My wife sent a message to her ex husband s family after giving birth

According to my analysis, your wife has changed her mind and wants to be with you, but he doesn't really love you, I can only say that you have suffered buddy, my former wife is also living like this, and I have the heart to die, but my later wife is obedient to me My experience is to find a life that loves yourself Find an entertainment that you love Don't mess with your heart.

You're mentally retarded! Don't you think about it again?

You're stupid. It's not obvious that she's taking your money to raise their kids and the two of them.

You're fucking really. I'm speechless.

丨 Such a woman can't want;;

Your wife is a talent, you are also a talent, to be honest, to be a wife, this woman is really not good, everyone recognizes. Being a lover, a good choice, you don't have to be responsible. Let's change it.

Send the child's ** to him, it's obvious that the child belongs to that man!

Actually, your wife likes that man very much, because of personality problems, but they are not suitable for living together.

But I admire your tolerance! So that you can all accept it??!

The child born to himself and his current life is called Uncle Ex-husband.

According to the problem description, it is actually a polite question. Children born to themselves and their current life can call their ex-husbands "uncle". It's a pretty good way to put it.

Because uncle is a general term, it can be far and near. In this way, children and adults will not fall into an embarrassing situation, of course, it is not a constant layer, it can be combined with the actual situation, as appropriate.

Salutation etiquette. 1. For one's relatives, they should generally be addressed according to the conventional title, but sometimes in order to show cordiality, there is no need to stick to the standard of title. For example, father-in-law, mother-in-law, father-in-law, and mother-in-law can be called "father" and "mother".

2. Use honorific titles to address other people's relatives. Generally, the word "order" can be added before the title, such as "Lingzun", "Lingtang", "Linglang", "Lingai Xinju", etc. For their elders, you can also add the word "respect", "respect for uncle", "respect for grandfather" and so on.

3. The title of friends and acquaintances should be cordial and friendly, but also respectful, and can generally be called "you", "you", or according to the age, add "old" and "small" in front of the surname, such as "Lao Wang" and "Xiao Li".

Don't get excited, don't be so ignorant. You only need the marriage certificate of the husband and wife to apply for the birth certificate, and some places also need a household registration book, as for who your ex-husband's son is with, and how many children you have given birth to, there is no clear requirement at present, of course, when family planning is strictly controlled, if a woman gives birth to a son, no matter who the son is awarded, the woman will be restricted from having another child, but at present, it is liberalized, and there is no limit

Follow the following four steps to make it easier to apply for a birth permit.

1. Go to the urban family planning department of one of the parents who are ready to register the child to get a blank "Birth Service Certificate", that is, the birth permit. At the same time, the collection of materials began at the request of the family planning department.

2. At the same time, prepare the marital status certificate of both parties. The police station where the woman's household registration is located shall issue a "Certificate of First Marriage and First Childbirth".

3. If you are going to fill in the work unit on the maternity service certificate, then you must also have a certificate issued by both units, and the official seal of the unit must be stamped on the "maternity service certificate". Therefore, it is suggested that one party can write unemployed.

4. Take the "Birth Service Certificate" stamped with the official seal of the unit to the woman's street family planning commission for stamping. After completing the above 4 tasks, take the "Certificate of First Marriage and First Childbirth", ID card, and household registration book to the family planning department of the city where the child will settle in the future to apply for the "Birth Service Certificate", that is, the birth permit. The birth permit shall be reviewed by the people of the township (town) where the woman's household registration is located** and the sub-district office, and the "Birth Service Certificate" shall be uniformly registered, numbered, and stamped with the official seal, and handed over to the parties for preservation.

Special circumstances: For couples who want to have a second child, they should apply for the "Birth Service Certificate" for the first child in accordance with the procedures, and report to the district (county) family planning administrative department or the municipal family planning administrative department for examination and approval after being reviewed by the township (town) people** and sub-district offices, and then issue the "Birth Service Certificate" for the second child, and at the same time withdraw the "Birth Service Certificate" for the first child.

What materials are required for the birth permit 1Husband and wife's ID card 2Male and female household registration book 3Original Marriage Certificate 4Marriage and childbirth certificates of both men and women (issued by the units or neighborhood committees of both parties) 5Bareheaded**.

6.Pregnancy certificate issued by the hospital How to reapply Take the household registration booklet, ID card and marriage certificate of two people to the neighborhood committee or village committee where the household registration is located, or when you go to the household registration, take the household registration book and the baby's medical birth certificate (the hospital where the baby was born will issue relevant procedures and tell you how to handle it) and go to the police station to handle it (the child is born within one month, and the neighborhood committees of both parties must certify after one month, etc.). Duration of use Family planning service certificates are generally valid for one year, and the specific regulations vary from region to region.

I think I should tell your ex-husband, after all, the child belongs to him, and he has the right to know about it. I don't know what the reason for your separation was, but if you tell your ex-husband about it, maybe the child will be the key to the reunion between you.

There will inevitably be stumbles when two people are together, and sometimes they choose to divorce on impulse, and they don't think about the beauty of the past and everything in the future. Now that you have a child, you should let your ex-husband know about it, you can sit down and talk quietly, will there be a reunion, I hope to give the child a complete home, I don't believe he is so cruel, even his own child will not be cherished. Besides, you must have calmed down with each other after the divorce, some things may not be so complicated when you think about it, if you can get back together, have a complete home, and give your children a complete love, that's the best.

If you don't plan to remarry, then you should also tell your ex-husband that single mothers have a lot of pressure with children, including financial and psychological aspects, and if you don't tell him, all the expenses need to be borne by you alone, and tell your ex-husband that he is obliged to pay child support, which can also reduce your burden on children.

If he does not intend to recognize the child and refuses to pay for child support, you have the right to go through the judicial process to defend your rights. Not for yourself, but also for the child to think about it, if the two people can really meet the requirements to give the child a complete home, wouldn't it be better, if you can't get back together, it can also reduce your pressure, and the child can't always be without a father in the process of growing up, tell your ex-husband that the child may also get father's love.

"Thank you, Mom! "—how lucky you are to be my mother, how lucky I am to be your child. "

I really thank the mothers of the world, and I must say thank you. I really don't know if you're a first-time mom or why you got divorced. The moment you decide to give birth to a child, you actually have your own plan in your heart.

Maybe you have made a forecast of the future in advance, and the reason why you want to ask is that I think you are considering the child's future growth environment!

1.It is necessary to talk about the reason for your divorce, if you divorce because you are not in the right household and are forced to divorce by your elders. First of all, your husband is not a man, and he actually divorced you because of the opposition of the family, is he a mother's boy!

If you tell him the news for financial reasons, they will think that you are using your children to blackmail you, and they will think that you are in it for money. In such a situation, it is necessary to tell him, isn't it self-inflicted?

2.If the reason for divorce is only because of the disagreement between the husband and wife, or only after the divorce, the life of both parties will be a little better. This situation should tell him, no matter when you choose to tell him, everyone knows that a child cannot be without a father.

Another point is that since he is the husband and wife of the child, he should let him know that he still has a child. And he also has a maintenance obligation to support the child, so it must be said.

3.If you divorce for other reasons, it means that he is a scumbag, which is equivalent to a person who does not do his job. Then I don't recommend that you tell him, at least not now, for this kind of scumbag, it was not easy to get rid of him.

You may be pestering you with children every day, do you want this kind of life? And the best time to tell him can only wait for the child to be sensible, tell the child first, and then tell the ex-husband!

4.The last point is that if you can give birth to a child yourself, you have to ask yourself if you are a strong woman? If so, then needless to say, I raised my children by myself, and there are many single mothers in society now, and they don't live very well.

There is no need for you to doubt your abilities, you can give the best to your child.

Finally, I hope that no matter how you choose, you can't use your children as a coercion or hurt your children. I can't feel that my child is a burden because of my current choice and regret it one day in the future. Sprinkle your anger on your child, I think, this is not the purpose of your child!

Not only should you be responsible for your choices, but you should also set a good example for single mothers like you. Because mother is a beautiful word that cannot be explained by simple actions. Come on!

Mom".

Now that you have chosen to be born ready to face everything, the specific situation will be dealt with on a case-by-case basis, and in the end, all your decisions should be made for the future growth of the child, please consider the child.

Since he didn't know that you gave birth to his child, and you didn't tell him, I don't recommend that you tell him after you gave birth, although I don't understand why you gave birth yourself, but I hope you don't bother others, don't morally kidnap your ex-husband, I guess you don't want to either.

I think the wife should keep this unborn child. First of all, if two people have feelings, they should not be willing to give up. The man's family also strongly wants to keep a queen, so the child will definitely not be raised by the woman herself, so it will be easier to have the man's family to help the woman.

First, after all, this child who did not go out is the only crystallization of love between his wife and husband, and it is also a life that has not descended to the world. Imagine, it is a pity that the wife died unexpectedly because of her husband's death; And this is also going to kill your own blood and bones, which is too miserable. Moreover, if your wife's in-laws have lost their only child, you should give birth to your husband's child.

The second old white-haired man sent the black-haired man, and he was in the abyss of pain that life was worse than death, if you were stronger and gave birth to the child, it would undoubtedly be a shot in the arm for the second elder.

Presumably, the in-laws are not old, and they can still carry the burden of family life, and they love their children and grandchildren, and there will be no problem with their children's life and growth. In addition, my wife is still young and has a long way to go in the future. For the sake of your own children, if your in-laws are willing, you can also choose to stay and take care of the children and the elderly.

You can also find another husband who loves you and is considerate of you to form a family. You can still have children, you can have your own children, and you can also co-raise the children left by your ex-husband.

In short, the wife can choose to give birth to this child and then find a life partner and build a new home again. In the years to come, you can always go to the sock book to look at the children and the two old people. It is conceivable that no matter what the choice should be, this child should be born.