Why can t I say what I say in my heart and my friends and my family?

Because the status of friends is different from that of family, if you tell your family what is in your heart, your family will continue to accuse you or criticize you, but your friends will listen to you silently.

Because you feel that your family is too familiar with you, your family will know what the problem is as soon as you hear it, and the main purpose of your heart is just to relieve your troubled emotions, not to let people know the secret.

Because sometimes there is no timely communication with family and parents, they will not understand themselves, so there will be a very embarrassing situation, but the words of friends are different, it is a very good relationship, and sometimes some words can be confided.

Because my family is the most important thing in my heart, he will be worried if I say something to them, so I tell my friends, friends can understand, and it is also an outlet for catharsis, so as not to be depressed alone, but in the end, I am alone.

You can talk to your friends, but you can't talk to your family because you don't want to add a psychological burden to your family.

A lot of heartfelt words can be said to friends, but there is no way to express with family, and many people like it, and the family is good news without free shipping, I hope the family knows the good side. I don't want my family to be worried and worried when I know about my sadness, pain or failure, so many friends can share it, but family members cannot.

I think your idea is wrong, you can say what you want to say to your family, but you can't tell your friends, because your friends will betray you, and your family will never betray you.

You can talk to your friends, but you can't talk to your family. Because if you talk to your family, it will cause psychological pressure on your family. And if your friends listen to it, you won't be stressed.

Psychological words and friends can be said, but not with family, because sometimes family members can't understand us, because family members can think more about our future and future, and can't care more about a feeling in our hearts, so we can't.

Because of the estrangement between myself and my family, I can talk to my peers and understand each other's thoughts.

Because you and your friends are people of the same age, your way of thinking or handling things is similar, so if you say it to your family and family at this time, they will definitely be worried, so some things can be said to friends, but not to family.

Why is it that what you can say in your heart and what your friends can say is different from your family, because of your family. Their angles and positions will be different, so there will be some differences.

Because some words are too private, it may be that there is still a layer of estrangement between friends after all, so it doesn't matter if you say it, it's like spilling water, but it's different with your family, and your family will always take it to heart.

Chatting between friends is more casual. But you can't be so casual with your family. That's why you have this kind of thought or opinion.

Because many heartfelt words are generated by conflicts or problems with family members, and this kind of words can only be communicated with friends, and what family members are talking about is easy to deepen the conflict.

Because the relationship between the two parties is different, and friends are treated as equals, and they can tell the truth, but in the face of elders at home, some things cannot be said directly, and it is impossible to be understood for a while.

It's not okay to talk to your friends and your family, because friends are the kind of good friends who are the two of you all day together and don't talk about anything. So you can talk about it with your friends.

Alas, it may be that the family members are elders after all, and they are a little depressed. I feel depressed, so I can tell my friends that it should be like this. Family members may not think from your point of view.

Thinking about things and looking at things, perhaps, will see your meaning as wrong in this view, and friends will not. Well, maybe he'll agree to the off.

Why can't I say what I say to my heart and my friends and my family? Because your family disagrees with your ideas, talk to your friends, and friends can help you come up with ideas to help you solve problems, so you are willing to chat with friends.

Psychologically, you can talk about it with friends, but not with your family, because you are too familiar with your family, and there are some things that you can't tell your family, but friends can share them.

You can talk to your friends, but you can't talk to your family, and that's not necessarily, some things in your heart can only be said to strangers.

It's okay to say what you want to say to your friends, but it's not appropriate to say it to your family, which means that everyone still doesn't approve of it.

There are some things that you can't say to your family, you feel that it is inconvenient to say them, and you may also feel that sometimes saying them makes your family members not understand you. That's why I choose to talk to my friends.

Why can't I say what I say in my heart and my friends and my family? Because there are some things to say to the family, and the family will be very worried. It can affect their mood. If you tell a friend, a friend will make one. Microphone, listen to you slowly.

I said to my friends in my heart, because it was not about my own business, so my friends generally didn't come in an educational tone. And as a family member, it is easy to get anxious after listening.

In fact, a lot of things in your heart can be understood by telling your friends, but if you talk to your family, your family will not understand you very well, and it will make you feel more uncomfortable, so you are willing to tell your friends rather than your family.

may be because of the words in my heart, for my family, the words I say have no real effect, so I won't say it to my family.

Tell your family that your family will feel disdainful of your mentality, because he will think that we get along day and night, and I don't know you yet? What you say to your friends, your friends will understand you, because sometimes people can't communicate with close people.

I think after all, it's the relationship of the times, if you feel very uncomfortable, if it's a girl, a friend can cry with you, and it will comfort you, but your parents may not be able to do it, if it's a boy, your friend can drink with you and say all the unpleasant things in your heart, but your parents may not be able to do it, it should be because of this.

Because some words are only suitable for talking to friends, not for family members, if you talk to family members, it will increase the burden on family members.

Everyone will have happy and unhappy times, so they will accumulate a lot of inner words, and these words, it is urgent to find someone to talk to, to release emotions, but often to find and find, you can't find the person you think understands you. Friends and relatives are too familiar with your past, cling to your past opinions, and often make wrong judgments or even misinterpretations of your present moment.

Moreover, relatives and friends who have intersected with your circle of friends, relatives circle, intentionally or unintentionally, are easy to pass on your privacy as a template, and the words will become another sentence when they are passed on, which will change their flavor and be out of shape. Rather than that, it's better not to say it.

Strangers know you from scratch and have no prejudices against you, they will talk about things and understand your mood more objectively and fairly.

Of course, it's not absolute, strangers don't understand your upbringing and look at you differently! A confidant who understands your situation, your joys and sorrows, empathizes with you, and is more likely to give you reasonable advice.

Therefore, there is no absoluteness in everything, and what is said in the heart may not be heard by strangers, but familiar people do not understand. The key is, look at what to say, what to do.

Never tell anyone what is in your heart, the more you confide, the more dangerous it becomes; The more sincere, the more you suffer. The essence of interpersonal communication is a game process, and the technique of each time you reply determines your weight in the minds of others.

The more hole cards you reveal, the more others will bully you. Even friends, classmates, relatives, and even their own parents will not let you go.

It is difficult for a straightforward person to hide his emotions and feelings. No way, in the world of the jungle, if you are a lamb, you are destined to be eaten by wolves.

If you don't have the ability to act, you choose to eat and wait for death, lie flat at home, and be a happy salted fish. If you want to steal food from the tiger's mouth, you must learn to act.

Everyone in a relationship is essentially an actor. Are you tired? Of course, tired, helpless, very helpless, the weakness of human nature is that they don't like to hear the truth.

The stupid people in the world are the ones who speak the truth openly, and if you are smart, others don't know. Don't quibble, this kind of person is either sincere or shadiao, only he thinks that "everyone is drunk and I am sober".

Language is a key factor in interpersonal relationships, and people who can't speak, talk nonsense, and tell the truth are essentially giant babies. A person who tells the truth is actually a tendon, his brain is not flexible, he only wants to be happy for himself, and he does not consider the feelings of others or his own interests at all.

A person who goes straight is a terrible emotional animal, as long as he is not happy, he can't wait to tear up 1 million xianjin. As long as he's not feeling well, he can do anything.

Never be a person who spits bitterness everywhere, the more you talk, the cheaper it is; The more sincere, the more unlucky; No one is going to just look for a strange trouble. But when others know that you are weak and incompetent, they will come to bully you in droves. It has nothing to do with the good or bad of people, it is the necessity of human nature.

The world will not sympathize with the weak, no matter how hard and tired you are, don't confide in others, not only will they not comfort you, but they will gloat in their hearts, and from then on there is another after-dinner conversation at the dinner table, which is more real than movies and TV series.

Anyone will only worship the strong, and no one has much time to comfort the glass hearts of the weak. Becoming strong is the way out for Weiyi, not wanting to gain the sympathy of others who are worthless.

Because the truth is often hurtful. In addition to thinking, people still have emotions, so why remove the factor of emotional harm. When you say what you think is the "truth", others may just think about "why you can tell it without worrying about my emotions", and what he cares about is not the right or wrong of what you say, but why you don't take into account his emotions.

And a lot of what you think is the "truth", the other party may not actually understand it, or it can be said to be dismissive, but when you actually bring it to the table and tell it, there will be an invisible embarrassment, and most people will choose to change the topic or not to the formal question itself.

Most of us in our lives are hermit crabs who live a difficult life by self-irony, shrinking themselves into the shells of others. Only by constantly complaining about yourself every day to find some self-confidence, and at this time you have to pry open this shell, and then tell others that this is the real you, others are unwilling or even disgusted with your so-called "truth" You are asking, why they are not willing to listen to your truth.

It's a bad decision, and if you can't tell the truth to your friends and family, you won't be able to live in the real world, and you'll always be pessimistic.

Don't talk about some personal privacy things, and don't say some things that have not been completed, so as not to be laughed at, and some bad things are said, and the family will be worried.

If you don't say to a person, your risk increases once.

It's just your personal preface.

Everyone will encounter a lot of problems in life, sometimes there are many difficulties, there are also a lot of unsatisfactory, we have to learn to adapt to the environment, it is impossible to let the environment adapt to us, learn to accept!

When encountering things, we don't complain about anything, first find the reason for the incident, and then calmly analyze things, if you are not a person who can calm down, then I suggest a person to a quiet park or grove to stay for a while, which may make us think more, think more chaotic, but this is not important, the important thing is that when we are in that place, we can completely calm down and think about all the problems we encounter, which is called calmness. In most respects, it's no different from a monk knocking on a wooden fish, in essence, we don't have a wooden fish, but the main purpose we want to achieve is to meditate.

Slowly try to think about the problem by yourself, solve the problem by yourself, the problems we encounter, no matter how others comfort you, how to persuade you, in the end, or the number is to face it yourself, solve it yourself, so many roads, and then it depends on yourself! Learn to think quietly and take your time! Ordinary heart! ~~

w I think it's better to find a friend I don't know on the Internet to tell him the story of the sleepy Sun Jiao, although he may not be really Wang wanton to comfort you, but you don't know Ah Kai quiet,

Then go straight to a psychiatrist.

You've said it here, everybody listen.