Where does this kind of love go? Is it providential?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-12
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This is very ordinary, since you are all separated, why bother to worry about it, to think about just giving yourself an invisible knife to cut. There is nothing wrong between you, what is wrong is that each other does not insist on this love, if you identify this love, I believe you will continue, others just give you an opinion, it is impossible to give you a decision. If you think it's worth it, don't let it go, a woman must find a man who loves her very much to be happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Well, you guys used to be really good. It's very enviable, with some feelings. It can be redeemed. Some can only give up.

    Once the shelf life of love has passed, the freshness has passed, and there is nothing left.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The beauty of the past, in fact, many couples at the end of the aisle have such a beauty, but time makes us no longer as in love as we did at the beginning, there is no why, just because we are no longer the people we used to be, just because we don't love anymore, so we can recuperate with peace of mind, no matter how beautiful it is, it was the past, even if it is still together, those good things will not come back, so you are just nostalgic for the past, in fact, you have understood that it is not the same as before, but in the future maybe you will meet another person who makes your heart move!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think there's a bit of a problem with your speaking logic, you said that your heart is like a poisonous snake biting you, but you didn't say what happened later, and you don't have to say Fushun, Wulihe or something, we don't know if it's **, and you said that your boyfriend wrote a typo, but I think you and him are similar, and there are many typos in this text, so don't say anything about it yourself. In short, I think it's a waste of my time after reading it!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's not that you're blind, it's fate. It's okay, let's get rid of the child, and find someone who knows how to hurt you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

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  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hurry to the hospital for a check-up, and if you are pregnant, go for an abortion. This person is not worthy of your affection, go to someone who truly loves you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Decisively left him and pursued a new life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After beating the child, find someone who really loves you, don't be nostalgic for him anymore, otherwise, it will definitely be you who will hurt in the future, what happened in 5 years, others have deteriorated, and they no longer love you exclusively, it's all about letting go.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Now that we've come to this point, it's already a ruthless and simple matter, don't make it so complicated, okay! 1. Kill the child 2. Start all over again It's normal to be uncomfortable, but it's your best and only choice.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The child knocked him out, kicked him decisively, and then looked for a new life, a new goal.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Why don't you say it if you love someone and hold it in your heart for silent blessings??

    And what about your happiness?

    Cowardice will not make you happy, but hurt and regret.

    Be brave and speak your love.

    No matter what the outcome is, you will have no regrets.

    Only then can you really start a new relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No. Find someone you love and love yourself.

    You will feel truly happy!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First: 25 is not old, and I don't know if the landlord is a little introverted.

    Second: If you have someone you like, you have to be brave enough to say it.

    Why didn't you tell him?

    It's God's fault that you don't have fate, and it's your fault that you miss it!

    Third: Ask yourself, what is love? Do you love him? Do you really love him? Love him for what?

    Don't miss a forest because of a tree!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It is absolutely not advisable to marry a random one, and it is not advisable to be responsible for oneself, and it will harm the other party. If you don't love, you can't marry.

    Maybe the one in your heart is just the imaginary ideal prince in your heart, the kind in a fairy tale.

    Try to accept other men, and slowly you can forget, not to say forget, or let go.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, the opinions of others can only be used as a reference, mainly in whether you want to find an idea to live together, don't get married for the sake of getting married, look for it slowly, to 26,7 is actually not too late, now there are many people in society who are older than a little bit have not yet started a family I believe there will be people you like, or people who understand that you love you and pity you

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Feelings are the same, if you can't settle down in one place, you can only let it float with fate, take root in another space, and germinate. Best wishes!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Briefly talk about my point of view, feelings are the most precious memory, but memory is only memory, memory is used to reminisce, people should not carry too many thoughts, you must learn to let go, I am also hopeful, hopeful, until despair, believe me, family is the most important, even if you don't love the person anymore, once you organize a family with him, everything will change. To grow old with the people you love is the most endless luxury.

    PS: I hope you get better soon. :)

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There is a big difference between now and before

    You don't know how to know if he's what you think he is, and if it's very different from what you want to hope for, will you be disappointed, don't be stupid, look ahead, happiness is very close to you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It doesn't have to be ordinary.

    Why does that man give you extraordinary feelings.

    Not for other men.

    It's just your obsession.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Although I am two years younger than you, I have had a similar experience, do you still love him? In fact, there are many ways to love, there is no need to swear with the other party, if you are true love, he should find his happiness for him to be happy, and should sincerely bless him. This kind of first love that is not the first love is the most unforgettable, but it is also easy to lose yourself, do you have to have him in your life to go on?

    Everyone is a passer-by in your life, relatives and friends are, he is too, you should go your own way, ordinary! Yes, you are one of the many people, but you are also extraordinary, because you have your own thoughts, which others cannot imitate, and you have lived with this idea for 25 years, and you have to continue to live, whether it is "life" or "survival" and not just to continue life, but to make your life full of meaning. Without love, people can't live, the love that really belongs to you is not in his body, but it must exist around you, just fascinated by "stubbornness", never found it, polish your eyes to find love that belongs to you after the age of 25.

    Nothing is ordinary! ·

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    People can't always live in memory When you are 30 years old and you are opening your diary, you will feel how naïve and naïve you were at the beginning In fact, you should have tried to get in touch with some different love Try to accommodate that relationship There is no comparison in the heart At that time, he must be incomparable in your eyes In fact, he is not as perfect as you think, really Don't lie to yourself Take this pure relationship as a good memory.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In fact, I think that feelings like yours are really pure, but I think you should change your face, you can try to forget him slowly, I know it's not easy, but I believe that time can prove everything, liking someone is not hoping that he will have a good life. Have you had a good time? Since that's the case now, let's go ahead and leave it at that.

    Doesn't it mean that the purest and most beautiful is lost? Of course, you don't call it loss, but it's about the same, and I think it's good as long as you think of him once in a while in the years to come. Really, nothing, a lot of things aren't going to be perfect -- the prince, Cinderella, it's just a hope

    Starting my life again, I believe it will be beautiful

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Sister, your age is not too old, try to like men, the world is big, people who like you and people you like, there are many people in the world, including me, but it's too late, I don't blame me, I hope you have a good life, don't accept love casually, be cautious, it must be a lifelong event, I know your heart, I'm sad, in fact, I like you very much, I wish you happiness.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Fantasy. Doesn't represent reality.

    Very slim. Find someone who loves yourself or someone you love.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In fact, he may not be the one in your heart, but only the "prince" you have sketched out yourself over the years. You should open your heart to your life.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Probably because I didn't get it, I have been haunting it, don't we all say that, in a person's heart, what you don't get is always the best, open your heart, feelings depend on fate, and there has been no intersection for so long, which means that there is no fate, no need to wait, try to contact other people, maybe there will be unexpected gains.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Like you, I knew a boy in elementary school who had a very heterosexual relationship in our class, but I didn't like him when I was very young. I'm crazy in my class, so I've always had bad popularity. In junior high school, we were in the same school, but the school buildings were not in the same place.

    During the holidays, our school was going to be renovated, so we moved to their school building temporarily. After that, I found that he had become very tall and handsome, and he was super good at studying, so I had a crush on him. When the high school entrance examination was about to be taken, the school proposed another excellent class, so I went to their school again, and I was in the same class with him, because I was going to take the high school entrance examination, so I didn't show my mentality.

    I still like him to this day.

    So what I'm going to tell you is, don't give up easily, maybe he still likes you, you must meet with him once, show your mentality, see what he thinks. If he wants to, of course fine. If you don't want to, you don't need to force it, at least we won't regret it, maybe he is not your guardian angel, then we don't think about him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Keep this innocence in your brain and heart as a beautiful memory. Find someone who loves you again and enjoy ... That's life.

    It is impossible for people to be happy in everything. If you can, go for it. But maybe that innocent feeling will change the taste in your heart ...

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think you should boldly confess to him, so that you will not regret it in the future, at least you have worked hard, if he does not accept it, you will completely forget about him, to find a beautiful relationship of your own, maybe you can meet someone who is more perfect than him, bless you!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Don't get married for the sake of getting married, feelings need fate! Marriage is a lifelong thing, and you can't just be sloppy!

    Believe you've met the right person!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If someone else has a family, don't destroy it, if you really love him, don't disturb his life, and making the other person happy is also a kind of love!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You can think more about what the married man said to you before you broke up with your boyfriend; Obviously eating your boyfriend's vinegar? He completely wants to possess you alone. When you broke up with your boyfriend, what was his attitude towards you when he said to you?

    There can be a comparison from one after the other, whether this man is worthy of love, is he a marriage partner? From what you described, it can be seen that it is more difficult for him to divorce, because once he files for divorce, he will lose a lot of things, not only materially but also spiritually, as well as the attitude of his children and his relatives and friends towards him, etc. You may have loved each other at the time because you both lacked care and care for each other at that time. Based on what you said, I feel that this man's divorce is just coaxing you, you better make another decision, find someone you really like to marry.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I didn't bother to read your tirade, I just saw your title and came over to tell you the answer.

    You should go back to your mama's b.

    There are so many disgusting women.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I want to die when I see it. Why bother...

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Listening to your story, I feel that your parents are not reasonable enough and are too harsh on their children.

    I don't think you're wrong, there are many people who fail in the public examination, the public examination not only depends on a person's strength, but also luck and other aspects, you pass by the public examination this time, it can only show that you are unlucky, not that you are inferior to whoever you are, your parents' accusations against you are really chilling, they take the results of one of their children's exams to compare with others, but do not consider whether their children have made efforts, whether they are serious, they accuse and mock, such parents are really heart-wrenching.

    I think you take the public examination seriously, work hard, and get close to success, which is already amazing, don't feel inferior and discouraged.

    In the future, continue to prepare for the public examination, don't give up, look for a job first, take the exam while working, you have passed two public examinations, and you are already very familiar with the public examination, so you don't have to ignore the things outside the window, focus on only the public examination books, and walk on the road of the public examination with a peaceful mind.

    It is recommended that you can take the exam for a public institution or something, only if you are financially independent, can you get rid of the shackles of your parents, maybe the salary is not high, but you don't have to rely on them anymore, you have the confidence to stand and speak.

    Resist the pressure and ridicule of others and even relatives, and refute them with practical actions.

    Such a trough is also an opportunity to exercise your endurance and strong perseverance, once out of this predicament, you are a kind of self-transcendence, is a personal transformation, sublimation.

    When I just graduated, I was also very sad, I couldn't find a satisfactory job in employment, and I failed some exams, but I didn't give up, I thought I had to support myself with my own hands, so I had the opportunity to try and be admitted to a public institution, now I am very confident and calm, because I have a job, and I am still on the road to the public examination, although I can't guarantee that I can be admitted, but I think the public examination itself also brings a lot of beneficial things to myself, so I continue to pursue!

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