My sister is third, I moved back after I got married to support the two old people, and I have 20 ac

This is a matter for your own family, especially between siblings.

Supporting the elderly, all children are responsible, you are now helping the elderly to plant more land for you, you can negotiate with other sisters, the money can be less or not out, as long as you reach a consensus.

If this is the case, then you don't have to pay for it, but if there are two elderly people, the cost should be shared equally among the three children.

After you checked the marriage at home, you moved over to speak, and the two old people I think that if you don't give money, it depends on your actual situation, how to say this, it should be a matter of you coming and going.

My third sister moved out to support the second elder after I got married. Two old men. There are 20 acres of land, should I give it to it? Because you raised the second elder on 20 acres of land, you should have planted it yourself. Whoever is in charge of the old will plant this land.

The two old people you raise, all the old people are used by you, so it doesn't matter if you give money or not?

If you are the one who supports the two elderly people alone, then you don't have to pay money, and your sister and others can pay for it.

I think that since you support the elderly, your family's 20 acres of land, you don't need to pay for planting them, after all, you have already supported them, and the old man has fulfilled his obligations.

If your sister kills you and moves back to support the two old people after you get married, you don't have to give money.

It depends on whether your parents left a will before they died.

If you don't leave a Will, you've moved out.

Under normal circumstances, it is not possible to divide the land.

But. Statutory succession.

Chapter II, Article 10.

The estate is inherited in the following order:

First order: spouse, children, parents.

Second order: siblings, Qingyinmei, grandparents, maternal grandparents.

After the inheritance begins, it is inherited by the first-order heirs, and the second-order heirs do not. If there is no trace of the inheritance of the first-order heirs, the second-order heirs shall inherit it.

The term "children" in this Act includes legitimate children, illegitimate children, adopted children and dependent stepchildren.

The term "parents" in this Act includes biological parents, adoptive parents and dependent stepparents.

The term "brothers and sisters" in this Law includes siblings of the same parents, half-siblings or half-siblings, adoptive siblings, and step-siblings who have a dependent relationship.

Chapter II, Article 13.

The share of inheritance inherited by heirs in the same order shall generally be equal.

Heirs who lack the ability to work who have special difficulties in life shall be taken care of when distributing the inheritance.

Heirs who have fulfilled their main obligation to support the decedent or who live with the decedent may receive more dividends when the inheritance is distributed.

If an heir who has the ability and the capacity to support does not fulfill his obligation to support, the inheritance shall be distributed without or less.

Where the heirs agree through consultation, it may also be unequal.

It's a serious problem. How much money did their family give you when you got married? If you don't give it, his sister's 20,000 won't be returned, and your father's 10,000 won't be paid. This kind of person loves money if he doesn't love his wife, and he should think twice about divorce! (When he returned to his parents' house, he knew that he would regret it).

There should be no need to give money here, because you are not married, go with your parents, your parents can give money, it is your sister who gets married, and it is not your sister who gives birth, if your sister gives birth, you should give New Year's money.

If your family background is okay, forget it, you should honor the second elder.

Haha, the question asked is stupid, three acres of land belong to the state, and if you marry out, you have to divide the acres of land. It's a selfish person.

Don't seek equality and self-balance, it's all a family, what's not to look down on? Let is the blood is thicker than the water of the real di, your feelings for your brother to your sister, family music dissolve.

The land belongs to your brother, and it is a favor for her to be willing to help, and there is nothing wrong with not being willing, but she is a little bit picky about her mother, and your mother also dotes on her grandson.

I can't say that, the old will always prefer children, but if you're pregnant, you won't let you, and it's not good

Fight for one and close one eye, can't get used to it, and don't work or play yourself.

You don't scold your mother for being cheap!

After reading it carefully, although so, he is still you, understand,

The three brothers in your family are the eldest, you are not at home all the year round, and the other two brothers have divided your land. You are away from home all the year round, and your brother divides your land.

It's also a good thing to be planted, if you still want to go back, don't you just want to come back? If they don't want to give, they can negotiate privately through your parents and elders. If it doesn't work, find the village committee to solve it.

The land in the countryside is distributed to which household and person, and the location and area are all certified and registered, and no one can occupy it unless you voluntarily transfer it. Your brothers are just greedy when you're not at home, just let them return it.

Please settle the score, brother! As long as your hukou is still in place, you will have a share of the land. If you plan to recover it, you will definitely hurt your brother's feelings, but what is yours is yours, you should chase it, you should want it, and you can claim your rights and interests through the village and township.

Their partition is legally invalid, and you can get it back through the village council.

If they don't want to give it to you, you can go the legal route.

It's your land, and no one else can take it.

Negotiate a solution on your own, and if you can't solve the problem, you can intervene in mediation with the village committee, and if the mediation fails, you can only collect evidence and go through legal procedures to sue the other party. Apply to the court to hear the judgment in accordance with the law and protect your own lawful rights and interests.

Go to them to theorize, listen to what they say, after all, they are brothers, be reasonable first, and if you can't reason, then go to court to get your land back.

This can be found in the village, and there will be a registration of the confirmation of the right to contract and manage collective land, which will be clearly recorded. First brother consultation. If not, they can be sued.

Then go straight to a lawyer. Go to court and sue them.

Be kind to your wife, divide the work, live together, there is nothing that cannot be solved, do something that touches your wife. Your wife will be nice to you and your family, otherwise the relationship will only deteriorate.

According to you, your wife is a college student.

du, college students are so unreasonable, is it really incredible? A wise person should not be concerned about the small things in life.

A little tolerance, less trouble, acquaintance, blind date, love, is fate, each other should be cherished, all mothers, are highly educated people, face up to their own shortcomings, more understanding, do a little filial piety.

As a matter between husband and wife of the former bai

Whoever does it is the same, she earns a lot of money, you are the same in the zhi family, there is always a person in the inner family, ignore her if you quarrel, you can't laugh at it, and it will pass. Disrespect to the elderly is intolerable, you can imagine that your daughter-in-law will do the same to you. You sit down with her and talk about it well, you and her don't quarrel with him to empathize, if it doesn't work, divorce, it's not easy for my parents to support me, and it's not easy for your father to be a farmer for you to go to college, and even the most basic filial piety is gone, what is the difference between it and animals, my opinion is only for reference.

Alas! It's always not so smooth copy. Miss you When I didn't have money before, life should have been good.

Your wife doesn't have those things either, does she.) Now that your family conditions are good, she is here again. Life is like this, every family has difficulties, think about it, not only your family has difficulties.

You can just talk to her and see what she has to say.

5555 is also poor bai

Person. My husband is about the same as your wife! In fact.

Zhi me and my husband are in a dao

Now, the full version is supposed to be for me can't let go of the right.

My 4-month-old baby, and his mother, because his mother treated me, I felt very good, I don't want to have such a mother-in-law! We've only been married for a little over a year... I still want to try to maintain it!

Alas, it is difficult for every family to read the scriptures. Let's sit down and talk. Ten years of affection is not shallow. This is within.

The crux of the matter is not just that your wife interferes with your filial piety. If a loveless marriage continues to be together, it is immoral, this love is love, it can also be family affection, friendship. But to hear you, it seems that there is nothing at all, only exhaustion.

Although she has a higher income, you are not low? Financially, it is completely self-dominant. The way forward is still to think about how to go, let go if you can't get together, and my son definitely doesn't want to live in a noisy family every day.

In the long run, it will end up being a lose-lose situation.

One thing I need to explain is that my wife has a bad temper, but she is still very good to me. This year, it cost more than 6,000 yuan to buy clothes for me during the Spring Festival, and she herself didn't have to spend money to pick cheap ones, and the clothes she bought for herself were only 1,000 yuan. The buttonhole of his belt was broken, and he was reluctant to buy a new one, so he tied it with a thin rope.

However, do I think it's necessary to live like this, I don't think it's really necessary.

She is actually very tired, and it is not easy, the child educates her to see more than anything else, the old mother who can't take care of herself also needs someone to take care of her, the nanny has changed one after another, always unsatisfactory, usually the work pressure is still very great, the work is not finished, the ** that can not be picked up, is busy until more than seven o'clock in the evening every day. I think she's pitiful too.

However, living in such a family, I feel exhausted, very painful, very helpless, every day watching a family of three walking in the yard together, talking and laughing, I feel really envious, I can't help but look at it twice. I know that a person's personality is very difficult to change, the key is that she never thinks she is wrong, she does not change her mind. Last time, we quarreled about divorce, and then we reconciled, and we set up a note and three chapters of the law, but then I thought about it, she didn't do any of it.

What am I going to do? How can such a life change? Please help.

You just can't post some of your own!

What you have to do now is to put that in your heart first

One he removes, of course.

Zhi is thinking about whether the current dao husband is a useless version, you stand in your husband's position and think about what you will do if you are him, love and marriage are not the same thing at all, you always compare lovers with husbands, there may be no good husband in the world, love is idealized and ugly can become beautiful, and marriage is realistic, see each other's shortcomings, all the advantages have become due, don't always complain about others, first think about what you have done, A happy family is formed by mutual tolerance and mutual appreciation.

How long have you known each other and got married, did you give birth to a baby for him without a license?

People with different views can't live together at all, and they only have children in their attachment to marriage, but I think it's not a good thing to divorce in such a family, but you need to be determined, I'm now the same as you, just for the sake of the children to maintain this marriage that exists in name only! Good luck!

Hello this friend!

After reading your long description, I have a general idea of what is going on in your family.

Exclusively from your description of the genus.

A large part of the contradictions and disagreements between you and your wife are due to the discord between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Your description mentions many times that your wife is struggling with your mother over trivial matters. This may be the crux of the matter.

At least in the eyes of the counselor, when you have a conflict between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you are inactive. You don't seem to act as a lubricant, but are blaming your wife.

You may have been dating for a short time before you got married, but your willingness to enter into marriage with her shows that in your opinion, he and she have obvious advantages, so ten years later, are her advantages still there?

From your description, your wife has no advantages other than your income, and the counselor does not see any advantages in your wife. That is, in your opinion, your wife is a good-for-nothing person.

Despite the many conflicts and disagreements in your family, you seem willing to continue to maintain the family. In this case, the psychological counselor recommends that you pay attention to the conflict between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, because this matter is by no means trivial; It is recommended that you change your opinion of her, consider her feelings, and discover her strengths. The counselor believes that your wife has shortcomings and shortcomings, that you are able to pay attention to the way you communicate, that she appreciates your love for her, and that she will adjust herself for you.

If you have any confusion, you can continue to communicate, and I wish you happiness!

When you run out of oil and your youth is gone, you won't have a chance to regret it. Make your decision early.

The only person who can determine your happiness is yourself. Always feel how others will live, what the outside world will think, then you can only suffer like this.