What is it like to not be able to let go of your ex so far?

Looking back on my past, I can't let go of only two words to express my feelings at that time - heartache! In the past, when I saw others saying heartache or what was said in the book, my heart was so heartbroken that I felt that the crepe was very fake! In fact, only after experiencing it first-hand did I realize that heartache is not just a word, but a pain that can be felt physiologically, as if something is pulling and tearing in the heart!

The thought of not being part of each other anymore, and having someone else doing what you used to do in your place, is breathless!

It's really sad. People are sad, life is sad. Someone who doesn't think it's important when they're together.

After leaving you, you realize that everything in your life is about him. Tell yourself every day that you are not the only one who you can't love, so what do you have to be sad about. One second I obviously thought it was no big deal, but the next second I returned to the state of that difficult day and I couldn't live casually!

Maybe it's just a kind of unwillingness. If the love is gone, don't reminisce, it's not the taste of the past. In fact, to be honest, after breaking up, I feel that I love him more, and I feel more tired without him, this is not love, this is a kind of unwillingness.

In the journey of life, no one can accompany you through a lifetime.

Whoever has a dusty feeling and memory in their hearts, sometimes it is not that there is no relief, but that relationship records your best experience, who can easily erase their own personal experience, so sometimes the more you don't think about it, but the deeper the memory, with the change of time, when you have a more wonderful experience, it will often overshadow the time you passed before, not to say that it was diluted before, but 3 overshadowed 2, 2 is still 2, give it to time, time will make you experience more abundantly, meet more, More than before.

In the past, when I heard others say this, I would feel that I would leave and leave, which is a big deal, but when it happened to me, I really accepted the feeling of incompetence. It may also be that you have given too much, and suddenly you have to withdraw it all, and that kind of love and hate is intertwined with the emotions of unwillingness and feeling that you are a failure. The more I think about it, the more it hurts.

I don't want to, but I can't control myself.

I broke up with my ex for just half a year, and it was obviously me who dumped him, but it was me who couldn't forget him. will cry for no reason for countless nights, and really look like him. Although there are other suitors around me, I can't be tempted by others at all.

I guess it's painful.,It's just that I haven't met a better ta.,Or unwilling to get it.,I want to say that these people who can't let go of their ex.,You live well.,Don't hurt the people who like yourself and love yourself.,Just get along with your ex in a dream.,Thank you, please.。

I feel very ashamed of myself in this life, I obviously like her and love her, but I sent her into the arms of others. Now my heart is full of her, and I don't have any feelings for others, but it's too late, if there is an afterlife, I will choose to marry her without hesitation......

It's been a long time since I broke up, and every time I'm with my current one, I always can't help thinking of my ex, and sometimes I often dream about it in my dreams.

Is it that you can't let it go or are you unwilling? I'm worried that you found a partner before me, I care about you publishing her in your circle of friends, I'm worried that you told me that you only got married at 28 but got married at 25, I just didn't want to be like a joke.

How to say, there will be a day when I will let go of my current attachment and reluctance, and live a new life without you with a little regret. But not now, I still can't see him now.

I want to scold him, I want to hug him, I want to laugh happily and laugh together, and sometimes I cry, but when I find the news he posted, I have my shadow and want to find him, but I insist on working hard to wait for him to come to me!!

It's because he is unwilling to be troubled, but he actually understands that he has the woman he loves.

Are you still thinking about your ex now?

In a relationship, some people break up with their ex, turn around and forget about that person and start a new relationship. Some people, no matter how long they have been away from their ex, they still have a longing for their ex, and they have never been able to get out.

A person can't let go of his ex, most of them are the following three reasons, if you haven't let go, then which one?

It was once too unforgettable to be forgotten.

People live for a lifetime, and many people often don't meet a person who makes them feel excited.

It is precisely because true love is so difficult to meet, so when a person finally meets such a person, illuminates his life, experiences a lot of beauty with himself, and amazes his time, even if it is just a moment, it will soon disappear, and those pasts are enough for him to reminisce about his life.

It's not that I don't want to forget that person, it's just that the time with that person is so wonderful that people always think of it unconsciously.

The personality is more nostalgic, and it is not easy to come out of the past.

Not everyone can really look forward, there are always some people who like to look back frequently.

Those who have a more dedicated personality, are not easy to like a person, and want to live a life when they like it, after they break up, they will always have no way to accept the fact of breaking up, they will think that person will come back to find themselves, and they will always feel that each other is still possible. Such a person is very easy to get into the horns, immerse himself in the past, and cannot extricate himself.

He will always live in his own memories, and has always instinctively rejected all the opposite sex around him, and there is no way to start a new sedan party to disturb the relationship.

It's not a good time now, so I always think about the past.

There are also some people who originally put down their ex at first, but later, they remembered it again.

These people will think of their predecessors because their current self is not as good as before, and the people around them now are not as good to themselves as their predecessors. When he is not satisfied with his current and current life, he will unconsciously begin to miss his predecessor and miss the past. I fantasize about whether everything would be different if I had an ex next to me.

People who are living well are always busy experiencing the current life, while people who are not living well will always miss the person and those things in the past.

can't let go of the ex, either he was too gorgeous and made himself too unforgettable, or he was more dedicated and couldn't forget, or he was unsatisfactory at the moment and always felt that his ex was better.

Whatever the reason, your current position is a thing of the past, and you shouldn't worry too much about it.

After all, that person has already left, after all, those who were there have been and can't go back, after all, what should be cherished is the current life and the person in front of you.

A person always has a lot of things to recall, even nostalgia, this is human nature, but people who have been immersed in memories must not have found reality to rely on and sustenance, so that you will have a lot of time to recall, because you don't have to think about it in your heart, that's all, just imagine, if you have a partner who is in love now, or busy working every day, so you will not think about those boring and boring people and things, so where to go, think about it yourself and understand!

On the road of feelings, many people are stumbling, there are very few people who succeed in the relationship, and those so-called bridge-laughing exes have become additional products on their emotional road, so the attitude towards the ex is crooked, and everyone is different. But after all, having such a relationship experience together, it seems that it is not so easy to forget it completely.

secretly paying attention to the dynamics of the ex behind the scenes, Qin Xiaoboredom has become the emotional sustenance of many people after the breakup, although they know that they have broken up and separated from each other, they still can't help but look at it secretly.

I have to admit that if you are in love, if you have really loved it, you will inevitably get hurt after breaking up. Those bits and pieces of life, endless chat records, countless happy memories, and once intimate love. It will always come up again and again, constantly reminding you of how sweet you have been in the past.

It's not uncommon to want to keep the sweet moments and forget about the incompatibility.

thought that it was all good in the relationship, but I lost the pain of breaking up and the determination of the end of each other's feelings.

So there are already waves in his memories, and if he turns over his circle of friends, there will definitely be a new sting. is so repeatedly pulled and pulled entangled, still sinking in the past feelings.

However, have you ever thought that you can't let go, you can't forget, and you can't get better, in fact, you can't give up.

People who can't let go of this relationship need to satisfy themselves by peeping into each other's lives, and by constantly peeping into the lives of their ex, they can understand the other person's living conditions and get a feeling that I still have a place in your life.

Of course, there are also a large number of people who have let go of their relationships and still have other motives to spy on their exe's every move.

We find that people who love more deeply in a relationship, who want to be together more, and who break up more painfully, have a greater probability of peering into the life of their ex. Peeping is an act that does not require exchanging information about oneself, but can also obtain information from the other party and gain a sense of control. In this information asymmetry, they find a part of their lack in love.

It is especially common for people who need to see that the other person is no worse than themselves, so as to seek relief. Most of these wild people feel that they have been hurt in love, under this injury. By constantly understanding and observing the other person's life after the breakup, and denying the other person's current life, you can get the relief of these imbalances in your heart.

It's like a good friend will send me a screenshot every time he posts ** in his ex's circle of friends, and then Barra says something like how you see him now, or having a bad relationship with a new partner.

In fact, the other party's life is not so bad. But he thinks that the other party must be so bad, after all, he shouted that he was so scumbag and irresponsible in the last relationship.

If you can't let go of your ex, it means that your ex has a great influence on you, and it is unforgettable, unless the current one does it more impressive than the predecessor, so that you won't be able to let go of your predecessor, and your ex will be slowly forgotten, and it will only be buried deep in your heart and no longer touched.

That's because people have feelings, and the ex is also the best youth of his sincere feelings, so it's hard to let go, even if he breaks up, it's the existence of Senmo's special banquet.

It's normal to not be able to let go, and generally you can only let go if you have a new lover.

After five years of love, he suddenly said that he broke up, I didn't eat for seven days, couldn't sleep, and lost eleven pounds. Later, after falling out of love for more than ten days, I accidentally saw the girl's Weibo, only to find out that he was with the girl without breaking up with me. Five days after the breakup, he and she went on a trip.

I want to scold people, but I don't want to disturb them, it's really not that great to be a person. I was relieved for a moment, and I turned my head like a knife.

As a person who has come over, I have also been so humble as to almost forget what my surname is for this kind of pig and dog who is not, but I hope that all girls have a little backbone, when you can't let go of him, think about how he let go of you in the first place, your parents worked hard to give birth to you, raise you, spoil you, not to make you sad for something called "ex".

I will have the weather in his city on my phone, and when it cools down, I will open it to see if it is starting to get cold on his side; Search his personal page through QQ to learn about his recent songs and the songs he likes to listen to, and then add them to my playlist.

I know that there is no possibility for the two of them, but I still can't control my thoughts, and I always look forward to the intersection of the future lives of the two people.

When a relationship has been buried by two people, I have long told myself clearly in my heart that life cannot be repeated, and we can never go back to the past. The two of them have obviously broken up for a long time, but as soon as I close my eyes, the figure of the other party always flashes in my mind.

Love is not pain, and gaining and losing is despair.

After I broke up with my ex, it was as if my heart had become a dead wilderness, and there was no longer a hint of wind. In that relationship, I pursued it with all my strength and loved with all my heart.

When the two of us were not together, I felt sad in my heart, for fear that we would not be able to come together in the future; But when the two of them came together and broke up, there was no sadness in my heart, and all that was left was silence, accompanied by numbness and emptiness.

For many nights after the breakup, I couldn't sleep with my eyes closed. I don't want to think about the two of us, but I can't force myself to forget.

Time has washed away the memories of youth, but it can't make me forget the love I once had.

More than 2,000 days and nights have passed since I broke up with my ex, and I thought I had let go of it a long time ago, thinking that she could no longer affect me in the slightest. But when someone suddenly mentioned it, the memory that I had suppressed in my heart seemed to suddenly be reborn, and I couldn't wait to flash in front of my eyes.

I used to think that I was free enough, but when I actually broke up, I realized that my freedom was just a disguise.

Maybe one day in the future, I will completely forget about each other. But until that day actually comes, I think his influence on me will stay with me in my life.

The years have never spared anyone, and the memories of the past have really faded slowly in time. But whenever I see the word ex, I still feel a wave in my heart.

Being able to afford it and not being able to put it down is perhaps the greatest sorrow in my life.