What is it like to make unrequited love a habit?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-23
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, it is very sad, that is, liking has become the norm of habit, you will think that I will not like anyone anymore except for liking him, in fact, this is very scary, this is just a kind of positioning of ourselves, self-closing our hearts.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't dare to tell him, just approach him, try every means to get close to him, integrate into his life, understand him better, help him, grow for him, and finally tell him how you feel if possible, maybe together, even if you are separated in the end or don't start at all, you won't indulge in dark emotions, because you try to fit into his world, try to get close to him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Unrequited love as a habit is a scary thing, because habits are very difficult to change, and unrequited love is a wrong state to change.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm used to liking someone, and I can't quit, like taking drugs.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When I meet someone I like, I always keep it in my heart, look at him silently, like him, never tell him, afraid of rejection. Because of this, I missed a lot of people, and the backlog of likes in my heart could not be released.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When you meet someone you like, you think that others like her as well, then you are very wrong, others do not like you as much as you think!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    People who like it have similar characteristics and feel like their own flowers.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    That's when your mentality has changed, and when you feel like you're used to it, your relationship is already doomed to be insurmountable!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't know if I still like him, or if I fall in love with this feeling of unrequited love, and I feel sorry for myself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's okay for people to be full of intentions for the person they like, so let's get closer to it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Brother, you deserve to be single, there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower. We should do it, in the midst of thousands of flowers, not a single leaf sticks to the body.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Encyclopedia: Status Performance.

    1 Because they feel that the other person loves them, they often put the other person's speech and behavior into the orbit of subjective needs to understand.

    2 If you can see the other person, you will watch the other person's every move as much as possible, and if you can't see the other person, you will guess or skillfully inquire about the other person's whereabouts.

    3 Unrequited lovers think they are in love, but the reality is so cruel that they are always reluctant to accept it.

    4 Thinking that the other person is also loving him, he feels that he should repay the other person with more sincere and passionate love.

    5 Although they think that the other person loves them, they are not very sure, and they are often in a state of confusion and doubt.

    6 Inspired by the power of fantasy, the face is often renewed.

    7 The inferiority complex is deep.

    8 He has an unattainable fear of the other party, and although he yearns for the reality of love, he does not dare to confess.

    9 I can't bear the pent-up feelings in my heart, and I often want to find someone to vomit for pleasure. And hopefully get people's approval.

    10.Wishful thinking has to give one's love, but rarely thinks about what the other person thinks of one's love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What is it like to be in unrequited love? This is a very uncomfortable feeling, you will be upset when you are in unrequited love, and you will regret it after unrequited love, as a person who has come over, let me talk about my personal experience.

    I was in junior high school that year, and I don't know why the teacher did a large-scale seat swap shortly after the start of school, and my table mate was originally a boy, so he became a girl. My personality is more introverted, and I don't take the initiative to talk to others. The boys are a little better, but the girls are really embarrassed to get along.

    It's not customary to change to a tablemate, but fortunately, her personality is very cheerful, so it didn't take long for us to get acquainted.

    Later, it was very chatty, and the two people had a lot of common language, so there was usually no shortage of topics to talk about. I got along like this day and night, and I fell in love with her, but I didn't confess it. I am afraid that if the confession fails, the relationship between the two people will be very awkward, and even the current friendship relationship may not be maintained.

    At that time, I should have been her best friend besides her best friend.

    It's like this, I've been in unrequited love for three years, and I haven't confessed, and the two of them have been getting along as friends. Later, when they went on to higher education, the two were admitted to different high schools and separated. After that, there is less contact.

    After separation, I realized that I didn't confess at that time, how stupid it was to be in unrequited love all the time, and I regretted that I didn't confess at that time, so I kept unrequited love, and now I want to confess, but I don't have a chance.

    What is it like to be in unrequited love? At first, you will regret it, so if you are in unrequited love, confess it as soon as possible.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The experience of unrequited love is really disturbing, it will make you feel that you can't get in, and you can't get it back. Xiaobai uses his past experience to share with you.

    That year, Xiaobai's third year of junior high school, the beginning of love, that was the first time Xiaobai had the feeling of wanting to fall in love, but often at this time, few female classmates will reply to you, especially Xiaobai is not the kind of person who dares to express directly, although this is not a secret love, but the girl knows what you mean but does not reply to you, obviously does not want to have further development with you.

    Maybe it's because Xiaobai's study is not bad, so the girl is not disgusted with me, but fortunately, this girl's study is also good, so we can communicate together and ask each other questions, although Xiaobai sometimes knows the question, but also to ask, because this is an opportunity to communicate, but every time before asking a question, Xiaobai's heart is pounding, after all, before I can't determine the girl's mind, I always feel a little weird, this feeling is amazing. After asking every time, I found an opportunity to chat with her, and after a certain degree of progress, Xiaobai finally couldn't help it and expressed it to the girl, but the girl thought that she would finish the question first, and then she kept dodging.

    This kind of unrequited love is really disturbing, you need to be courteous to her all the time, I hope she can be kind to herself, even if it is a smile, even if it is a simple greeting, but she is not angry there, you talk to her about something, she thinks that there is no transgression, she will take care of you, if she thinks you are out of line, she will find a way to cover up and avoid this topic, all in all, you really can't do it.

    When she graduated, she didn't say anything, Xiaobai's unrequited love ended in high school, and then there was less contact with girls, after all, there was not much additional communication, it was difficult to have a common topic, so Xiaobai suggested that everyone should not have unrequited love, if there is no progress for a period of time, and there is no possibility of progress, just give up, it is very painful in my heart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's very bitter, and no one will know silently that your beloved doesn't love you, and you can only be an outer.

    I met you at the best of years, but you are air to me. Then the emotion is like a bubble blowing up the sky, and before it has time to be like fireworks in the night sky, and before it has time to be reflected by the sun's colorless light, it bursts with a pop.

    Then the emotion is like a bubble blowing up the sky, and before it has time to be like fireworks in the night sky, and before it has time to be reflected by the sun's colorless light, it bursts with a pop.

    There is no right or wrong in love, only whether it is suitable or not, willing or not, happy or not. When you can't be together anymore, it's not that she didn't choose you, it's not that you abandoned her, it's that happiness didn't choose you, happiness didn't choose you, and love didn't choose you.

    So don't be troubled, don't be sad, you should bless each other and hope that each of you will find your true love. If you feel pain when you lose the other person, then it proves that you don't love her at all, you just want to possess her, and you will only suffer when your possessiveness cannot be satisfied.

    When you love someone, what you should think about is not what the other person can give you, but what you can give her, can you give her the affection she needs? Can you give her joy and happiness? Can you be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness?

    Only this kind of love is true love, and only this kind of love can be happy.

    To like a person is to be willing to give thoroughly in the relationship, eat the mistakes he loves to eat, go where he has been, like the scenery he likes, and be attached to everything about him. To like a person is to be happy because of his joy and to be disappointed because of his loss. If you like someone, you just don't know how to say what you like, if you say too much, you are afraid of making a mistake, and if you say less, you are afraid of missing out.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Painful things, paid alone, it's hard to get a response, get along as a friend, don't dare to care too much, because I'm just her friend.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I feel that my feelings are not valued, and I will live in my own touching every day, and others will not care about your touching, because I am just a simple unrequited love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Unrequited love makes you feel like you are secretly liking someone, and although you love each other very much, you don't respond. When I was alone, I felt that this emotion was very bitter.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The experience is to be single all the time, and there is no way to start with a partner. I wonder how people with sexual unrequited love start, and I can't even do it for a day. Get used to a crush.

    After discovering this problem, I never expressed my liking, and I was afraid that I would avoid it after the other party responded.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Unrequited love is a person's thing, a person chases, a person loves, a person hurts, and a person suffers.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Unrequited love is simply making life worse than death, knowing that the other party doesn't like you, but there is still no way to dislike each other, and love is very humble.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The joys and sorrows are all your own, even if you cry until you want to faint, no one knows what you are for, and no one cares.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Unrequited love is to never really own her, but it feels like she has been lost thousands of times. All long-term affection may not end well, I just hope you are still full of courage for love.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Unrequited love is more painful. It is very heart-wrenching to pay unilaterally, but not get a corresponding response, or even to have nothing in the end.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Everyone who doesn't fall in love easily has an impossible person living in their hearts! Every person who is invulnerable to poison has been incurable! I have been in unrequited love with a girl for eight years, eight years is not a long time, but it is enough to exhaust my best youth, raise my head and say to the world to pursue true love, never regret it, in the process of chasing to make myself better and better, for this do not hesitate to miss, wrong again and again!

    Everyone thinks that we are a couple, and even we ourselves sometimes have the illusion that we are all very good to each other, so good that we get carried away and don't know where we came from! But when the hearts are about to come near, they tear each other apart. None of them tacitly did not pierce that layer of paper, and each other has always been single!

    I feel like she likes herself, but every time she gives indifference when she is warm! It is said that companionship is the most affectionate confession, how cruel the word "wait" is, but it runs through half of my life! ‍‍

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I can't say it, I just know that when I can't see each other, I even think about how to meet each other when I eat, and I will make up for each other's appearance when I walk, and I will be very nervous when I see it, I want to attract the attention of the other party, and I am afraid that I will be embarrassed and ugly in front of the other party. All in all, an amazing experience. All your actions are premised on the other person's presence or what the other person will think.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The so-called unrequited love is that you live in a fantasy world, you are always paying attention to someone, and you care about her or his every move, her crying and laughing are all related to you at once, and when you care about him or her, he or she does not know, you express it to her but are afraid that she knows.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I don't know who is more humble in a relationship, but I do know that the unrequited party is the one who is humbled to the dust. Caring about a girl for six years, I'm not sure if it's like, if it is, I know, it's just unrequited love without results, that's all. She said she liked me because I was nice to her, and she said we couldn't be together because we knew each other too well and walked into life with time!

    We didn't know how to define each other's feelings, so we called each other "confidants"! Let me love and never abandon me, even if I become her shadow, it is also my great luck! The day she left, she gave me a hug, hugged each other, and embraced a new life!

    After all, we have to form our own families, and we have to live our own lives! She was the untouchable dream of my youth! ‍‍

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think unrequited love is the same as a crush, it's just unrequited love, I'm a student, and this semester is a waste of feelings. I've had crushes before, and I always thought it was a crush, but then I realized that it was just a crush on boys in adolescence!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    When I started unrequited love, I always thought that any result was acceptable, but I wanted to be accompanied. However, in the end, this bit of rationality could not play a role in protecting the heart at all under the thorn of emotion.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Follow his WeChat, Weibo, Renren, everything about him, you know, even better than himself, and he only knows your name. Maybe walking in the crowd, the name and you don't match.

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