How do I regulate the relationship between my sister and my husband? Please, everyone

Updated on psychology 2024-04-11
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, it's nothing, your sister is just envious of you, nothing else, you may be a little too careful, as long as your sister has no other crooked thoughts, you don't have to worry too much, and when your sister makes a boyfriend who is more capable than your husband, she won't have such thoughts when the time comes. It is recommended to hurry up and help your sister find a boyfriend with good conditions, so that you will not have these concerns.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love your husband well, work hard with your husband, find a partner for your sister, and nothing else.

    Your sister is envious of you, because you are her dearest, so she speaks to you casually. Don't think about it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Let your sister leave for a while first and see how your husband reacts.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's that you're thinking too much, and she just wants to tell you that you're happy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I envy you! (What can you two have, don't think too much).

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Danger, what does it mean to lure a wolf into the house? Marry her off!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I usually buy her some snacks and small things like that, and say, I just saw it on the street, and I will give it to you. If she accepts it, that's a good thing. Don't accept it, it's okay, just come a few more times. After that, it will get better.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Try to find common ground and care more about each other.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Niu split, the sister-in-law is thankful that she doesn't look for her daughter-in-law with her mother-in-law, how can she still take the initiative to attack?! Lack of social beatings?

    You must know that your sister-in-law and mother-in-law pick on you, no matter whether you pick or not, you are easy to suffer, and if you are allowed to lose a lot, you will have to get some dirty water;

    You are looking for your sister-in-law and mother-in-law, you are right, your husband will say two words at most, but he will not even say anything about small things, and at most he will give you some good words; You picked the wrong reason, and it seems that you are crazy and crazy, and it is strange if you don't give you a big hanging, just like this, it's nothing. If this is not pleasing to the eye, then it can only be said that in the future, you must not buy clothes for your father, don't go to your cousins' house to visit relatives, and don't go to the class reunion.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You have to have evidence for this kind of thing, no evidence is so sensitive, it is normal for your husband to reject you and go to your sister's room, if there is an unusual relationship, you will not be with you, in this case, you can consider moving out to avoid letting their brothers and sisters have more contact, and you can also see your husband's reaction Even if there is really anything, you have to find a way to find evidence, after all, you haven't seen anything strange now, just go to your sister's room to stay.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You're obviously jealous. But your husband does have a problem. If you really care about you, why do this kind of thing that makes you maybe unhappy.

    But you can try to get along with his sister and get to know them better, so that you won't be thinking about it all the time. If you're really angry, it's best to find an opportunity to clarify your emotions and say that you're making me unhappy by doing this, and see how he reacts.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm the same as you, my husband and his sister are coquettish when they talk, I don't know that they are a couple, holding hands, feeding, pinching the face is something they often do, especially my husband, his attitude makes me feel very uncomfortable, although you are brothers and sisters, but my husband is 33, her sister is 25, some intimate actions should always avoid suspicion, and it's not when I was a teenager, kiss is kiss, but there are other ways, and I said that I destroyed their family relationship, the way of getting along, Then they also ruined the relationship between us, no one can understand anyone, helpless.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't be too nervous, first of all, you have to recognize whether these 2 people will have such a tendency to deviate, that is your sister, you still don't know her, don't the elders talk to you well? Don't get cranky.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    is optimistic about her husband, brother-in-law and aunt, which is common in the world.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Think about it and you'll understand.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Maybe it's just that she made a mistake, don't worry too much, just watch your husband!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hahahaha, take care of your husband.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Forget it, I also tried my cousin when I was a child, and it doesn't matter when I grow up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This is not sad, in fact, this is a normal ridicule between husband and wife, it's okay, men are not so careful.

    If your husband really doesn't have a big heart, then don't make such jokes, and I believe you don't mean it.

    The most important thing for couples is to trust each other, and this kind of joke is rare.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Oops, I was deliberately teasing you, and I was thinking too much.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You're so idle, what are you doing with this.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Alas! Why is this the problem, many couples get along quite well, but if either spouse and the other party's parents have to be together, trouble will come.

    The best way to deal with it is not to be together, if you can take care of the child at home, if he can afford it, then he does not live with the elderly, the big deal is that there is a relationship between Zhou Wei and the New Year's holiday, and there is not so much friction.

    But if the elderly on both sides have to support, the children have to spend, and the living expenses also have to be expensed, this is also a big burden, just your husband may also be hard, you can have a good talk with your husband, and explain the reason to him, but to make a person change his character, it is also very difficult, you should also do more work with your mother, of course, you should also pay attention to yourself, don't because you are always mixed in the middle, and finally make the left and right not people, that is, hurt the feelings of the mother and daughter, but also hurt the feelings of the husband and wife.

    will be able to hide both sides of a person, and will not be a two-sided person. It's difficult to clean up the official and do housework, mainly depending on the landlord yourself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When we get along together, we are tolerant of each other, understand each other, and think more about each other. There are contradictions everywhere in society. Understand each other and forgive each other.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    How is your husband such a person??! Look down on him!! Mom is the first, it's not easy to pull you up!!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In fact, everyone should give up the elderly, because they have not been alive for many days, and when we were young, we didn't know how much trouble we brought to the elderly, and the old people supported us"? Why can't we support the elderly? Why don't you accommodate each other when you can be together, usually stand at each other's feet to think about it, and think more about each other's good?

    Your husband said that your mother smokes, maybe because he feels that he is too tired from work and it is not easy to earn money, so he means that he should let his mother save a little, right? Men can't speak, don't take it too seriously, don't quarrel with him, talk to him slowly, and believe that things will always be resolved

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You know your problem.

    Said: "I always make some small things big and regret it. ”

    Where is the root of your mistake? Do you know?

    1. Judging from your husband's performance, your husband should like you from the bottom of his heart.

    2. You always can't control your stinky virtue, people like to behave viciously in front of the people they love and are closest to, this is the root of people's inferiority, don't blame you, your nature is evil, and you won't give an inch. But you have to practice, and you have to be able to refrain from it.

    Husband and wife quarrel at the head of the bed and close at the end of the bed.

    a. The reason why you completely chilled him was that you completely expanded the matter and involved his parents! This is the biggest reason why your husband is dead.

    b. Your second biggest mistake is that you are responsible for most of the blame, and you have brought your parents into it.

    c. Your husband flattered you and used the money quietly, but you didn't forgive him.

    3. The reason for your temper outburst must be caused by the pressure of buying a house, so just say it directly, don't point fingers and scold the west, and offend those close to you.

    How do you do that? 1. Your husband is a person who has been with you all his life, talk carefully and sincerely apologize, including to his parents. If you take the initiative, they will regress.

    2. Seek forgiveness from both parents first, explain that you are wrong, in fact, there is no complete right or wrong in the family, as long as one party gives in, generally the other party will definitely give in as long as he loves you.

    3. Women are representatives of flexibility, you can't see them in you, you need to learn the charm of women. It is a woman's ability to overcome rigidity with softness, and you have nothing to do with it.

    4. As long as there is true love, as long as you are sincere, and you learn to communicate, there should be no problem.

    Warning: Don't lose your temper and hurt your husband's soft heart, he can't stand it anymore, including both parents, this is even worse.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Have you heard Na Ying's song: You love too cowardly. Judging from what you said, there is nothing wrong with you, mainly your husband and your mother-in-law.

    And it feels like your husband is dependent on your mother-in-law for everything, spoiling his younger brother, why do you have to postpone marriage if he wants children. His brother's daughter-in-law is a daughter-in-law, aren't you a daughter-in-law? Patently unfair.

    Your husband still doesn't say anything, and your mother-in-law is too powerful, no matter how unsatisfactory she is, she won't drive her in-laws away.

    You've always been saying how nice your husband was to you, apologizing or something. But do you think he was wrong? He should have apologized.

    It feels like you're too. Husband and wife are equal, you buy a house with your husband, how dare he let you go. Didn't your name be written in the house book, and you also paid for it.

    What does he say?

    This man can't do it, and you don't want to hang from a tree all the time.

    If you change a little tempered, you divorced him yourself. If you really can't let go of it, then don't bother with him for the time being, he knows that you can't do without him, you have to establish your dignity, especially in love and marriage, or you will still be wronged in the future.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

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    Teacher examLettersThe test time is altogetherTwo hours? No more than an hourNot allowed to submit papers? If you want to answer the paper, please pick up the pen and don't want to answer.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, it depends on how you read it yourself, everything has a cause and effect, the reason has to be found by yourself, everything is yours to strive for, and it is someone else's to give up, including marriage.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The relationship between the title of the book: Brother-in-law.

    He is also your brother-in-law, and there is a saying in our family called "flat shoulder".

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The name of this relationship is "brother-in-law".

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's your brother-in-law!

    What's your wife's name, what's your name.

    That's it. Also known as "bridges".

    When you tell outsiders about your relationship, you can say: I am a bridge...

    Otherwise, I call it my brother-in-law, and I really think it's your brother-in-law.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's also called two Joe, ok?You call him 2 brothers-in-law.

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