Will having a second child really make you poorer and poorer?

I think this should be decided according to the family's financial situation and education at the time.

Some of them are like this, but not all of them.

It is true, in fact, if you raise two children now, life is very stressful.

I don't think so, since you have a second child to prove it, you will have a way to solve this problem.

With the development of society, prices are getting higher and higher, and wages are rising more slowly. To be sure, the expense of raising a child is relatively large, especially for those with two children at home, which makes it too much for many parents to cope. In fact, whether having a second child will get poorer or worse does require long-term consideration.

Maybe in 20 years, families with two children will face four major problems!

First, the problem of children starting a family in the future.

Raising a child isn't just about getting him through college. When a child talks about marriage, his parents have to help him with the wedding, even buy a house and a car. Nowadays, housing prices remain high, and if the family has two sons, it will face huge financial pressure.

Second, there is the issue of parental support.

Many people believe that the burden of supporting the elderly is lighter for these two children. What is often overlooked is that children may have disputes in the future over the question of "who will take care of their parents", or even neither of them want to support their parents. In real life, such examples are not uncommon.

Third, the relationship between siblings.

The relationship between the two children also deserves the attention of parents. If not handled properly, the two children may become incompatible with each other, the whole family will become restless, and the parents will be more exhausted. When the child grows up, there may be conflicts over family property.

4. Parents help take care of their children. In a word, the family expenses of two children are very large, and they will face many problems in the future.

1. Everyone should have more children, provided that you can afford to raise them. Once a child is born, we as parents must be responsible for the child. First of all, they must be able to ensure their basic material needs, such as food, clothing, shelter and transportation.

Secondly, they must have the ability to get a good education. If you can't do this, then the author still recommends that parents do not have a second child, or even a third child, otherwise not only will their lives become very difficult, but also the child's living conditions cannot be guaranteed.

2. It is a very selfish behavior to insist on having more children even though you know that your family is very poor. Some parents don't think about their child's life after birth before they have a child, they just care about whether they can have a son, or if one of these children they have can grow up to be productive and improve the financial situation of the whole family.

the multiplication of economic pressures and the resulting family crisis in the coming period;

2.The problem of one spouse having children and the other spouse having to bear the burden of the family;

3.the problem of a significant decline in the quality of life of the family;

4.Couples have problems with reducing emotional communication because of taking care of children.

If after considering these issues, you feel that giving birth to a second child will not affect the relationship between husband and wife, then give birth.

Nowadays, there are many families where both husband and wife go out to work, although the salary is high, but the pressure is also high, and the work takes up almost all the time, and there is no time to take care of the children. It is generally left to the care of the elderly at home. However, the old man is already old and in poor health, and he has to spend energy to take care of the children, which is very difficult.

If there is another child, the old man will not be able to bear it. You can hire a nanny, but after all, it's not a family, and if you meet an irresponsible nanny, wouldn't it hurt the child, and it's useless to regret it when the time comes. Therefore, many families with good conditions only choose to have one child, that is, considering that they are busy with work and have no time to take care of children, and they don't want to increase the burden on the elderly at home, so they will not have a second child.

In addition, there is another reason: I don't want to be so stressed and want to live my own life. Modern people's concepts are not as old as in the past, and they only live for their children all their lives, and they are willing to dedicate their lives to their children.

Nowadays, people pay more attention to their own quality of life, of course, children still have to be raised, but in addition, they also need to have their own life and their own pursuits. Besides, I still have money, so why not enjoy life? One more child is an extra pressure, and it is definitely not as easy as having only one child.

They have the money and the ability to raise an extra child, but they don't want to lose their lives because of it.

First of all, it is because of the traditional thinking of rural people, after all, the parents of the older generation had many brothers and sisters. The second reason is that the cost of building a house and raising children in rural areas is lower.

For people living in the city, it is not necessarily easy to have a second child, they will make a decision after careful consideration. Because the second child is more burden and more responsibility for them, they also have to come to see whether they can bear this responsibility according to their actual situation, after all, a house also needs about 1.8 million. Therefore, there are many of them who don't want to have a second child.

For people living in rural areas or hometowns, they will be more inclined to be accompanied by their children, so some people choose to have a second child for this reason. There are some people who they will not have much pressureBecause the house at home will be cheaper, then having a second child in such a situation is actually not very costly or economic, so they will choose to have a second child.

When you want a second child, you should also consider Dabao's feelings, and then you can make a decision, because there are some babies who have been cared for and loved by their parents since they were born, and have all the love of their parentsBut if mom and dad have a second child, Dabao will also worry about whether his status in the family will decrease, or whether his parents' love for him will decrease, they will feel that their love is deprived and divided, and they will feel that others have encroached on their love. Therefore, there are some big treasures that specifically reject the two treasures.

Therefore, when some mothers want to have a second child, they should also include this issue as a category of thinking. When you have the idea of having a second child, you must communicate with the baby first, so that Dabao's heart is more comfortable and acceptable, so that parents can welcome the arrival of the second baby with Dabao.

The poor did not pay so much attention to the requirements of the population policy, even if they did not let go of the second child, they would secretly give birth, multiple children and many hopes, there will always be a chance, the children of the poor are poor, but the basic food and clothing are it, and there is still a lack of education for children.

Because poverty is not afraid.

It doesn't matter if you don't have money anyway.

Rich people are afraid of having more money, spending more money and becoming poor (those who are really rich are not afraid).

Alas, it would be nice if having children would also go as everyone thinks. How nice it is to have a son and a daughter. The boy marries a daughter-in-law, supports his parents at home, and his daughter marries a good family.

Is this the reality? My third brother and daughter-in-law, her mother just kept thinking that my third brother and daughter-in-law had two children, and they still couldn't support both children, what kind of man was it. Well, my third brother and sister-in-law gave birth to two boys.

Then my third brother and daughter-in-law, her younger brother still haven't married his wife, and he was born in eighty-three years. Chinese New Year's Eve is thirty-six years old. Then the parents of the third brother and daughter-in-law are old.

My third brother is also responsible for the education of two young boys, and now one is junior high school and one is elementary school. It would be nice if life went according to everyone's normal thinking. But ,......

It can't be said that the poorer they are, the more they want to live, they can only think that they feel less pressure on the future, and they don't think too far about the journey of their children when they grow up.

Multiple children have multiple hopes, they can get out of poverty, and now rich people know how to enjoy it, so they don't like to have a second child. And those who have no money are afraid that their children will suffer hardships in the future.

Living in a high-class family, with a wide range of interpersonal contacts, it is easy to integrate into society.

Because people think less, their own material requirements are much lower. In short, no. Raising a child normally is not so expensive and not so troublesome.

Because the poor are thinking that there will be a boy who will die.

If we do not introduce a strong policy to encourage childbirth, we will not be far away from the extinction of the country and the extinction of species.

The poorer the person, the more he wants to live, and in order to change this poor word, the family is born.

Nowadays, people are poor and lazy, and they are too lazy to accept marriage, ** want to have children?

The author's meaning is a little biased, right, the poorer people are, the more they want to live? As if the rich have not given birth to so many, let's find out for yourself, can't the poor have one more? I don't know what thoughts!

The poor have been poor, and it is precisely because they are poor that they want to have a child, pinning the hope of poverty alleviation on the next generation.

This can't be said like that, it's just that everyone thinks differently.

This is not enough to say, everyone thinks differently, it depends on personal thoughts

The point is, many of them have money. If the conditions are good, they will not be born.

I had nothing to do at night, so I had to make people to play.

Because the poor don't think so much.

If there are more babies, the pressure will not be too great when you are old.

First of all, this is a question of whether a poor person should have a second child, not whether he can have a second child, whether it is a matter of rights, whether people are rich or poor, legally speaking, they are equal, should it be a matter of will, if I say now, poor people should not have a second child, will you spray me to death in one breath, don't get excited, listen to me.

This is a question of whether the poor should have a second child, whether it is a matter of rights, whether people are rich or poor, legally speaking, are equal, so can we put it aside for the time being, do not consider it, and should it be a question of ability, if I say now, the poor should not have a second child, will you spray me to death in one breath, then please don't get excited, listen to me.

First of all, if you have a child, do you want your child to get ahead, take off the hat of the poor N generation, and walk on the broad road of life, all say that the age that can affect the child's life is three to five years old, eleven to thirteen years old, do you not have to run around for life, can accompany the child, every word and deed ready to teach at any time, and strive to cultivate the child's correct outlook on life, maybe you will say, anyway, it is poor, and I can't make a few dollars at work, I will concentrate on educating my child at home. Okay, even if you pass that.

Second, the rich can provide better education for their children, I used to have a colleague, and now he has successfully entered the boss's industry, and now he is a small accomplished person, once chatted, he said that his child is only in the third grade, and the amateur training fee spent on him every year is fifty or sixty thousand yuan a year (note, we are a small county town, and the consumption level has not reached the height of a big city), Chinese, English, and mathematics are all helped by a friend of the Education Bureau. Looking for all the tutors made by the leaders of the teaching and research groups of famous schools, this expenditure alone is 30,000 yuan a year, and then, he also enrolled in a musical instrument class, an art class, a sports interest class, comprehensively cultivate children's interests, tap the child's talent, if you say that your child can only rely on nine years of compulsory education and others can be compared with the children trained by tens of thousands of training fees a year, then I have nothing to say.

Third, the circle of friends of the rich is much larger than that of the poor, and the children are often more knowledgeable than the children of the poor, and a well-informed child often exudes a kind of self-confidence that the children of the poor do not have, even if the education is not very high, and the background is not very hard, but they can handle the human feelings and sophistication in the society very well, and can often win in the complex society.

Fourth, although not everyone is so lucky to encounter this situation, but the news is often reported, a certain poor family, because of a sudden major change in the family, several children in the family even have difficulties in survival, need to rely on local ** to live and so on.

Therefore, in line with the attitude of being responsible for children and their own lives, I hope to give a piece of advice to those friends who are still trapped in a corner and cannot move: if you do not have a certain financial ability, do not have a second child, and it is also a good choice to work hard to raise a child.

Let's not talk about it far away, just like the parents of the post-70s and post-80s, there are many children in the family, didn't the grandparents still pull them up at that time? didn't say that there is no money in the family, so let's have a child, their ideology is that pulling one is pulling, pulling a group is also pulling, anyway, they all grew up together, then they gave birth to so much. We can't deny that their time was not good at all, but when they were so poor, they didn't give up, but worked hard to live a good life, so that we have the good life we have now.

I think it's not terrible to be poor, it's terrible to have no ambition, if you feel poor and not motivated, then it will be even more difficult for you to change the status quo, let alone have a second child? Therefore, the second child can be born, it depends on how you want to live this life, don't live too dead, look at the problem in the long run, the child is yours, you have to be responsible for him, and you will also enjoy the fun he brings to you. If you feel that your current life is not very good, it is better to work hard, and it is okay to have a second child in a few years, as long as you live with ambition.