I d rather be single than actively pursue girls, what are boys pursuing now?

Before expressing my opinion, I want to talk about the story of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, because this story can be used to explain what the current boys are pursuing, when the Seven Fairies went down to earth to take a bath in the river, they were discovered by the Cowherd, the Cowherd did a particularly immoral thing, hid other people's clothes, and finally the Weaver Girl had no way to fly to the sky to marry the Cowherd, this story satisfies the imagination of many men, thinking that there is still such a love, but the reality is that this is just a human imagination, There is no woman like the Weaver Girl who can live with a peasant regardless of her identity and everything, and if you want to get a fairy to accompany you for the rest of your life by a way like the Cowherd, I'm afraid it can only be a dream, if you really do that, it's not just a dream, but also a dream squatting in the bureau.

I saw a message on the Internet, it is really not easy for a boy to marry a daughter-in-law now, the rural wedding bride price in individual areas has reached 200,000, just ask a few boys in their 20s who can come up with this money with their own efforts, and the pressure of marriage in the city is not small, although the bride price is not so high, but you have to have a house, and the ** of the house is also expensive, so the boy has slowly accepted such an indisputable fact in his heart, and it is not easy to find a weaver girl who he really loves, the Cowherd has not changed, the Weaver Girl has changed, it has become too materialistic, the boys recognize the facts, and the girls are becoming more and more realistic.

It should be said that today's boys don't take the initiative to pursue girls because they already have self-knowledge, and when you don't have everything on your shoulders to pursue a girl is irresponsible to the other party, it is also wishful thinking, the reason is very simple, it is immoral to get rid of material love, which is no different from cheating, don't talk about love when you have bread, most boys are busy earning bread.

A single guy doesn't take the initiative to pursue a girl because he is self-aware, and a girl is not her dish at all, or he is not the other person's dish.

Nowadays, boys are pursuing happiness, and the pursuit without an ending often makes people unhappy.

In real life, the number of single men and women is getting bigger and bigger. Many boys would rather be single than pursue girls, and I think this has a lot to do with the increasing requirements for love and marriage in real life.

Love is for happiness, but the process of pursuing a girl often makes people unhappy. I have a friend who has never been married, and everyone around him is helping him introduce him. But in the process of pursuing girls, he kept complaining to us that he was too tired.

It's obviously a pursuit, and the girl doesn't dislike it, but it looks like a test. The boy is the one who takes the test, and the girl is the one who has absolute power. Boys not only have to think about the daily life of girls, but also be responsible for all kinds of trivial things in girls' lives, and even guess what girls are thinking in their hearts.

This sounds like a game of strategy, but as long as you stick to it, you can always clear the level, but this is not the case with pursuing girls. No matter how much you put into the pursuit, there is a chance that it will not be successful, and no matter how much money you spend, it can be wasted. Even if two people have been walking, when they come to the step of marriage, the requirements of buying a house, a car and a high bride price are conditions that many boys cannot provide.

Malicious intentions derived from real life make many boys shy away from pursuing girls. Instead of taking the time to find yourself uncomfortable, it is better to play a few games on your own.

Today's boys are also pursuing happiness, but happiness is not so easy. For a boy, it doesn't matter if he can find someone who loves each other and comes together, even if life is hard and tiring. But in fact, many boys can't find such a person at all, and the more they can't find the right person around, the more they are material-based.

Boys slowly began to feel that living alone is much happier than pursuing a girl, and more and more boys began to perceive the happiness and joy of living alone, and began to be reluctant to pursue girls.

In fact, living in this world, everyone is pursuing happiness and joy, but the society we live in always has more malice for boys.

The happiness of two people is too difficult, and many people may have decided to live a happy life for one person.

I think a lot of boys nowadays want to pursue their careers first, and they want to find a girlfriend after they have a successful career, so they are more sure.

In fact, today's boys want to pursue girls, but the pressure is too great now, and chasing girls is also a very waste of money.

Rather be single than take the initiative to pursue girls, today's boys generally like to pursue a laissez-faire personality, and they feel that having a girlfriend will be constrained in their lives.

In pursuit of self-enjoyment and freedom, some boys have become strict wives after seeing that their friends have a partner, and they do not approve of that lifestyle, so they choose to be single.

Now what boys pursue is their own freedom and happiness, and they will not deliberately pursue girls, because boys will also feel very tired.

I think guys nowadays are all looking for money, because as long as you have money, you can get most of the things.

Today's boys want to pursue freedom, because after having a girlfriend, they may lose their freedom and be constrained.

Today's boys are actually supposed to be pursuing freedom, because they feel that the cost of falling in love is too high.