A friend s question, please ask you!

After listening to this, I couldn't help but say "it's over" freely, and then I thought, I can't be finished, if it's over, then it's really over.

This kind of thing is really sad, a key college student, obsessed with the Internet, still working in an Internet café, this kind of end has been very humiliating, was taken home by his parents, and he has not worked for six years, which is worse than a junior high school graduate

It seems hopeless, but in fact, there is still a way, let's talk about the reason first, he is a psychological pathology, what to do, there is a way:

Forced to make a living on his own, man's first need is to survive.

Let him work with his own hands in exchange for payment, and when he does so, he does not have to say anything, and he naturally understands.

Remember that you must be ruthless, people are forced out, and this kind of person must be forced even more, for his good, and for his intangible wealth.

Hope it works!

Hehe, hello, this is completely a mental illness! This kind of appearance has been reflected in many high-achieving students after graduating from college! At the beginning, I was full of expectations for entering university!

Then, in the process of studying in college, I couldn't find a direction and goal, and began to sink into online games! But the essence of the problem lies in whether it can find something to do with confidence! So I think if you want to help him, the best way is to find some of his previous expertise to let him do it, increase his confidence, and gradually it will get better!

According to the diagnostic criteria for mental health, he has certain psychological obstacles, and it is recommended to find a psychological counselor to talk to him to relieve psychological obstacles. In daily life, family members or friends should care more about him, take the initiative to chat with him, the attitude must show sincerity, first of all, establish a good relationship, secondly, encourage him more, even if it is a brief conversation, but also listen carefully to what he says, show concern for him, and also, be patient with him, should not be angry and scolding, otherwise he will become more and more resistant to contact with the outside world, will be more immersed in his own world, and the situation will get worse and worse. In short, this kind of person is insecure, and even has serious low self-esteem, so he must feel the care of the outside world, help him establish a suitable goal, or a number of small goals, step by step to slowly help him achieve, increase his sense of achievement, and build self-confidence in life.

This is a typical person living in a two-dimensional space

It's been six years and I have to see a psychiatrist for **!!

The bell must be tied to the bell, and the heart disease must also be cardiac. Communicate with him more, maybe the way of communication is wrong.

may be the phenomenon after becoming obsessed with the Internet, and persuade her not to be hooked on the Internet.

First, before going to the interview, you should understand the basic overview of the other company, and pay attention to some details that have happened in the other company.

Second, when facing the interviewer, don't be nervous, calmly answer the interviewer's questions, for questions that you have not considered in depth, you can tell the interviewer in person that you have not considered such questions in person, but you can talk about your own thoughts, your own ideas are very important.

Third, whether your dress is formal, your sitting posture, whether you sit there nervously, there will naturally be some habitual ** movements, these should be paid attention to.

Finally, give yourself confidence that you can. Here's wishing you a successful interview.

Take the initiative on the topic and prepare the following things before the interview.

1) Understand the size of the company, the products it produces, and the nature of its products.

During the interview, you can start to transfer to the company's perception and so on, so that the interviewer will be surprised, and the person who is not from the company knows so much about his company, and it will be impressive.

The company asks itself about the time it goes through.

3) It's good to say 2, up to 3 Say too much and feel like you're unstable about your job, always changing companies, and giving the impression of being unreliable.

The company asks you to be professional and good at.

4) You have to fully affirm that you are good at it, you want to say that I am very good at it, don't use it, it's okay, and so on. In addition, I have my own specialty, if you want to say two or three, it is too much I feel that I am full of treasure knives, and there is no sharp feeling.

5) Be assertive and learn to refute.

You only know the surface, not the depth. I think you're supposed to be a graduate, or maybe you don't know much about the industry you're interviewing in!

My friend is like that, it's not worth me to go to Li Qing's activities like this, and told me that if a person succeeds, his friend will come uninvited, and if it's a hillbilly, no matter how good the friendship is, it's in vain.

Your dad is right, very ......

However, it is limited to friends other than close friends.

No matter how big the gap is, it only hinders some communication.

Those friends who really go into your heart, ......It's not "cultivated" by time, it's like love at first sight, and a deep conversation can determine which is the same person - two of my friends like this found out. No matter how good my relationship with other people (including my parents) is, I know in my heart that they are different from these two people.

If you want to look at friends or connections in a utilitarian way, then I think you should follow what your father said, read more books or study at home, make yourself more powerful in all aspects, and high-quality friends who can help you will be attracted to you. (To be honest, the mental capacity of friends and people who are confused like this needs to be greatly strengthened, and people who can think about deeper issues will not waste time on such people).

If you want to find a close friend, pay more attention to your feelings, and choose the right person for a deep macro exchange, including values, outlook on life, views on things, etc., the success rate is greater than that of you who has no quality and attacks from all sides.

Some people don't have a confidant in their life, and friends are passers-by in your life.

You and your friends are all being themselves, but your lives are always connected, consciously or unconsciously.

Love yourself and the people around you

Needless to say, treat the people around you sincerely, be yourself, and learn to care about others.

Then you'll know that you'll get those rewards too.

Friends are not high or low, even if they are your friends but have never been able to help you, but there will be your past in some insignificant places.

So don't think about having friends, the Jane faction must only be good to you and love you.

It's nice to have fun together.

I used to be like you, I always felt that I had never had a real friend, but now I found out that my friend was by my side, and she was in the same neighborhood as me.

We are classmates! I didn't know about Lippi, and her interest was actually the same.

I'm like-minded, and I was born on the same day, the same month, the same year, and the same day as her!

Later, I became friends with her, and now they are not the same.

School, it's still very good! I feel very happy!

I think your parents are also good for you, but if a person succeeds, friends will come uninvited, what if it fails? You have to remember that in this world there is.

What a joy to be a friend! I think as long as you are serious about looking for it, how not.

Got a close friend? Marx and Engels had a great friendship that will be remembered forever by posterity! Believe in yourself again!

A true friend is one who will always be by your side no matter what happens to you, and this is true friendship.

1, you should still pay more attention to feelings, and you are still more satisfied and nostalgic for the previous relationship, so the best result is to release the previous suspicions, not just stop him.

2. He has only changed recently, so you have to consider whether you have changed yourself.

3. Robbing your words, which means stealing your limelight, this is not necessarily completely jealous, but it may also be a feeling of isolation, that is, being snubbed by everyone, especially you.

To sum up, you can talk to him privately, mainly on the following points.

1. It means that you are still friends, and you have always regarded him as your best friend.

2. Clearly say that what he has done during this time has affected the relationship, but you still want to believe that he is just impulsive.

3. Affirm his ability and say that he never feels that he is worse than others. Hopefully he won't be jealous of others, because there is no need (don't mention yourself).

4. Finally, let him talk about his own views and talk about how to restore the relationship to the best time it was in the beginning.

I believe that after in-depth exchanges, many barriers will be eliminated.

Good luck!

Let's communicate well! Communication starts from the heart

Eh, let's take a look from your friend's point of view, what does he usually rob the talk of, is it that you used to steal the limelight from him and never took into account your friend's feelings? Perhaps, your friend couldn't take it anymore and decided to interrupt you.

No, let's talk about it, there is a lack of communication between people, and everything is different. After all, he has been friends, and if he really has a personality problem, it means that it doesn't matter if he doesn't make friends.

Let's talk to him first, and if it doesn't work, stay away.

It is really tiring for such a jealous person to get along with each other, or maybe he was instigated by someone to deliberately instruct him to do that for the sake of you. If he wants to do that himself, it's better to slowly distance himself, if he doesn't give you his heart, it's useless if you give him his heart, and it will hurt.

If you don't want to leave him just like that, then ask him why ... It was best to be able to solve it.

Sincere, selfless, generous and enthusiastic, take the initiative to care for each other, and be willing to help each other's ......Here are some guidelines for getting along with friends. (As long as you try to do that, you should have a good relationship with your friends.) ）

In addition, friends should communicate with each other frequently. That's how they get closer. (If you don't take the initiative to wait for the other person to approach you.) The relationship between the two sides is bound to be cold! ）

To survive in society is to be a man (as the saying goes: it is difficult to be a man, it is difficult to be a man, it is difficult to be a man).

As long as a person is selfless in his heart, he is generous. He must have a clear conscience and be respected! (If he has selfish intentions and is stingy with others, he will be troubled and ridiculed!) ）

The necessary courtesy and politeness when interacting with others is still required! (As long as it comes from the bottom of your heart, it's not hypocritical!) ）

People are social beings. Socializing is one of the most important activities in life! You can use every gathering of friends as a great opportunity to exchange information, exchange ideas, and connect feelings! (This is what should be the theme!) (Eating, drinking, and playing is just an interlude!) ）

Good luck with your friends!

Get along with very good friends. It's not going to be out of topic. You can talk about your common hobbies, about the future, about ideals, or about things that you find interesting lately. Even if there is really no topic, then silently enjoy the tranquility of that moment, it is very warm.

I think the most important thing is to be honest and honest. Treat him with all sincerity.

Be honest, you are good to him, and he is good to you, so that you can be good friends.

Because I know each other too well, I may not know what to say sometimes, so I might as well talk about the recent class things, talk about the previous things, or say some books that I am more interested in, animation, TV, **, etc. Sometimes it's good to send some ** on the Internet or send greeting cards in the online mailbox.

Talk more about topics that the other person is interested in, care more about others, chat from the other person's point of view, and don't be self-centered, I think they will gradually like you.

There may be a word that best describes you as ---sensitive".

You know? What could be more reassuring at this stage than simply studying? In the final analysis, interpersonal relationships are not as complex and abstract as imagined, and we must continue to apply the ** law of interpersonal relationships, namely:

Treat others as you would like them to treat you. Everything around you will be much more harmonious. Of course, we can't completely rule out the possibility that other people have low mood and emotional disorders.

But most of the time, your sincerity will always be exchanged for sincerity. Just have to be patient.

Secondly, if you lower your expectations of others and raise your own requirements, you will find that there will be a different social environment. I really can't think of a better way to do it.

Good luck