What should I do if I have a cold war with my friends because of a big fart?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-12
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you want to reconcile, why do you have to bow his head first?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Fish!! First of all, whether you are friends in real or virtual life.

    The words of a real friend are simple.

    If you cherish this friendship, you give in, and it is not worth it to lose a friend for a little self-esteem.

    You can ask a few friends around to chat with him first, and then you can join the chat as if nothing happened, so that at least you can break the embarrassment [I just quarreled with my friends, and I joined as if nothing happened to watch a group of buddies chat, and then we reconciled, I don't know when I reconciled].

    You can apologize to him and tell him why you quarreled with your parents. If he wanted to regret it, he would give in.

    Virtual it's simpler and apologize directly.

    In fact, it is common for a friend to have a little thing, as long as he is willing to put down his face and apologize first, everything is simple, will he ignore your apology? It's not that he killed his family.

    Don't hide your apology, face to face, and say:That incident was that I was too impulsive, I apologize to you, can we still be friends".

    It's very simple, I always give in first when I quarrel with my friends [most of them are reconciled unconsciously], so the interpersonal relationship is good!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'll ask you a few questions:

    1.Do you still think he's your friend?

    2.Do you think this friend is important?

    3.Do you want you to get back together?

    4.Do you think face is more important or is it important for him?

    After you have answered these four questions, I believe you have also got the answer to what you are asking now.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There are many kinds of distinctions between friends.

    Subjectively. 1.Worth. Reflect on your actions. It's not your fault. It's not customary to have another friend.

    It's not your fault. It's not good to admit it. Have a good talk.

    2.It's not worth it. Available online only. As you say. It is also an understanding. Unusual behavior in the game. Reflect a person's emotions. If only he could understand it. It's also acceptable for the game to be killed. You're right.

    It's just that the companion of the game is not very interesting.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Personal opinion: Since you have such a stubborn temper, you don't need to apologize to him, you can take the initiative to talk to him, and first lift your Cold War status quo, such as a playful beginning: Hi, how good does it feel to be without birds for a few days? Do you miss me?

    Wait a minute. Open the conversation gate, and if he still cherishes you as a friend, he will continue to talk to you.

    As long as you have something to say, your relationship will go back to the way it used to be, because you don't hurt your feelings.

    He won't hold a grudge against you because of this, and he will forget things in the past.

    Do not worry. Hope this helps! -

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you are wrong, you have to apologize, and friends occasionally have conflicts and are unhappy. Just apologize, and understanding each other is important between friends.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Alas, it's boring, isn't it? "Then it's up to him what he says.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's very simple, it's hard to buy a friend for a thousand dollars, just reconcile.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's all his fault no matter how I look at it, he's angry

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Your personality is too impulsive, isn't it?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Kiss! Apologizing will not hurt self-esteem, what will hurt self-esteem is the loss of a good friend, if you really care about her, so long to take the initiative, two people quarrel, ignore each other, then there must always be someone to sacrifice a little, this is the so-called friend. If she is good with others, maybe she is angry with you and makes you jealous, which means that she regards you as a good friend.

    If she ignores you, then bear with it, he's still angry. The main thing is to find out the root of the problem between you, maybe there is some reason for her ignoring you, or there is a misunderstanding.

    However, on the other hand, maybe your fate has really come to an end, that's how I see it, if she really doesn't want to pay attention to me and wants to find new friends, then good, I'll fulfill you, but don't come back to me after you get hurt, it's not so easy to let go and want to hold again. As the saying goes, only when you lose do you know how to cherish. Let him experience it, and maybe you will cross this chasm and become more intimate later.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Take a step back and open the sky, when you say what to do, it already shows that you want to reconcile, since this is the case, take the initiative, take the initiative to show goodwill, since you are friends, it is not a big deal.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Take the initiative to ask her, what do you want, do you want to be friends, if you want to be friends, explain it, what do you want, what do you want, if you don't want to be friends, solve it completely, what can't be solved between friends, why do you want to do this.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You're still on good terms, friendship is precious. I don't know how many years of merit a friendship has been obtained. You still offer to reconcile with your friend, if it's your fault you sincerely say "I'm sorry", if it's her fault you pat her shoulder and say generously

    Okay, okay, let's stop the cold war, we've known each other for several years, and we can't easily destroy it, let's go, go to the barbecue. "Then there's a good chance you'll be reconciled because of a barbecue. I've had this experience once, but we reconciled after a day.

    Don't give up this friendship easily, this friendship is very precious, after reconciliation, don't treat her indifferently in the future, have nothing to chat, go shopping or something, enhance friendship, don't have any more contradictions.

    Finally, I wish you and your friends success and reconciliation.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Men are cold to you, learn this trick to crack quickly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Fool, it means that you really don't have enough weight in his heart.

    Isn't it that you usually limit him too much and make him feel tired?

    Personally, I don't think he wants to be responsible for you, otherwise you yourself will say that you won't break up sooner, don't break up later, and break up if you're pregnant

    Really like a talent not to account for these

    Will take the initiative to reconcile with each other

    What do you think? Talk to him if he really doesn't love you anymore.

    Just give up, it's really not worth it

    There will be better ones waiting for you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Determine if he is with the Cold War or break up? If it's a breakup, I didn't say it, and I took all the money for the operation and the nutrition expenses after that, and then I said it, if it's a cold war, if I really like it, take it soft and admit my mistake. As for the child......Think about it!

    A man who is so easy to say to break up, it is worth considering!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Why are you as stupid as me, I have all the children, what else can I do, I'm also very worried.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you feel that you are the other person who can continue to be in a relationship, I think take a step back and open the sky.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If it's the first time, I'll accommodate him. More than 3 times, I started reminding him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you want to dominate your friends, you can now kill with just one move!

    That is: take the lead, break the silence, take the initiative to talk to the other party, if you feel that you can't get over face, then you want to be friends or face. If you want a friend, you have to get back face, come on!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If the relationship is good, then you might as well break the awkwardness

    But if the relationship is very ordinary, just ignore him, otherwise you may be ridiculed.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Time will solve all the problems... Keep your distance first... In this way, everyone will calm down and think about right and wrong... The boat to the bridgehead is naturally straight...

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Don't think about it too much, breaking the embarrassment is the best way to do it, take a step back and open the sky, there are not many people who can be friends in life, why bother with that, good luck.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Just because you take a step back and break the silence first doesn't mean you're wrong, on the contrary, it proves that you have more courage than him, you measure more than him, you are more mature than him, and there are many more beautiful words...

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I'm having this issue as well.

    In the same office, unless it is particularly necessary (ordered by the leader), I didn't say half a sentence, and I didn't say more than 5 words in more than half a year.

    It's all Libra, and they're all very stubborn haha, and the other party won't open their mouths if they don't speak first.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hehe, it's nothing, it's okay to ask him out to eat, everyone understands.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Since they are good friends, there is no real Cold War. You now feel that you are in a cold war with each other, but you are still in the space to think about each other, and when you think clearly, this relationship is naturally resolved by you. If you don't get along, you're in a bad mood with each other, right?

    I have personal experience, I had a big fight with my friend, and the next day we gave each other a smile and it was settled! True friends won't care about that, and I wish you a long friendship!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The main problem is that no one wants to take the initiative to reconcile and save face.

    The solution is as follows: 1 If it is really a good face, then you can only give a hint to the other party and let him go down the steps.

    2 Take the initiative to help him, even secretly, and make an appearance to make him feel good about you.

    3 Be bold: Take the initiative. In public, the success rate is high, and he is embarrassed to refuse.

    4 How to write: Write it on paper.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Let go of what so-called face ...

    A little more communication, it's really not good, find a quiet place and you have a big fight, say everything you want to say, and laugh.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Wait a minute....Let everyone calm down for a while......Then slowly approach....That's pretty much it....A truly good friend is a ...... who won't be in a cold war with you all the time

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Take the initiative to tell him I'm sorry, or he tells you, of course, saying that it is better than what he said.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's very simple, you can pretend to be drunk and call him or her **, say something hidden in your heart, cry a few times, it works.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If it is a friend, then take the initiative to speak, taking the initiative is not a loss of face, it is a kind of generous tolerance.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    State diplomacy is like people to people. Little Japan was dropped by the United States on the atomic bomb, and now it is not the same as making friends. Let's put it down! Being destined to be friends is a blessing that comes from cultivation.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    In the Cold War, a person must bow his head first, and if he has something to say, he still has to talk about it.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you like you, you won't be disgusted, if you have a problem with your relationship, think about it carefully.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    At this time, most of the boys are asked to bow their heads first, and the husband can bend and stretch. Most of the girls are a little cautious. Judging from the fact that she "flashed a **" to you, it shows that she also realized that she was too much, but for the sake of face, she didn't want to say it.

    At this time, I suggest that you send her a text message, admit that you were wrong, ask her for forgiveness, and express your desire to reconcile, and say something nice to coax her, so that you are all right. But don't make such excessive jokes in the future.

    The above are thoughts as a girl, I hope it will be helpful to the landlord, and I wish the landlord and his girlfriend can get along well and have a good time.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It is estimated that she also regrets it, at this time, someone must bow her head first, if you are cheeky and hard at her, she will definitely reconcile with you.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Your fault, apologize, and apologize to your own woman is not ashamed. You insulted her personality and thought it was a big thing, no matter how you can't say that, besides, people flashed you, you still don't give up, I don't know what you think.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Dealing with the Cold War requires some skill and wisdom, in fact, it is not difficult, most of the continuation of the Cold War should be that there are no steps, you just give her a step, if you don't pick up **, you will come to the door, a bouquet of flowers, a meal.

    You're a man, be generous.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I didn't understand what he was talking about.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    You insulted her personality and thought it was a big fart, no matter how you can't say that, as a man, you have a bit of a belly, admit your mistake, and you won't lose a piece of meat on your body.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    If you want to have a cold war with a friend, you have to be prepared to lose that friend, because once the cold war is in place, it will be difficult for your relationship to go back to the past. Now you see if there is an opportunity for him to ask you for a favor or something, take this opportunity to ease the relationship, or you can simply find a reason to invite him to dinner and invite him to your house to play there.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    I think it's better to have one more friend than one more enemy, so I put down my face and talk to him to make him feel that he is wrong.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Don't pay attention to you, live your life as before, as if you have nothing to do, don't let him think how important he is in your heart, like before, say it when you should talk to him, so that he wants you to know that he has a cold war with you, but I don't know, I still live happily every day.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    You need to have a good talk, you should find out the reasons for the Cold War, maybe you have any misunderstandings before, talk about it, there is no knot that cannot be untied.

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