How do you manage to make a relationship not tired?

Presumably, it's about loving yourself more. <>

Loving yourself more is actually giving each other more space. I used to love each other more for a long time, and he had a sore throat, so I would go buy pears to steam the next day; When he said he wanted to eat, I would learn to cook that dish, so that whatever he ate afterwards was what he liked to eat, and what I didn't like; He wants to go out and play, and I will accompany him to hang out even if I am tired. At that time, I thought that love was about loving each other unreservedly, until later, he began to not contact me and snubbed me for a long time.

We had a good chat afterwards, and he said he thought I was too clingy to him. In fact, the meaning of this sentence is that I am so centered on him that there is very little space for him and for me. At first, I was uncomfortable for a long time, but then I gradually wanted to open it, and I would no longer take care of his taste when cooking, and I would not force myself anymore when I felt tired, and I would not always think about him when I bought things.

To put it bluntly, you are not so gentle and considerate, and you are more freewheeling, and you feel comfortable yourself, and this relationship will naturally not be tired. I used to take into account his psychology in everything I said and did, and for a long time, I was defending his masculine self-esteem, but instead restraining my own nature in many places. Later, I didn't think too much about it after I found that I seemed to have reached a dead end, just like before falling in love, I thought about what to say, I relaxed a lot, and the other party didn't have such a big psychological burden, and the relationship between the two people gradually changed from each other carefully back to the original state.

In short, I think that no matter what the relationship is, we must learn to love ourselves. To put it in layman's terms, we all have to be selfish, not so kind, gentle, and generous. Of course, it's not to say that you have to be unreasonable or vexatious, I think the easiest time in a relationship is when there is some ambiguous relationship before the relationship, if you feel tired in a relationship, just think about how you got along at that time, maybe you can solve the deadlock.

You can make a little surprise in your life, and you can live with her in the way you usually live.

Through my own tolerance, I made it easier for me to get along with each other, and in the process of getting along, I also learned to give.

If you want to be emotionally not tired, don't be so constrained, return him free in the relationship, and let him soar as he wants.

To make a relationship not tired, the first thing to do is not to ask the other party to do too much for yourself, and then to make your mentality particularly good.

Couples get along with each other every day, how to "not get tired", these 3 points are really important.

1. Two people should have the same three views, and their personalities and hobbies are somewhat different and can be slowly run-in; 2. Be honest with each other, one party can have some little secrets, after all, everyone has secrets;

In the relationship, if you want the two to "get along without getting tired", the two people must understand each other, respect each other, and discuss things when they encounter them.

Two people should learn to leave enough personal space for each other, and learn to respect some of each other's lifestyles and each other's ideas.

The best way is to find the areas in the relationship that you feel tired and correct them, and both parties can communicate with them. Everyone understands each other, it is normal to have conflicts in the relationship, and the best solution is for us to face this contradiction and come up with a solution together, which is the best way, not to give up.

The best thing to do is to choose to break up, if the relationship makes you particularly tired and unhappy, and often brings you negative energy, it means that the relationship is not suitable, and you can choose to break up.

Two people calm down, think about whether the two of you are suitable, if the three views do not agree, you can choose to let go, there is no need to wronged yourself.

I am reluctant to break up, in my opinion, for two reasons. First, you still like him; Second, you are used to the existence of the other party, and you can't get entangled in whether to let go or not.

A good relationship, I think both parties are happy and comfortable together, if one party feels tired, it means that one party has begun to feel uncomfortable in this relationship, this may be temporary, or it may be because some small problems have not been well solved for a long time.

If it is the first case, then you are very lucky, it means that you are only a small problem for a while, at this time, you can find a time for both parties to sit down and talk about how we will go in the future, how to solve this problem now, etc. If it is the second type, you can't say that you are unlucky, you can only say that the previous problems have not been solved in place, or that you really don't fit each other well.

Feelings

The feeling of not being seen and touched is very wonderful, the relationship between two people starts from that fate, it allows you to meet in hundreds of millions of people, and writes your own story for you, which is a wonderful thing in itself, and you are also trying to create a story between two people, which is a kind of giving, since there is pay, then it will definitely bring people tired.

In this relationship, there are some quarrels and contradictions caused by some minor problems, and there are also disputes caused by incompatible personalities or different interests, which are very common in the relationship between two people, "It is impossible to last long without quarrels", this sentence has been heard by many people.

Although there are many people who are skeptical about this, but the facts have verified the truth of this sentence, if there is never a quarrel between two people, those two people are likely to be angry because of a small incident one day, and even have the problem of relationship breakdown.

Therefore, some small quarrels in the love life are very helpful to the relationship between two people, and it can make the relationship between two people stronger. If one of the two people tolerates the other at every turn, for fear of causing a quarrel between the two people, then the other party of the relationship can easily gain an inch.

In fact, two people are more together or good memories, which is also the reason why two people never give up, although they also pay a lot for this relationship, but the two people rely on each other, bringing spiritual comfort to both parties, so even if there is any conflict and unhappiness between the two people, they will soon get back together.

1. Common progress, two people want to manage their feelings well, they must have the consciousness of common progress, if two people do not progress together, then the party that makes rapid progress will get rid of the other party who is standing still, one person is moving forward, the other party is not moving, the gap between the two people is getting bigger and bigger, and the distance will become farther and farther, which is not conducive to the development of feelings.

2. Don't rely too much on each other, even if you love that person again, you are an independent person first, love yourself first, and then love each other. Have your own independent personality, no matter how much you can handle all aspects of your life, you can handle it well.

3. Trust each other and learn to give yourself a sense of security. In many things, leaving the choice to the other party will have unexpected gains. If you restrain the other person in everything and let the other person do what you want, so that you can feel at ease, it is a big mistake.

Some things can never be controlled, and they will only add unnecessary contradictions to the two of you.

Defining a relationship too quickly can reduce the value in the relationship of one of the partners. Two people do not know each other deeply enough, which will lead to crossing the adaptation period and directly entering the love period, and the conflict outbreak of the later breakup contradiction will also come extremely quickly, burying a deep hidden danger for the breakup or the breakdown of the relationship, at this time, we must make a careful decision based on the actual situation of the other party. Therefore, it is generally recommended to take your time in the process of establishing a romantic relationship and not to rush too much.

Now many people are reluctant to fall in love, and feel that it is very tiring to fall in love, and it is more comfortable for a person to do whatever they want, so that there are many single people in the fight now, let's take a look.

How to get along with each other when they are in love.

Trust each other, the man should be responsible and tolerant, and the woman should be kind and reasonable. The most important thing is to understand each other and have the same values. Communicate more, reduce suspicion, don't care too much about their own gains and losses, and use good attitudes and skills to manage love, so that love can go longer.

A way for two people to get along without getting tired when they are in love.

The best state for two people to fall in love is to have the same three views and be like-minded. Only when you think in one place and work in one place, will you not get tired of getting along. A very important prerequisite for two people not to get along is that you have a lot of common language, you have a good heart, and you have a strong tacit understanding.

What is the best state of love?

The best state for two people to fall in love is not to get tired of getting along. And the premise of not getting tired of getting along is that even if you quarrel occasionally, you will quickly reconcile. Occasional quarrels between lovers may enhance their feelings for each other, which is a kind of joy of life.

However, if you quarrel at both ends for three days, or even fight to the end at every turn, then this will not help your relationship development at all, but will easily lead to the collapse and disintegration of your relationship.

Tips for getting along in love without getting tired.

1. Reduce the sense of dependence.

It is normal for couples to have a sense of dependence, but the degree of dependence must be reasonably controlled. Too much dependence will cause a burden to the other party, no dependence, and it seems that the relationship is too indifferent, and these two spring leaks will make it difficult for couples to get along.

2. Less is more real.

In a relationship, if everything has to be justified in black and white, you are long and I am short, then this kind of relationship is really tiring. It's not a good thing to be too serious, for this world, everyone has their own thoughts, and they also have the right to express their own thoughts, it doesn't matter if you have different ideas, if you have to live and die because of this, it's meaningless, and it will only make Coversen grind feelings regenerate suspicions.

3. There is pay, there is return.

Everything in the world pays attention to the law of conservation of quality, and the same is true in relationships, when you give, you definitely want to get the other half in return, when the other half pays to you, the same.