I have no choice but to break up, I feel very uncomfortable, and I feel very uncomfortable when I br

Updated on psychology 2024-04-07
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Dear friends, you can distract yourself by doing some of your favorite sports. Over time, I believe that time can dilute everything, and slowly you will come out of this shadow. Come on, friends!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You're still very sensible I also think it's okay to break up It's just that you can't forget it in a day or two Everyone's outlook on life is different Treat things differently Look at what you want If you really don't care about the future problems Then don't divide It doesn't know what the specific condition is If it's really serious No one can predict the days to come Don't you really care It takes a while to heal after a breakup It seems that your relationship is not very deep Look at it Participate in some entertainment activities and find good friends to go shopping What xieshan1101 said is very right.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't know if you're a man or a woman, but I think you'll regret it later, if it's really like you said, you have a good heart, and after so many years, you will definitely regret why you don't insist on being with him, just separate for him because he is not in good health, is the health of the body more important than the health of the heart? If he is someone you can't miss, why give up, what qualifications do you have to say that you have a heart, if it's me, I think he's someone I can't miss, no matter who opposes it, it's useless!! Don't make excuses for yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I've just broken up, and I'm sad, and sometimes I think that if my her gets seriously ill, or if she has any accidents, then she won't be leaving me, and I can take good care of her for the rest of my life. The idea is very dirty, you are swayed by external forces, and letting go shows that you love not firmly enough, she is more uncomfortable than you, and she will have an inferiority complex in the future. I don't say I look down on you, everyone has their own choice.

    But I feel that if that person were me, I would not be opposed by the whole world, and I would have to take care of not only her, but also their parents. It's a responsibility as a man.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Actually, I don't think you need to force yourself not to contact each other, after all, none of you are sorry for anyone, and it would be much better for friends to get along at that time. Feelings do not necessarily have to be involved between men and women.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Bury him in the bottom of his heart.

    I just broke up, and it was really painful. But I had to force myself to do a lot of things to numb.

    If you are really in pain, then don't divide it and impress your parents with actions.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This kind of disease devil is unacceptable, and it will be very unlucky if it is passed on to the next generation!! Your family is also good for you!!

    It's going to be forgotten after a long time!!

    Let's talk to someone more!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There is no grass at the end of the world. To get out of a failed relationship is to invest in a new one.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The best way to forget one person is to fall in love with another.

    If you really can't do without him, then stick to your love.

    There are no perfect people, and the requirements are not too high.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Is it related to neuropathy? Does it matter if mom and dad are against it?

    A person's fate is only once, which is hard to find.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Impress your parents with your sincerity.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Find someone and talk about it once.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Time, only time can be forgotten.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. Hello dear, first of all, you must know that after a breakup, the feeling of being uncomfortable, breathless, and empty in the chest is experienced by many people at this moment. The discomfort will not be exactly the same, but at least, at the moment, everyone's mind is full of good memories of the two of them in the past, and if they can be together, how beautiful the future will be, they can't force themselves to stop imagining.

    At the moment, I suggest that you spend a week or even a few weeks crying, (it takes longer for deep feelings).

    Hello dear, first of all, you must know that after a breakup, the feeling of being uncomfortable, breathless, and empty in the chest is experienced by many people at this moment. The discomfort will not be exactly the same, but at least, at this moment, everyone's minds are full of good memories of the two of them in the past, and if they can be together in the future, they can't force themselves to stop imagining. At the moment, I suggest that you use a hidden fluid for a week or even a few weeks to cry, (it takes longer for deep feelings).

    Secondly, after crying, to think, the reason for breaking up When you start to slow down the camera in your mind, try to find the root cause from the clues, and get ready, this stage is not easier than the previous stage, but it is a necessary process, and if you don't have it, it is impossible to get out of the haze. The two sides turn and break up, not necessarily who has a "principled mistake", but there must be a "principled reason". There are too many reasons for seeping Tongyan here, and the words to summarize Cong Yulai are roughly that the value and needs of the two sides are not equal, and the needs of the other party are met from your value.

    Once you've thought about the reasons, you can choose whether to stay put or go ahead. Persuasion and persuasion, it is recommended that you listen to the advice of your best friends and family members, sometimes you can't see the danger, they see it. But when you can really reach the third step, I think you should also be much more rational, and you can slowly decide to solve the next problem.

    It's all a slow celebration of the young people, but there is a sentence that is really true: love and marriage are two different things, those who are really married to the object of love and have a happy marriage, not all, many, many people's marriage partners are not the ones they have been holding hands with along the way.

    The last piece of advice, when the sadness is over, remember to regain your strength, give up on yourself, and the whole world will give up on you.

    Do you have any other questions? We'll be happy to continue to answer your questions.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If he is uncomfortable, he will try to save him and show him how he feels. If you insist on breaking up, you should calm yourself down and adjust your mentality.

    It is recommended that you can often do things that can make you feel relaxed and happy during this time, such as listening, watching movies, singing, doing sports, etc. You can also chat with relatives or friends around you and adjust your emotional state by confiding. Usually go out to participate in some group activities, or make some new friends, which can get you out of the shadow of broken love as soon as possible.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    1. Distraction method.

    If you have a job, work hard, if you don't have a job, you can work hard to do housework, and try to shift your attention to work or housework.

    Second, the tourism distraction method.

    If you have been troubled by the pain of a breakup, you can temporarily put down the work at hand, go out for a walk, travel, if you are traveling alone, remember to explain it to your family or friends, pay attention to travel safety and do not be hurt a second time.

    3. Exercise method.

    You can choose a variety of sports such as running, badminton, tennis, swimming, etc., which will sweat during the exercise and can take away your worries, but you should pay attention to the rhythm to ensure safety.

    Fourth, the way to eat food.

    Eat all kinds of delicious food, of course, you can't eat without moderation like in Andy Lau's "** Men and Women", if you still eat sweet, you can properly consider eating some chocolate, the theobromine in chocolate, it will have a reaction to our body, and will release a large amount of polyphenols in our brain; This polyphenol will make us very happy both physically and mentally.

    5. Reading calligraphy.

    The premise is that you are a person who likes to read, you can find a few good books to concentrate on, and forget the pain of breaking up, this method is only suitable for people who like to read, and people who don't like to read may fall asleep as soon as they read a book.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hello dear! I'm glad to answer for you, first of all, I will not forget my own efforts, maybe I will never forget it for a lifetime. When you develop to the point that one day your own efforts may be burned, you want to forget, I feel that the best way to deal with it is to calm your own mind, forget your own pay, face up to your own pay, get out of the imbalance in your heart, love is beautiful, don't stick to yourself to yourself has failed to have no illusions about love, this failure is for better success tomorrow, put it down when it is time to put it down, don't deliberately forget the memories of that time, time will help you forget.

    When you have the next beautiful love, you won't be too greedy for the previous love. Let time help you forget. Actually, memories are a good thing, cherish it!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The pain of falling out of love is understandable, because once you invest in pure feelings, you will get back disappointment, then pain, sadness and even despair will follow.

    But the problem is that feelings are never one-sided, and the relationship of love needs to be reciprocal giving, and in the relationship and marriage, the one who loves humbly is destined to be the one who is hurt.

    You can give yourself time to heal, because time is the best medicine. You can go out for a trip without scruples, you can see a lot of scenery along the way, and there are many forests that can be admired and watched outside a tree!

    Or you will cry happily and make a tribute to your lost love. The love that has been experienced, especially the love that has been deeply understood, is also unforgettable, but what to do, you can't fall deeper and deeper, you have to learn to extricate yourself and save yourself, if you are injured, wipe your tears and make your heart miss for a short time, and then try to erase the other party from your heart, it may be difficult, but you must do it.

    Don't worry too much about a person whose feelings are not in you, with the passage of time and the precipitation of the years, you who have experienced the baptism of feelings will definitely become mature and strong, and there is a kind of growth called "only knowing after experience".

    No matter how memorable and poignant this relationship is, you have to remember the fact that it is far away from you and there is no book, and it is a sign of cowardice to live in a world of oneself.

    In the face of a former lover who is drifting away, if you are open-minded enough, bless it. If you can't, try to lift yourself up to a certain height, so that people who appreciate you will come in droves. Hanging from a tree is really pedantic, and you should try to prove to your side that it is the other person's fault to give up on you, because you don't know much about love when you first fall in love.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Breaking up feels very uncomfortable, this is mainly because you feel very dependent on your boyfriend who is ten years older than you, but you can't tolerate his gambling, and even the poor even have to give pets to others, then, since you decided to break up, because of your boyfriend, he can't give you enough protection, and you can't change his gambling habits, the breakup is better than the short pain, feel uncomfortable, you can start your love life again.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    1. Spend more time with your friends.

    When a couple breaks up, naturally both parties are more sad, after all, they spent a very unforgettable memory together, for lovelorn couples, sad memories will always appear again and again, and the best solution is to get along with friends, you can do a lot of things, go out on a trip with your closest friends, go to the beach to relax, see the beautiful scenery, confide in friends, in addition to friends, it may be difficult for you to talk to others anymore, friends will comfort you and take you to do a lot of happy things, After watching the beautiful scenery and going to have a big meal together, maybe the barbecue and hot pot that you haven't eaten for a long time can be satisfied at one time, play games together, and as time passes, your sadness will slowly fade away.

    Second, focus on your own things.

    Life is more than love, although the feelings of love are also beautiful and important, but that is definitely not all, just like lemon gives you a very sour taste, but over time, you can also taste the sweetness, you still have work and family, at this time you need to devote yourself to work, to keep working hard, or you have your own hobbies, focus on your love, you will find that you may be happier, if you love to paint, then you can spend your extra time on painting, Express your sadness or draw things that make you happy, although the sad feeling is still there, but you will also find a lot of good life.

    3. Discover others.

    In fact, the breakup between couples makes you sad, it must be that the other party has a deep relationship with you or that some of his characteristics make you difficult to forget, which is also normal, but you have to know that you are very good, and you have to understand that no matter what the reason for the breakup, you are already single, others can pursue you, you can also find better people, so don't be sad, you can start the next relationship, provided that you need to be responsible for others and ensure that you are emotionally invested, So when you're sad, you might as well get to know others instead of drowning in sadness.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It can only mean that you love wrong, a person you see wrong, the two of you are not suitable to be together, but you just think that being with him is the right choice, so it will lead to such a tragic ending, fully explain, look at a person to be careful and serious, otherwise you may regret it, in this case, then your pet dog can find a friend or someone you trust, and then give them to raise it, no matter what, you don't throw the dog away, Because this is a fundamental question of one's conscience and human nature.

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