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In a marriage, bread and love are equally important, if you have to distinguish which of the two is more important, presumably many people will choose bread, and I also think that in a marriage, bread will be more important than love.
Everyone wants to have a prosperous life, a better retirement environment for their parents, and a better education for their children, all of which need financial support. At the beginning of a marriage, two people can rely on love to be dissatisfied with life in each other's hearts, and can slowly comfort themselves and adapt to such a life, but in marriage, you can't use love to fill the bread gap from the beginning, and you have to admit that love can't make up for the bread gap in many cases. <>
Bread it brings people peace of mind, there are many people who say that you can't even eat enough and talk about love, in fact, this sentence also has a certain truth. When you are very poor, all you want is a better life, and love can give you warmth and make you feel happy, but it does not make you have a better life. Bread, however, can.
It can get you out of hunger, let you get rid of your old days, and let you have a better life. <>
Therefore, in a marriage, don't think that love alone will support each other through the long years, if there is no bread support, love will be consumed by the years in the end. Only a solid economic foundation can make each other's feelings icing on the cake, if there is no bread as an economic foundation, there will be endless troubles in each other's future life, and these troubles will eventually consume each other's love. Therefore, before entering into marriage, never think that as long as there is love, it is enough.
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I think bread is very important in a marriage, even if the relationship between two people is good, if life is very hard and there are no material things, it will break the relationship between two people.
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It must be that bread is more important, but there is a good material foundation, and two people will not be happy if they have no feelings, and they will not be happy when they live together.
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In a marriage, bread is even more important. Because there is no material foundation, two people will have a lot of contradictions.
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Personally, I think bread is very important, and if there is no good economic foundation in marriage, the relationship between two people will not become particularly strong.
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In a marriage, I think bread is more important, without bread as a foundation, then love will be very fragile, so there must be an economic foundation.
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In a marriage, I think love is more important, only two people have a good relationship can make the marriage happier, and it will also allow two people to work together to create happiness.
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I think material things are as important as love, because without material love, there is no economic security, and if there is only material things, it will seem empty.
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Bread is more important, there is no real affection to drink water, eat and dress warmly to have the energy to care for the people around you.
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I think love is more important, and having love in a marriage will make you happier, and two people can also get money better.
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I ate a big melon today.
The writer of the writing group posted papi-chan's remarks in the variety show in the group.
She and Lao Hu have been married for 5 years, and the parents of both parties have never met, and they each go back to their respective homes for the New Year.
When I saw it, my first feeling was, "What kind of fairy marriage is this?" It's just amazing! ”
So he posted a sentence in the group, "Married women want to do this!" ”
A heated discussion began in the group, most of the women had the same attitude as me, and the only man, the writer above, his first reaction was "If Lao Hu can't resist the pressure, they will be cold."
And he insisted that there was an irreconcilable contradiction in Papi-chan's family, so he chose to do so.
I seriously disagree, I think Papi sauce is independent and maverick enough, not easy to be kidnapped by the general environment, insist on being yourself.
At the same time, she is also lucky enough to have enlightened parents, and she is confident enough to respect her old Hu.
And most importantly, of course, she has money!
Independent personality, independent thinking, economic independence, life is how cool it is!
I believe that with the improvement of women's status and earning power, such a marriage model will become more and more common!
Li Yinhe said: "The marriage system will eventually die!" ”
I don't think I will see it in my lifetime, but it is still possible that marriage will change from a matter of two families to a matter of two people in the next few decades!
I hope my rice crackers can catch up with such a bad era!
If the unfortunate one doesn't catch up, I hope I can give her the greatest freedom then!
Finally, I hope that every woman in marriage can be independent and self-loving!
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The economic base determines the superstructure, for this question, or this sentence, I firmly agree, maybe you will think that as long as two people love each other, two people are happy together, and the spiritual pleasure is not also good. But what I want to say is that when you are in love, you can say that, but in marriage you are very wrong, because marriage is not only about the two of you, but also about each other's familiesand the children you have already arrived, or will come. Therefore, the economic foundation is the foundation that solidifies your love.
I think marriage is realistic, have we ever thought about why we put firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, and tea in the firewood, rice, oil, and salt in the front, and why is tea in the last place? Because the first six are realistic, when you don't have the worries of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, you are qualified to taste tea, and you are qualified to use tea as a flavoring agent to spice your lifeto enrich your spiritual world. Therefore, the perfect completion of the superstructure is very much in need of economic foundation to support.
I think there are only TV series, the marriage relationship in the movie will be so beautiful, whenever we watch TV series and movies, we will unconsciously envy their love story, but we all know that it is just an illusion, we still have to return to reality, we still have to work hard every day for life. Only when we truly achieve economic freedomWe may also live the life we once envied.
No one wants to just enjoy life every day, no one wants to go on a trip, but our wallets bind our hearts. I believe that in marriage, only with a good economic foundation will we have the ability to build a superstructure.
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Right. In addition to love, you still need bread. For example, the case of the three eastern provinces is a prime example.
In the northeast, the economic development model represented by the old heavy industry means that there is no way to upgrade the industry in time, and has to face the situation of backward production capacity and economic recession. The economic recession will inevitably lead to more and more people who originally wanted to have a stable life in the system, and they are forced to fall to the bottom of the market.
After they are laid off and lose their lives, many Northeast families will become extremely poor in their lives, the so-called poor couples are in decline, the lack of economy will inevitably bring about various family conflicts, the contradictions between husband and wife are easily magnified, and the increase in the divorce rate will inevitably become a potential result.
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There should be such a law, after all, the economy is really important.
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It is indeed like this, if there is no lack of material foundation, life will be much less contradictory.
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Of course, if the economic foundation is good, the superstructure will be good, and without the economic base, it will be difficult.
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Yes. Yes, the economic base determines the superstructure. Without a good superstructure, no matter how strong the economic foundation is, it will collapse.
If there is a good superstructure, although the economic foundation is weak, it can quickly become rich and strong, and can make this strong economic foundation develop more permanently. On the other hand, no matter how good the economic foundation is, without a consolidated superstructure, political chaos, and weak public morale, no matter how good such an economic foundation is, it will naturally be lost.
In the interrelationship between the economic base and the superstructure, it is first and foremost that the economic base determines the superstructure. The superstructure is a reflection of the economic base, and its generation, development, and transformation cannot be explained by itself, but only by its economic base.
The nature and content of the superstructure of the economic base: The superstructure is derived from the economic base, so the nature and content of the economic base determine the nature and content of its own superstructure.
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Of course, it's hard to live happily without a material foundation, so money is very important.
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I think yes, without a good economic foundation, there will be no better life.
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