A 21 year old man is distressed about what to do

Brother, many things are not a matter of liking or not, it is a matter of survival, it is a matter of responsibility, it is impossible for the family to support you for a lifetime, you always have to go out and live by yourself. Take 10,000 steps back, even if you are raised at home, will you be okay? Do you have the dignity and confidence?

You said you don't like work, and I'm a little wondering, so what should I do in life? Eat, sleep, eat, sleep? It's over in a lifetime?

Young people, be aggressive, don't be so sluggish. Even if you play games, you have to play games well, and maybe you can make a living by playing games.

As for what to do, the first thing is action. Get out for a walk and do something. I recommend a book to you, you can find it on the Internet, "The Diary of the Poorest Young Man in the Country Making a Fortune", after reading it, you will be very touched.

The author used to be a fool of the past, but then he gradually changed, and in two years, he became a millionaire.

Life is full of miracles, and you are the protagonist of life!

Playing games will eventually get tired of playing games one day, especially in the next 3-5 years when you see your friends of the same age marrying and having children after supporting themselves, and the whole family will be happy. Playing games is just a momentary pleasure, and after playing, you will feel empty, helpless, and lost, and I'm sure you've already experienced it.

21 years old is a very good age, the road ahead of you is wide and you can't see the edge, you used to be lazy because no one taught you, so you couldn't be blamed. However, now that you have matured, you should think carefully about what you can do for the long term.

I suggest that you can consider re-studying, get a degree (it is very difficult to get employment in the society with a junior high school degree), and then find a way for your father or acquaintance to find an industry for you to learn a skill, and at least you won't be hungry if you have a craft (you must know that your parents will not be with you for a lifetime); I don't know what kind of education you have now, you can go to a school that can give you vocational skills, such as finance and accounting, etc.

Don't get along with your stepmother, it will make your father very embarrassed, and don't do anything wrong with playing games at home, even if you are your own mother, you will also complain, your father gave you life no matter what, and it is filial piety to make your father less troubled for the son of man.

Since you ask questions, I believe you can get out of the quagmire. Try to make as many mentors and friends as possible in life, people's eyes and hearts are often blinded, if there are mentors and friends to help remind you and guide you, it is a great blessing!

Remember, there's no such thing as a pie in the world, and you have to rely on your own hands to get it. Ay. It stands to reason that you should be running around the university playground at the right age.

You can't wait for the pie while sitting, do you want your dad to raise you for the rest of your life? It's better to work your own to find a way out.

Like me, sit back and wait for the pie to trap.

Nowadays, most of the 22-year-old boys should be studying in college or junior college, and some of them are working, but almost all 22-year-old boys have no work experience. That's all they have in their minds:

Mix and eat and wait for the death game.

Sleep fantasy gnawing old people.

Diligent and diligent work.

Hit a wall everywhere for a way out.

Looking for a woman.

When I was 22 years old, I worked in a factory, a salary of two thousand seven a month, 11 hours a day, and a day off on weekends, the work was very hard, many times the tired arms were trembling, and the long-term light physical labor made me wonder if my muscles were wooden. During this period, I also fell in love, all of them were girls who chatted online, some of them met, and more of them did not meet, because although some girls chatted very happily, but the distance was too far, although my salary could cope with each other's consumption, but my working hours did not allow me to go out too far.

Yes, I have always been single, that is, when I was 22 years old, I suddenly figured it out and let go of the obsession of my first love. The girls I talked about later on the Internet also dissipated with the passage of time, nothing else, except that I spent most of my time working, but I still didn't make any money, so I became empty. I don't like to say that I'm not married because I don't have the ability to make money, and boys who don't have the ability to make money also have physiology, need women, need to get married, and need children.

The same ability to capture women. At the age of 22, you should cherish it!

I wish you all 22 years old forever.

While listening to his ex-girlfriend, the boy took out his phone and silently deleted all the games there. Because at this moment, he has changed from a boy to a man. Because he knows what he should do, and he knows what kind of love and protection he should give to his family.