It s very uncomfortable, it s complicated, it s very contradictory.

Let the past pass, don't ask, unless he wants to tell you himself, it's better not to know, and sometimes it's not a good thing to know. If he has a girlfriend, he has more experience to take care of you, and the people he has taken care of in the past are far away from your life, don't think about it. He is not your personal property, it is not something that belongs to you completely, he will also have friends, if he is good to his friends, even if you are his girlfriend he may ignore you when he is with his friends, he is an independent individual, you need to give him more space.

That is, you don't have to put your spirit on him, love is not everything.

It's normal to have this kind of thinking about you, I personally think you can ask him, what can't be asked, since you are in love, you have the right to know his past, of course, if he doesn't want to say it, then there is no way, knowing does not mean that you have to pursue it, you just want to know the past to better understand this person, this kind of thinking is not wrong. But choose a good way, preferably in a joking tone, and don't ask very seriously all at once, then he may feel that he has done something wrong. If he loves you, he will explain it to you very well, even if he doesn't want to mention it.

And you have to pay more attention to the present, the past can't represent anything, you have to fall in love with the present, he has his past to have the person you meet today. I wish you happiness and hope that you will open the knot in your heart soon.

Of course not, it's your own problem, you have to find a way to solve it, and if you really care about his past, your relationship will be difficult to maintain.

If you really love him, take it easy, the more you force yourself not to think about it, the more you care, and having a girlfriend doesn't mean you have to have anything. If you can't get over that hurdle, try to go out for a walk, divert your attention, think about the happy things between you, don't deliberately force yourself not to think like that, some things will slowly fade.

In fact, I think it's okay, if you really love him, don't care about his experience, her past, two people in love, what they want is to love each other, he is sincere to you, you love him with your heart, I think that's enough! In fact, to be honest, people now are not much more open than before, the plot is not as heavy as before, maybe people are different from people, I don't care about these, as long as two people are sincere, what if they are not everywhere, they still love each other! So, let go of these heavy burdens in your heart, don't think, don't ask, he will tell you when he wants to tell you, even if he doesn't tell you, don't care, the key is your feelings, as long as you love each other!

I wish you all happiness!

1. If you are very happy now, and your boyfriend has not done anything to be sorry for you, and he cares about you very much in daily life, you can give him a chance, after all, everyone has a past, and it is because he loves you more that he chose to be with you.

2. If your boyfriend is lukewarm to you, then your inexplicable thoughts are correct, he may still be living in his previous world, because everyone in his circle is within the scope of his thinking, and a few months cannot change a person.

3. You can test him in another way, and you will have the answer. Take humorous questions and look at his reactions.

4. In today's society, the concept of love is becoming more and more contemptuous, just like men, they have a few girlfriends in front of friends, but we women are just the opposite. So, you can choose your decisions about his friends and interactions in his daily life.

It's better not to ask, but you're so entangled, let's be honest with him. Otherwise, it will be very depressing in the long run.

If you like it, why should you care about his past, you have to see clearly whether this man is worthy of your love???

If you don't want to quarrel, don't ask like that, the past has become history, it can't be changed, don't waste new tears for old sorrows, don't be pessimistic, because you have the present and the future, so don't think too much....

If you care about the other person's past, it means that you really love him, but you have walked into a dead end, you know, the past can no longer be changed, the future is what you can grasp, you are asking for trouble now, you know?

You're not that old, you're not old. If you are willing to say it, it means that you still want to be motivated and become a good boy. Instead of being so painful, why not take action? If you always want to take action, even if you want to break your head, it will be in vain!

Start with the simplest workouts, set the clock, wake yourself up, and force yourself to get up. Or let your mother supervise you. It would be nice to wait until you have developed good habits.

Again, why should we be wary of people? When you are wary of people, you allow yourself to close the door of your heart, and the sun outside will never shine in. You will never be able to accept others, and others will never be able to accept you.

Get out there more and learn to talk to others. As long as you are familiar with each other, it is easy to deal with each other. Of course, say what you can say to others, and try not to say what you can't say to others.

People still have to be a little secret, and more importantly, don't talk about the rights and wrongs, long and short of others in front of others. Develop the virtues of talking more about the good of others. In this way, there will be a weight in doing things and being able to control the scale.

Again, it's about thinking less. Learn to distract yourself. Listen to ** when you have to do it, or go out and talk to someone.

Of course, I've said so much, and if you don't listen, it's empty. If you admit that you are a person with no ambition, even if an expert or psychologist works with you, it is useless. What is commendable is that people are ambitious!

I wish you a happy and happy life as soon as possible!

Let's die!! Your mother raised you for nothing!! Jin Anchao.

What should I do if I am depressed? How to solve it

1. Comedy. When you are depressed, when watching TV or other media, take the initiative to avoid watching tragedies and all the things that may make you more depressed and sad. It is recommended to watch more comedies to make yourself happy and feel more happiness and hope.

2. Positive. Be sure to force yourself to be positive. This may be a bit difficult to do, but if you want to solve the problem, you have to ask yourself to do it.

Don't sigh when you're depressed or unhappy, self-pity and self-love, thinking about how depressed you are all day long, this can only make you fall into a whirlpool of endless depression. You are the best medicine for yourself.

3. Friends. You can talk to your best friends. Confiding can really relieve one's bad mood, so the profession of psychiatrist is very popular now.

Confiding is also a process of thinking, while talking, you can not only listen to the opinions and persuasion of others, but also organize your own thoughts and help yourself out of trouble.

4. Change the environment. This definition is very broad, and you need to grasp it yourself, so you can be bold. Includes:

Fry the boss squid, travel, and go shopping. You can even find a restaurant you haven't been to before and eat something you like. When the time is right, you have to give up one mountain so that you have the courage to climb another mountain without any burden.

In the end, I hope you will come out of this bad mood as soon as possible and don't fall into it. Believe in yourself and believe that everything is really, really going to be okay! Happy to you!

Hello. I am a psychiatrist.

Obviously, the idea of "study hard" and "can't be greedy for fun" makes you not happy to play, and you can't learn steadily, and the relationship with your mother is very tense, and you are very troubled, and you desperately restrain yourself, but it has no effect.

The throat is also uncomfortable, which is caused by self-restraint.

Studying pressure is indeed something that every student needs to face, but it is too much of a burden for you.

I suggest you do counseling to clear up conflicts.

Your psychological suggestion is a bit extreme, in fact, it is normal to relax, it is like a person who wants to sleep, but what good is it for yourself to sleep all day and night, and do nothing. I am optimistic about your change, generally in the early stage of the change are a little uncomfortable, and when you develop good study habits, after the combination of work and rest, there will naturally be twice the result with half the effort. Bless you, bright student!!

I've had similar experiences with you.

What I want to say is: grievances: I obviously want to learn, but I can't learn, and I'm working hard!! Grievances: I want to work hard, I am working hard, and I can't achieve what I want.

It is recommended that you don't talk to your surroundings and peers so much, and sign up for an interest class, like dance.

I didn't have the conditions to apply for an interest class, so I went to play with my friends,。。