple chat on the Internet to have a good impression of each other, if you haven't even met each other, I don't think it's optimistic. First of all, you have to find out if you really like him. Is it that you think too well of him in your mind subjectively, do you really understand him?

    He may not be as good as you think. Even if he is really good, you have to think about whether you really have the determination to go to him?

    Long-distance relationships are very tested, and there are many factors to consider and bear, if you run all the way to him, will your family be relieved to agree? Will he be able to give you the security you want to feel fully and wanted? Not only family members, but also many differences in living habits and other issues need to be considered.

    In this realistic and developed information age, there are fewer and fewer people who can communicate and talk with each other unscrupulously. As you grow older, you will unconsciously have a sadness that you will be more and more lonely as you grow up.

    With stepping into the society and entering the workplace, the competition between colleagues is inevitably intrigued, and it is not easy to make a few sincere friends, so more and more people choose to vent their emotions and find friends on the Internet.

    Sometimes all we lack is a listener who can speak freely and someone who can understand and appreciate ourselves. For this kind of good feeling, we can't define it as liking or even love, the Internet seems to be very compatible, but to return to reality, really face to face, maybe they won't have so much to say to each other, think about who really understands whom?

    In fact, many things may be unpredictable, and the result will only be known after experience, just like the Mayan prediction of the end of the world in 2012 was only proved and overturned at this time!

    I hope you are all the right people for each other, don't think about other people's feelings, don't care too much about unimportant things, and follow your heart. To like is to like, not to like is not to like, love itself is not complicated!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First, I suggest that you have an open and honest conversation.

    Talk about whether both parties can accept a long-distance relationship.

    Talk about the degree of stability and prospects for the development of the work of both sides.

    If one party's work is in a slight trend.

    Those who are on the other side consider giving up their jobs.

    Start over in the opposing city.

    If the work is all about the same.

    The woman is advised to give up her job.

    Go to each other's cities for development.

    Anyway, I will marry into their family in the future, be closer to home, and someone will take care of me.

    Second, if none of them are acceptable.

    Just consider the long-term development of a long-distance relationship all the way to the possibility of marriage.

    I've seen a lot of friends around me who have failed in long-distance relationships.

    My wife and I also came to my city.

    When you're hurt and want to be comforted, you don't have him or her around, and when you want to go shopping on the weekend, you don't have him or her around

    When you are sick, there is no him or her around

    When it's time for the holidays, there is no him or her around

    When ......There is no him or her around

    That's when another one or her appeared

    You will question your love ......

    So long-distance relationships are tough, and if you do hold on, then your love is strong.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This is a very real problem, but anyone who is about to reach the age of marriage will consider it carefully when encountering such a situation. Be able to understand the mood of the landlord.

    You want to go to him, then what does he think, girls want to be with the person they like and be able to see each other every day, I can understand the pain of a long-distance relationship, but the information you leaked to me makes me feel that your relationship is not stable enough, so you will have such concerns, I think you don't have to worry, if the other party thinks that you can marry you, he will definitely offer to let you go to his city to work, and will also take you to meet your parents, before he makes these moves, you don't go to his city.

    You said that you got along some time ago, then you must not be together for too long, you may need a while to understand each other, don't be in a hurry to make a decision, and don't put all your thoughts on him, you don't need to be entangled now, work well in Beijing, and then get along with each other for a while, you will naturally know in your heart whether to go or not, there is not enough reason for you to go to his city, don't make a decision, don't be too anxious

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Clause. 1. If you want to go over, it must not be just your idea, it must be the common desire of both of you.

    Clause. Second, work and love, I still recommend lovers. It's rare to see anyone who can do their job as a career.

    Clause. 3. Happiness does not wait for anyone, don't suffer from gains and losses, you can find a good job, but not everyone can find a good husband.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's the same with me. I'm Shijiazhuang.

    Girlfriend Ningxia. I think this problem still depends on the future planning, if you are dead to each other, then a long-distance relationship is not impossible, if you have to be together, then I think it is better to give up if you don't develop well to find a good development, if he really loves you, you can accommodate you, it's a good thing for a boy to come out and break through, and a good boy has ambitions in all directions. Let's see what your boyfriend thinks.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I'm upstairs and downstairs all wondering how I met, be careful of being deceived! Everyone understands sweet words. Anyone can be handsome.

    Since it's a girlfriend, I call him to come over with a courier gift every other month, or a courier gift for the New Year's holiday. Let's see if he agrees or refuses. You may think that we don't understand the amorous feelings, but we all understand the hypocrisy of the Internet.

    Let's call him a courier gift. Or tell him to come to Beijing when he is free, and you don't want to go to Chongqing. I don't know you well, I really sold you, and you still helped him count the money, and there are news about such things.

    In fact, two people have to really get along together to know if they love each other. It's a very simple thing, how far apart you are, you don't know how many girlfriends he has.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's simple. Accept a long-distance relationship, stay together.

    Don't accept it, break up.

    Sometimes don't think too much, think about the source of the trouble, and make a choice.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    A girl who is in love, I think if you find a man, you should let this man bear your worries for you, you still see how he thinks about it, and then make a decision.

    If he is not willing to choose and cannot give you a solution to attach, I think you should give up decisively. If the other party is willing to join you and start to find you a more suitable receiving unit in Chongqing, then he loves you, so don't worry.

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