I don t want to drag my girlfriend down when I m unemployed, and now I m semi unemployed, will my gi

Updated on psychology 2024-04-06
67 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's really going to drag her down, hey, don't blame yourself, haven't you heard that love is selfish?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How can this be wanted. Apparently materialistic people. Unless you are close to perfection in the future, otherwise, there will be endless troubles, don't be too soft-hearted, otherwise you will suffer in the future.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    As soon as possible, you dump her, or you will suffer for the rest of your life. This kind of woman has a strong sense of vanity.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    As soon as possible, you dump her, or you will suffer for the rest of your life. This kind of woman has a strong sense of vanity.

    But it mainly depends on your own decision, if I must not, a successful man must have a woman to support, and it is difficult to succeed with such a woman.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If a considerate girlfriend shouldn't be like this, will she usually do the same in other ways? If so, then it doesn't seem like she's doing it well, or is she also troubled? I hope you can open your mind, women sometimes say impulsive points, the job is gone, you can find it again, as long as you work hard, there is no problem that cannot be solved!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Whether you can or not depends on your own decision, if you want me, a successful man must have a woman to support, and it is difficult to succeed with such a woman.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's up to you.

    In fact, we men are not stronger than women, and we also want each other to be comforted.

    You see what she thinks, if she looks down on you, then disperse.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If I say I can't give me something, I'm going to be angry, don't be bothered by unhappy things, it's not worth it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Dump it, such a girlfriend is garbage, they won't get tired of thinking about it. Garbage to die for.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's something that motivates you to struggle.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Either she's not virtuous, she's too grumpy, or she looks down on you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Use it first, and then change it when you're useful.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If she loves you enough, she will break up with you because of this, but you yourself are indeed very problematic, not confident, and you should have to learn how to behave in the world.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If your girlfriend is unemployed, you're going to break up? This feels a bit unkind, you actually proposed to break up when she needed help the most, this really shouldn't happen to a man, so you better wait for her to find a job and then slowly bring it up! It's better to have a conscience to be a man! Brothers!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You've got to find a reason, and to put it mildly, look for yourself. Say you're leaving here and going out of town.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You're going to break up with your girlfriend's career, what kind of man are you?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It depends on the actual situation, some people always want to find a comfortable job, not down-to-earth, and the job changes frequently, which is not good.

    If you lose your job for objective reasons, it's nothing, just look for it again, and of course you won't dislike it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No, we will only work together with him and support him silently.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    No, a girl's job is easy to find, she can use her language skills to write**, as long as you take care of her three meals a day.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Why do you dislike her? She just couldn't find a suitable job for a while, and she didn't know how to find it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No, I'll help her and work with her to find it!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No, you can only find the right one by looking for a job, and you won't be in a hurry for a while.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Definitely not, it doesn't matter if this job doesn't work or not, men, they should have raised women. Besides, it's only temporary.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    No, it should be men who make money to support their families.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Definitely not, if disliking her proves that you don't like her at all.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you want to dislike it, give me your girlfriend.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If it's true love, it's good to keep it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you love her, then no matter how much she is, you will love her.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Not only will it not, but it will encourage him.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I don't feel disgusted with my beloved.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you don't want your girlfriend to know that you are unemployed, you should find a job as soon as possible, because it will make her think that you are cheating on him.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If it's better not to look for a girlfriend in your career now, if your girlfriend finds out, he will definitely be sad.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's too late to know now, so you should be honest and don't lie.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's just unemployed, just look for it again, it's not a big problem.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    In fact, this is just a boy's practice in order to protect the girl, and he doesn't want the girl to get angry with him and try the pain of unemployment, but it can be seen, which means that this girl still cares about you.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Hello friend, judging by the situation you described to him, as you yourself said, you should have told her the truth from the beginning.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Then talk to your girlfriend about it, in fact, no matter what, it's better to tell your friend from your mouth, it's much better than letting him find out.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Yes, how could you lie to her, once you are seen through, the trouble is not a little bit, the consequences are very serious, and it seriously affects your integrity, I hope you can survive this crisis safely.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    In fact, your girlfriend doesn't care if you're unemployed or not? All he cares about is if you're telling him the truth? I think what's going on? Discuss it with your girlfriend tomorrow, or say it, so that you can show respect for him, otherwise he will think that you don't respect her.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Find a girlfriend, you try to tell the truth, don't hide the situation, so that once it is known. On the contrary, it will be worse.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I think it's better to seek truth from facts, what to say, if he loves you, this time is also the most reflected, if he doesn't love you, it's good to leave, because he may be looking at what is behind it.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I feel that two people should be sincere together, it doesn't matter if you are unemployed, you can find a job again, if your girlfriend is gone, what else can you do, it's better for two people to be honest.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    In fact, your unemployment problem is not terrible, the key is not to be discouraged, and you can solve the problem by looking for a good job again.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    I think since it's your girlfriend, you have to treat it sincerely, and tell her truthfully if you are unemployed, and she will face it with you.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Should have told her at the beginning.

    Then she will feel deceitful.

    But that's already it.

    It can also be well explained.

    Gain sympathy. It's okay if a woman is soft-hearted.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    。If you find a girlfriend, you should treat him. Maintain absolute trust. Don't hide anything, or keep it private. Or deception.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    In the end, it has been seen, then you have to tell the other party truthfully, which can also be explained.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    The two of them don't hide it from us, since they already know, then you tell her that you're afraid that she will worry, so I didn't tell him, I hope he can understand.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    This kind of thing depends on yourself, are you a man or a woman, I guess there are many women, do you think your boyfriend is very self-pitying, so after being unemployed, you will have this kind of thought, in fact, it is not, as long as the hearts of two people are together.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Being unemployed can only be explained. What you need is a job that's more suitable for you, being too young is sometimes a bad thing.

    Feelings are two people's business, this so-called truth or experience, is lost before you know how to advise those who love and have love at the moment, cherish and treat your other half of the girl for fear of being left out, delicate thoughts, happy to be valued.

    Hit ** to her best friend, through various ways, crazy to find her, remember to pay more attention to and care for her in the future

    Love is mutual responsibility and tolerance, and love is long-term patience.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    I think it's one thing to not see you, the key is that she knows that you are unemployed, whether she really cares about you, whether she understands you. If you don't see that there is no information for you, and there is that unemployment is not terrible, you have to have self-confidence and dignity. If that's the case, she wants to break up with you, and you should be glad.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Then take advantage of this time to go to her, you can have a good talk, you can have a long time with her, don't guess at the beginning of love, start by paying attention to her life and mood

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Unemployment is not terrible, if she really communicates with you and understands you, and then you continue to look for a job seriously, it will not be a big problem, find time to have a good chat with her.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    There may be something really going on, it's best to figure it out, and it's best if you can talk to each other in person.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    I think it's better not to break up in a hurry, in case she has something else, don't misunderstand the good of others.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Then break up, such a person is still left behind, so break up quickly.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Nothing is a reason to love you; I don't love you, and it's no reason for anything.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Yes, prove that she doesn't care about you anymore.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    The first floor is right, husband and wife share hardships, and they can't fly separately at the end of the disaster. Make it clear to her.

    It's useless if you're afraid, it's the nature of men to be strong, don't be afraid if you're a man! What's the big deal, the head has a big scar on the ground, don't be afraid, you have to face it bravely! I'm sticking with you!

    Now about your problem, bro, it's not a big deal. Love is mutual, if your girlfriend is only with you for material things, then do you think it is necessary to keep this kind of woman? Fans of the authorities, jump out of the siege and take a look, you will experience more.

    Tell her the truth, explain everything, and see what she thinks. What is a poor couple? Do you understand?

    Husbands and wives want to share weal and worn, if they can only share joys and sorrows, then it is not called true love!

    If, your girlfriend really left you, don't be sad because this woman is not worthy of your love.

    I see that you have asked a question, and I guess you haven't explained it to your girlfriend yet. Let's talk to her about it first, maybe you're thinking too much? Maybe she'll share your ups and downs?

    Let's talk first, it depends on the situation!

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    Husband and wife share hardships, through this matter, you can know whether your girlfriend is true love for you, whether it is sincere, you don't inject your thoughts into her, see what will happen to her. I believe that if she doesn't leave you, although your pressure is a little greater, but you have the motivation to find a job, come on.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    Your girlfriend is not all with you for money, look at the recruitment of so many people to say this about her, there are things that are richer than you, you are not only a man, but also a father in the future, and the pillar of the family. Unemployment is an opportunity for many people, maybe you can find a better job, maybe you can do business and become rich, life can't all be smooth, a little bumpy will make you more manly, and your strength may be more attractive to her!

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    If she really loves you, she will be willing to accompany you through this extraordinary period, if not, it is useless to keep someone who doesn't love you around! In the current situation, you can test it a little and see how she reacts so that you can decide what to do! Don't forget, you still have to actively look for a job, after all, life still has to be lived!

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-07

    Don't break up, recharge your batteries well, explain well to your girlfriend that she loves you and you will understand you, and finally find a good job.

  64. Anonymous users2023-12-06

    You don't break up and go on looking for a job. If she says to break up, there is no way to do it.

  65. Anonymous users2023-12-05

    The real reason you want to break up with her is not because you're unemployed, it is.

  66. Anonymous users2023-12-04

    In a word, you man is too unconfident.

    Since love is to die, we must resist it, and we know that we can't stop it.

  67. Anonymous users2023-12-03

    You can't share the difficulties, don't do it.

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