What should I do, divorce or endure

He's your husband, and his family is nothing to you, if you're a Westerner.

I used to have the same problem as you, I used to expect my husband to act as an intermediary to coordinate all my problems with their family, always thinking that it was his family, and he could say anything. After a few years of marriage, I realized that I didn't think it was going to work, because he was a bad guy and he was going to make things worse. Later, I stood up on my own, and I told his sisters about something, and at the same time, consciously distanced myself from his family, and almost only met for New Year's gifts, and the gifts were still exchanged, and everyone was polite.

Now there is no problem.

If you still love your husband, defend your new home and put the chores aside, if you don't love it, it's hard to say.

You're all like this. What else is there to forgive and not forgive. Do you work together to pay back the money?Don't be too nice to their family in the future. Otherwise, they'll have to get here.

This sister, your experience is almost the same as mine, I just got the marriage certificate and before the ceremony was held, I already had a debt of 130,000 yuan on my head. I would say that this is all a debt that my husband had already made empty before we had a formal relationship, and I am only 24 years old this year. When I married him at the time, I just thought that he was kind and willing to endure hardships, after all, women always need to find a reliable man.

He hasn't read much, he just runs a small business on his own, I don't know if it's because he has a bad chance or because he's not a business himself, and now the debt is getting more and more empty.

To be honest, I really regret marrying him in the first place, although I don't want his money, even if my life is almost fine. It's just that I really can't stand the feeling of being forced into debt all day long, but I haven't thought about divorcing him. I'm just silently looking forward to helping him, hoping that one day we can pay off our debts and go to work together to live a dull life.

If the other party deliberately deceives you, then you have the right to leave. If he just loves you, I believe that he will one day let you live a good life.

The main thing is to be able to make more money later, and saving money is not a wise choice.

Since your husband said that he asked for it, then give him a step down and pay it back, otherwise it will be difficult for him to be a man, and it will affect the relationship between husband and wife. After saying that, you don't mind that your husband's family has no money before you get married, and now that the marriage is over, there is no need to worry about it, you should give his parents filial piety in advance.

If you want to open a little, you are still young anyway, and money can be earned, but family harmony is not something that money can buy.

Here's my answer to the question "What if marriage is miserable for you, but you can't get a divorce?" "Opinion:

Marriage is important for everyone, but how many people are happy in this world? In fact, very few marriages are truly happy and painless. In most marriages, it is normal that we cannot live without it.

I really wanted to get a divorce, but I was scared, I was worried. However, I can't stand the state of "no divorce", which is a struggle for many unfortunate people in their marriages. When a marriage comes to an end, the most painful thought is that it cannot be separated from the marriage, and that this thought is bad.

Marriage is a spiritual practice, and the "spiritual practice" itself is painful. If you understand this fact, you will feel relieved when your marriage suffers. In fact, most marriages in this world are incomplete.

Even if your marriage is unhappy, you don't have to be too disappointed. If you don't want to get divorced, you might as well try to change your relationship. However, living an inglorious life while torturing each other is the least desirable.

Now that we've decided not to leave, we should all work harder for each other. The rest of our lives won't last long. We should try to love each other instead of torturing each other.

Many couples have nothing to say, not necessarily because they do not love each other, but because they do not understand communication, that is, they lack communication and do not maintain and strengthen the bond of affection.

That's my answer to the question "What if marriage makes you miserable, but you can't get a divorce?" "Opinion:

Then go out and live, out of sight and out of mind.

Then it can only be separated temporarily, and both sides have calmed down for a while, looking at hope.

Then it's good to live separately from him and not see each other.

Let's try to make yourself better.

That's probably not really like you.