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Low self-esteem is not the same as weakness, in fact, in some places they can appear very strong.
People with low self-esteem are often accompanied by lack of self-confidence, they feel that they can't do anything, they often can't raise their heads in front of others, they don't dare to look each other in the eyes, and they always feel that they are inferior to others. Low self-esteem is determined by character, and experiencing some things at a young age makes them gradually become inferior. And even people with low self-esteem can appear very strong in some places.
First, in terms of their own strengths.
Everyone in this world has their own small world, and in this small world, there are your strengths, which is also the key to distinguishing people from others. Although people with low self-esteem are not good at words and often deny themselves, they will still be very strong when they encounter their own strengths, because only this aspect can bring them confidence and satisfaction. When someone cries out to them about this, they definitely don't rest on their laurels.
Therefore, even if a person with low self-esteem is, he will not always be inferior.
Second, the emotional aspect.
People with low self-esteem are actually very dependent on feelings, they will very much want to be affirmed and cared for by their other half, and at the same time, they will also appear very strong in love. Normally, they seem to have no sense of existence in the outside world, and no one seems to take them seriously, so when they return to their feelings and return to their ordinary life, they will show a different state than usual, and they will become strong.
This is the so-called contrast, and the strong contrast may make many people feel unbelievable, but people with low self-esteem do show such a state in their feelings, and people are often opposite, with two sides.
If there is an inferiority complex, then there will inevitably be a strong side, and they will show their strong and unknown side in their own unique space. People with low self-esteem are sometimes very pitiful, they hide themselves too well, they are really very tired, they should open their heads and talk about themselves.
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A person with low self-esteem is strong in what he thinks is right, and his original lack of self-confidence makes him very distressed, and if he encounters something that he feels he is sure of, he will definitely fight for it.
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Some people who are not good looking will make one aspect of themselves their strengths, for example, most of them will develop their own studies, so that they can succeed in their careers in the future, which can replace the gap in their appearance.
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People with long-term low self-esteem tend to be very strong on the surface, for example, they speak aggressively, act very selfishly or very egoistically, and rarely care about the feelings of others.
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People with low self-esteem are usually more introverted and do not be domineering in front of others. Strong people are usually high-minded, feel like they are amazing, and have an impulsive personality. People who think they are great and have to say everything by themselves, and don't care too much about the feelings of others, are usually not inferior.
It's conceited.
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Strong people are more confident in their hearts, which is also his strong capital. Of course, some people have low self-esteem and use a strong appearance to cover up their inner vulnerability, and there is also a possibility of this.
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Strong people are very confident in their hearts, and they can even be said to be a little conceited, strong people rarely have low self-esteem, and generally people who are not strong and weak will feel inferior, and they dare not take the initiative in doing anything, and they are afraid that they will not do well!
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It's really not like this, the stronger the person, I think he should be very confident in himself in his heart, and it is impossible to be inferior at all, it is precisely because of her self-confidence that he dares to be strong in front of anyone.
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Strong people, most of them are inferior, selfish, self-interested, no feelings for friends, maximizing interests, is what he is interested in, perhaps strong people are afraid of others sharing his interests, so, first possess, then feelings!
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I don't think this kind of strong people feel inferior, it's just that they often have this kind of sad thing in their hearts, so it's very normal to feel this in their hearts.
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This statement is also well-founded, because strong people are also very fragile inside, although they are very strong on the outside, but when they are very fragile inside, they will have an idea of inferiority.
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In fact, a strong person, his heart is not necessarily inferior, but she should be hit more than others when she encounters things, because she is strong, so she does not know how to share her difficulties with others and cry about her desperate situation.
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No, there may be a few people who choose to be strong to protect themselves because of their inferiority complex, but most strong people are characters that have been cultivated since childhood, so they will not have much inferiority in their hearts.
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Strong people are not inferior in their hearts, and people who are too possessive are inferior in their hearts.
Strong means that this person is particularly capable, he wants to be in a dominant position in everything, and others have to listen to him to be comfortable, and strong people love to worry, can't be idle, and hope to be recognized by the other party.
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Strong people, they have very strong self-esteem in their hearts. And I hope that others will also listen to their opinions and be able to form under their opinions, but it does not mean that they are inferior in their hearts.
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No, it's not that strong people have inferiority complex in their hearts, but strong people, they are very confident in their hearts, and people with low self-esteem have no way to make themselves strong, they will only make themselves very delicate and dare not face it, so strong people should not be inferior, but very confident.
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Personally, I think that strong people, their hearts are really inferior, because they just want to use this strong method to express their inner vulnerability, a lot of strong people, they just look so strong on the surface, in fact, behind the scenes, they are some people with low self-esteem.
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I don't agree with you. I don't think strong people have low self-esteem inside. On the contrary, I think that strong people tend to be very confident and think that they are very capable, even if they are blindly confident.
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As the saying goes, the more you lack something, the more you want to show others, strong people must have low self-esteem in their hearts, they are weak and inferior in their hearts, so they want to show their strong side to others on the outside.
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No, that's not a law. There are some strong people who do have low self-esteem in their hearts, and then rely on external pretense to cover up their inferiority. But there are also some people who are strong on the inside, and I am just very good.
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Strong people don't necessarily have low self-esteem in their hearts, but they feel that their hearts are also very fragile and can't withstand any blows. That's why I behave very strongly and don't let myself get hurt.
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Not all strong people have low self-esteem in their hearts, there are many people who are very strong in themselves and don't want to care about what the other party thinks, but some people are trying to cover up their inner inferiority complex in order to be strong on the surface.
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Strong people tend to be very careful and cautious, they are strong in order to reduce the probability of problems, and they are strong in order to get more help for themselves, which does not mean that they have low self-esteem.
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People who are not strong have low self-esteem in their hearts, and strong people are just used to doing everything themselves, always thinking that they are right, and do not trust others very much.
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I can't say that, it's just that some people just look very powerful on the surface, but in fact, they are very fragile inside, and many times they use this superficial phenomenon to cover up some things. Some people are indeed strong on the surface, but they are also strong on the inside.
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Not necessarily, but people with strong self-esteem also have an inferiority complex, just like a protective color that protects their hearts, so that their hearts will not feel pain.
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In fact, it is indeed like this, for example, the appearance seems to be very arrogant, very, very strong, and doesn't care about anything, similar to that kind of person, the appearance that will give others in their hearts is such a performance.
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People who are not inferior and self-confident, who have low self-esteem talk little, are silent, and a little cowardly, and strong people love to talk, very powerful, and very fierce. They will feel amazing.
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Not necessarily, some strong people are also strong in their hearts, because they are born with a strong heart. However, there are indeed some people, don't look at him strong on the surface, but he is very fragile inside.
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Some people have low self-esteem, but some people just have a personality like this, they only feel secure when they are strong, and they just like that feeling, which has something to do with the environment in which he grew up when he was a child.
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Those who are "strong" are more strict with the people around them, but they basically do not reflect on the consequences, and often satisfy their own vanity by controlling the people around them. The essence of this mentality is that the person concerned has too strong self-esteem and too strong competitiveness.
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People with low self-esteem will show a certain amount of strength, but strong people are not necessarily all inferior, and such people may be relatively affected by some of the many factors.
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I think that strong people are more confident in their hearts, while weak people are generally more inferior in their hearts and their behavior is not strong.
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Often ignoring their own mood and feelings, "people-pleasing personality" is like a grand shirt, those who are psychologically inferior and emotionally weak often have a characteristic, that is, they are not good at putting forward their own empty needs when interacting with others, and are always afraid that their needs will lead to the disgust of others, so that the relationship with each other can no longer be good.
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Don't dare to talk to others, don't dare to communicate with others, talk in a low voice when Tan Danyu communicates lately, dare not take the initiative to talk to others, and don't like to talk to others.
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Sometimes they can be very sensitive, they may be short-tempered, they can't control their emotions, they may please others, and sometimes they will suppress themselves.
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The root cause of cowardice is low self-esteem, and the way adults make their hearts indestructible: make themselves confident and strong inside.
Most of the reasons for cowardice are low self-esteem, and genetic factors and rough growth environment are the main reasons for low self-esteem. Low self-esteem is because of lack of self-confidence, so it is always cautious, afraid of making mistakes, and afraid to fight for its own interests. And people with low self-esteem are always very sensitive, and a joke from others will make them unhappy all day.
The way adults can make their hearts indestructible is to make themselves more confident and stronger. The way to make yourself more confident and powerful is to read more books, learn a skill, and broaden your horizons. If you have your own strengths, your heart will be full, and you will become confident, and those who are confident will not always be afraid of making mistakes and live carefully.
It's not terrible to find that you have a cowardly personality, but it's terrible to be unwilling to change. The best time to plant a tree was 10 years ago, followed by now. Since we can't go back to the past, change our character, and change our growth environment, then we can change our cowardly character from now on.
Make yourself confident and stop being cowardly. We can enrich ourselves by reading more books and make ourselves more confident. It is also possible to learn a skill and reach a professional level in a certain field.
This can help you build self-confidence, and you must be firm when you encounter things and dare to speak your mind. Don't hesitate because of what others say. Start small.
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Through hard work, you can slowly build up your self-confidence, make your heart stronger, and give yourself a sense of security, so that you will not feel cowardly. Such a confident person will make people more likeable, will have an advantage in interpersonal communication, live more easily, and have a wider circle of friends. Life is a practice, and it's never too late to start awakening.
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Many people simply attribute this reason to low self-esteem, which is wrong, anyone's personality is malleable, and different environments will shape different personalities. The fundamental reason for a cowardly personality is that the environment in which he grew up makes him very cowardly, because there are always strong people protecting him, but in real life, you have to solve many things by yourself, so low self-esteem is definitely not the root cause of cowardice. Low self-esteem is a product of the reality of an environment, you want to make your heart hard, so very strong, then the most important thing you should do is competition, now competition, we have said healthy competition, I know you must be talking about healthy competition.
Therefore, if you want to change the cause of this cowardice, you must take a healthy competition to solve it, and healthy competition is a way to make life better.
So sometimes, I think if you want to make your heart more indestructible, then you have to spend a lot of time and a lot of energy on it, because this is an input-output activity. In fact, if you want to make your character stronger, many people want to do one thing, but not everyone can do it, so it is such a thing. If you want to make your character stronger, then you should do it, then I want to tell you, then it must be to make your life better, when your life becomes better, when your environment becomes stronger, you can make yourself indestructible, in real life is also like this, in fact, many times, the inner words of our adults, sometimes like children, but most of the time they are just pretending to be strong.
In fact, in real life, I think to tell everyone one thing, if you have low self-esteem, then it is actually a relatively common thing in life. Many people have low self-esteem, when I was in school, I often said that I was very inferior, but in fact, this is not the case, I just created the homework of my classmates, this is such a thing, in fact, I want to tell you that the root cause of low self-esteem is personality. As a result, this character is shaped by the environment, so a change in the environment will change a person's personality.
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