Why didn t Japan s strongest gnawing old man get married, and what did he live on?

Due to the continuous increase in population and increasing social pressure, there are many groups of people in society - "gnawing old people". Especially in Japan, there are many "gnawing old people", and most of them are middle-aged. Recently, there has been a "strongest gnawing old family" Maeda Yoshihisa in Japan, this old man has only worked once in his life, and one time is only two years.

After the death of his parents, he quit his only job in his life, relying on the huge inheritance left by his parents to stay at home, spending 5-60,000 yen a month, never fell in love once in his life, and never got married.

The 71-year-old man lived a very frugal life, because the inheritance was limited, and he had not developed the ability to take care of himself, and he could not do anything without his parents, so in order to have enough living expenses to support before he died, he only ate natto three meals a day to provide energy for the body, and occasionally cooked some onions mixed with rice to change the taste. After eating, he put the bowl directly into the cupboard, and he never cleaned the house, resulting in a pile of garbage in the house, and his father used to clean up the house, so it is hard to imagine how "wasteful" he is. From the interview**, we can intuitively see the old man's sloppy and unregulated life, and we can also see his mentality of eating and waiting for death.

As for why he didn't get married, it may have something to do with the experience of the elderly. When he was a student, the old man was not admitted to the so-called "elite" school twice in a row, and he was ridiculed by his classmates for thinking that he had no value, and then the death of his relatives made his life even more lonely. According to him, he was just a man who had given up on his life and couldn't find a reason to start over.

The old man has a lot of books in his house, and he said, "In reading, he thinks that the world is inherently ridiculous and hopeless, because only a small number of people really control the world, and he has no ability to change, so he chooses to escape and be an old man in the shadow of society."

Not getting married is related to the experience of the old man, when he was a student, he was not admitted to the so-called "elite" school twice in a row, and he was ridiculed by his classmates and he thought that he had no value and lived on his inheritance.

I think it's because they have been bullied at school for a long time, and they have a fear of being stressed at work after work, which leads them to dare not face society and only believe their parents. I can only live at home with my parents, and after spending my parents' inheritance savings, some can only live by eating natto.

Nibbling on the elderly has now formed a cultural imprint in Japanese society, they rely on the high pensions and savings savings of their elderly parents to live, and some gnaw on ** and apply for relief.

He lives on the inheritance left by his parents. But he was reluctant to marry because he was afraid of people. Because he refuses to accept his failure.

He has no capital to get married at all, as long as others know his living status, no one will choose him, he can only die alone. He mainly relies on social handouts, or handouts from the people around him, and he will not earn money himself.

It may be that foreign people are more open-minded and think that marriage may be more troublesome, as for what kind of life to test, it should be the family's land rent or something, or the pension of the elderly, or the state subsidy, after all, foreign subsidies are relatively high.

The Japanese can't afford to get married, so of course they eat their parents in their own homes. If you live with your parents, you can live happily every day, just sleep at home.

Japan is a relatively small place, the city is more crowded, and there are many people in the school, so it is natural that bullying incidents are indispensable, and some people are often bullied when they go to school, which will make him have an inferiority complexFear of the outside world, not wanting to go out, which is one of the reasons, there is too much competition since JapanThere is a problem with the state of the economyMany companies and companies have to reduce recruitment or even have to lay off employees. And the requirements for recruitment have also increased a lot, without a certain degree and ability, you can't find a job, and it is not necessarily long-term to find it, although some people have found a job, but it is very far away from where they live.

The competition among young people is very fierce, Japan is so big, and there are a lot of people, so many people can't find a job, don't want to find a job, so they simply stay at home and be an old man. But in the face of suchSocial situation, parents have no choice but to let their children gnaw on the old.

Gnawing the old will only have nothing in the end, and when you finish gnawing your parents, what is left. With his parents gone, he was left alone and had no ability to support himself, so what was the difference between sitting and waiting for death. Gnawing on the old is not a good habit, but also a denial of one's own ability, a denial of oneself, if you have the ability, don't gnaw the old, don't stay at home and be idle, no circle of friends, no lovers, no children, and finally end up with nothing.

In fact, not only Japan, but also every country has this phenomenon. What I want to say is, no matter what kind of difficulties and dangers you face, don't give up easily, you move forward when others are resting, and you can get a piece of your own luck in the end. Young people have the ability and spirit, while they are young, work hard, fight for their own world, and live the life they want to live, wouldn't it be happy, and their parents will be more relaxed and gratified.

You are also a warm haven for your significant other.

I think it's probably because Japan's pension system is so good, so many people have been pampered since childhood, so many people will become gnawers who don't go to school.

Life in Japan is very stressful, so they don't have ideals anymore. If you have food and drink at home, stay at home, this kind of life is also relatively comfortable.

Because young people in Japanese society are becoming more and more Buddhist, they are looking down on some fame and fortune in this society, so they gnaw at the old at home.

This may be related to Japan's social environment, education and history and culture, and Japan's social welfare is also relatively good, and young people have some problems with their mentality and do not receive a good education.

Life in Japan is stressful, so big that they all need two-dimensional as a spiritual support. And it's the kind of care in Japan that no matter how hard you try, it's useless, because the upper class controls too many resources, and ordinary people can't get it at all. All of this is also the reason why they are getting more and more depraved, and I think we can't say that they are bad but that we should treat them well, because if you were them, what would you do?

Maybe you can't even live up to their optimism. Times have changed. The old one is unusable, otherwise it will only bring ruin!

In Japan, there is a group of people who have zero communication with the outside world, and they do not go out for half a year or decades, and they rely on their parents for food and daily life. According to a survey released by the Japanese cabinet, the total number of this group exceeds 1.15 million.

And the words and experiences of this old man also reflect why there are so many such gnawing old people in Japan. This is because they have encountered a certain blow in the face of entering the society or in the process of learning, and thus they have a negative psychology. They begin to think about escaping from society, choosing to be alone at home, thinking that they are in an "out-of-this-world" environment.

And through blind pleasure, they forget their own troubles, so that they can live in such a drowsy way. This is a manifestation of social pressure, and it is also a manifestation of the fragility of people's hearts at times. In life, some of us may look down on the old people, but if everyone can get what they want through hard work, who would want to live such a life?

His inheritance has been spent, and he has no ability to live, no basic skills to survive, and he will starve to death if he does not commit suicide.

Because he failed to enter the university many times and was also discriminated against in society, he gave up his life.

Because Japanese people feel that they will be ridiculed if they work hard and have not yet been admitted to university, they will give up life because they are too stressed over time.

Because they feel that although they can get money from their own labor, those jobs are too tiring to be as comfortable as gnawing on the old.

The times are changing rapidly, and the living conditions of human beings have been changing, we all know that since the last century, the industry has continued to develop rapidly, and all countries in the world are showing different degrees of development, just like Japan, Japan's development in the last century is undoubtedly rapid, and it has been the world's second largest economy for many years, although it was surpassed by China 10 years ago.

In the period of rapid development in Japan, the employment environment is good and booming, it can be said that as long as there is hard work, there will be gains, but after that period of time, the economy has declined, a large number of people are unemployed, and the competition in the land with more people and less land is more motivated.

How do the oldest group of gnawing old people in Japan survive? 70-year-old father: Waiter in a restaurant, the first batch of gnawing old people are over 50 years old, which can be retired at the age of 50 in other countries, every day is idle, and he is not willing to look for a job, so he lies at home as an elderly fat house.

And the money for daily expenses**? That's what seventy-year-old parents earned, and Japan has pushed the retirement age from 65 to 70 years old because of the serious aging and high average life expectancy, so if you travel in Japan, you can often see some service industries are sixty or seventy years old old men and women.

And when people are old, those emerging industries will naturally not want, they can only work as restaurant waiters, drive taxis, etc., and the money earned is generally just spent by themselves and children who are nearly 50 years old.

The term gnawing old people only appeared in the past few years, but it also reflects a real social phenomenon, and the Japanese wait until that late to retire, in fact, many people are willing to work to that age, after all, after retiring and relaxing, there will be a problem,

The world is so big that when we travel abroad, we can often come into contact with some foreign special cultures and learn about the life of the locals. However, there is one culture that is difficult for tourists to come into contact with in Japan, and that is the Japanese culture of gnawing at the old. Because the Japanese gnawing people basically live in seclusion, they hardly have contact with the outside world, let alone tourists.

The culture of gnawing at the old is actually closely related to the history of Japan's economic development, and during the first period of Japan, the rapid development of the economy once made the Japanese say that they wanted to "buy the United States". During that time, as long as you work hard, you can get a job and get ahead. Therefore, there is relatively little phenomenon of gnawing the old in society.

But since then, Japan's economy has been on a downward spiral. Young people born in this context tend to have parents with higher incomes and better family conditions. However, the competition they face, including job opportunities and opportunities for advancement, is not comparable to that of their parents' generation, and the workplace environment is more brutal.

So many people simply choose not to enter the society and become a full-time gnawing old man.

The first group of gnawing old people in Japan were born in the 70s of the last century, and their age is nearly 50. Although Japan is a relatively aging society, it generally has a long life expectancy. However, birth, old age, sickness and death are natural laws, and the elderly who are nearly seventy or eighty years old have also reached the age of death.

And after their parents left, now the gnawing old people who don't even have their parents' pensions have nothing to gnaw on, how should they live?

A Japanese 70-year-old gnawing old man may become the future of many people. This old man only worked for two years in his life, and after his parents grew old, he inherited his parents' legacy. The monthly cost is about 3,600 yuan (60,000 yen), and the days are gone by eating natto mixed with rice.

When the reporter interviewed the old man at his residence, he also found that the old man usually lived alone, had no ability to take care of himself, and garbage was piled up all over the house.