I don t want to be alone, but I m afraid of being abandoned, what should I do?

If you don't want to be alone, but you're afraid of being abandoned, you can do this.

1. Improve yourself. We all know the survival of the fittest, everyone likes excellent people, and I believe you are no exception, so if you want to maintain your charm value, in addition to dressing yourself well, you must also work hard and struggle for your studies or career. Only when you improve yourself will you have more confidence in yourself and will not suffer from gains and losses every day.

Take 10,000 steps back, if you are very good, even if two people break up later, you will not say that you have no landing, and you will not say that you can't stand up. That's why I don't recommend women to be housewives, because women should be a big tree, not a vine that clings to others. <>

Second, treat it sincerely. In fact, two people will break up, which is nothing more than a change of heart, or calculating each other, not loving enough, and some external factors. But the root cause of all these factors is not enough love.

Therefore, if you want to manage a relationship well, you must know how to treat others sincerely, only if you give sincerity and love, your other half can feel it, and it will be inseparable from you. Although we all say that we want to choose the person we love, but in fact, love is very mysterious, how do you know that the person you love is not the person who loves you, in fact, many times, two loves, mutual love is the main stream of this world.

3. Don't be cranky. In fact, your current mentality is typically the mentality of thinking too much. Something that hasn't started yet, I'm afraid of this and that, and if you start, you can't be suspicious.

This is the summator of many romances! So you have to adjust your mentality well, don't think about something that you don't have.

Finally, I wish you happiness.

You said that you don't want to be alone, maybe you want to fall in love with someone else! But there will always be so much uncertainty when it comes to falling in love, not knowing if he will go on with you forever, and not knowing if he can give you the security you want. But I don't think you have to think so much about it now, let's be bold and fall in love!

I remember that when I broke up with my first love, I was also super insecure, and I seemed to be immersed in the previous memories every day, but after all, I broke up and kept it, but people were still very determined to leave. Although some boys jokingly asked me if I wanted to fall in love, I was always afraid that this one would take the path of first love, so I refused. But my current boyfriend touched me with his silent companionship, and in the end they were together naturally.

I advise you to fall in love, because if you close yourself to death, you will definitely never fall in love, and you will eventually embark on the road of blind date. When the time comes, facing a person who has no emotional foundation, do you believe that the marriage will last longer? Obviously not, so don't leave your fate directly to others, but take control of it yourself.

It is really a very good thing to teach yourself how to deal with feelings and how to interact with others in the future through these relationships.

Although there are certain risks in falling in love, what can be done without risks? Will you willingly obey your parents' arrangements and not fight for your own happiness at all? I think you will definitely hesitate, so don't be afraid, maybe in the next relationship, you will meet the person you like!

How to forget him.

After giving up, we total.

Love to ask. How can I forget him? I would love to forget about him, but I am.

I can't forget him.

If you can't forget him, don't forget him.

Why go so painfully.

Forget about a person.

Time will naturally make you forget him.

Now, I ask you not to think about a pink one.

Elephant. Excuse me, what do you have in mind?

You immediately think of a big pink stupid elephant.

The harder you try to forget, the more you can't forget.

It is a matter of course to still love him and not forget him, and there is no need to feel ashamed.

Some people can't forget, but they deceive themselves and say:

I've forgotten about him. ”

However, as long as others mention him, she can't control herself.

One day, you'll forget about him.

True forgetting doesn't take effort.

One day, you took a shower out of the bath travel room, twisted the record player to listen to your favorite **, and you suddenly remembered that you had loved.

A person, ah, it turns out that you have loved this person, it seems to be a very distant thing, and you have not felt it at all.

Without. That's forgetting.

One day, when someone mentions so-and-so, you suddenly remember that you once loved this person, but now you don't remember.

That's forgetting.

If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't remember, what's the point of us losing the years of sleep?

If you love each other, why give up!

If you feel tired, you have to work hard to build on the relationship between you!

Learn more about the counterpart. Let the other person understand your inner feelings at the same time!

Don't hide your feelings. It's not easy for the other party to know how you feel in your heart!

If you really can't continue, you have to explain it to the other person.

Then I went to find someone who was happy for me.