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Interesting, I'm a northerner, the first 20 years have been mixed in the vicinity of Beijing and Shandong, none of my classmates and friends are gay or lala, they are all normal people, and later I went abroad to study only to find that so many homosexuals and "second sisters-in-law" suddenly appeared, and it seems that this situation is common in the south, especially men in Sichuan, Yunnan and Guangdong. There's a tendency that you can't get along if you're not gay. Eighty percent of them are men in the north, so they want to go up and smoke when they see those men who are shitty.
A real man still has to be matched with a real woman.
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Because it was not a war year, the demand for male masculinity was getting lower and lower, and as women's social status increased, the economic demand for men also decreased, and the demand for men's domestic functions increased. Therefore, the society is more and more rejecting straight men, because they no longer meet the needs of society and turn to promote warm men because they meet the needs of society.
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The words straight man and crooked man represent only sexual orientation. And online platforms such as Weibo, Tieba, Zhihu and other online platforms define this term as men with low emotional intelligence who do not know how to please women. But it's far from straight male cancer (machismo).
Does society discriminate against straight men? Non-discrimination. It is some online women who discriminate against straight men.
Weibo user) (Zhihu Tieba female user). With the equality of men and women, the concepts of women first, women's rights, etc., were proposed. Some women are becoming more and more pampered.
Labeling men with different thinking on the three views is a straight man with low emotional intelligence. Men and women think differently, so it's good to understand each other.
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Because straight men don't have much desire to consume, it is enough to have the Internet, wifi, a computer, and a mobile phone. Our existing values are nothing more than the current material level, the post-war political and economic structure, and the human being, after all, cannot be separated from the limitations of the current stage of historical development.
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In the case of the same income, most men do not like to consume, let alone overdraft consumption, and the capitalists are very hot, looking for someone to lead the rhythm of the siege, hoping that this group of people can spend more.
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Because some straight men don't respect women, and they don't care about women and don't understand women, it makes girls feel uncomfortable with them.
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I feel that straight men don't respect women's ideas very much, they don't empathize, and they are a bit machismo.
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The term "straight male cancer" first appeared in June 2014, originating from a kind of ridicule of netizens for people who live in their own worldview, values, and aesthetics, and often show their dissatisfaction and dissatisfaction with each other, and have a little machismo. It is now extended to be a man who ignores the value of women, does not respect or objectifies women, restricts women's freedom, and is narcissistic, self-righteous, and self-indulgent.
The three typical straight men are:
the belief that all women dress themselves up to please men;
2.bragging about his masculinity by showing off to his friends how soon he brought his girlfriend into a hotel;
3.It is the machismo of straight men who exaggerate themselves and belittle, and objectify women, which is more common in losers.
The existence of straight men is a product of history, in the feudal era, men are superior to women, as long as men study hard every day or have a good family background, there will naturally be thousands of girls to follow, and there is no need to understand the minds of girls.
Some men's thoughts are still stuck in ancient times, they don't understand women's hearts, they don't understand their daughters' feelings, there are so few excellent women, and there are so many men who pursue them, as a straight man with basically 0 emotional intelligence, he naturally can't get the favor of women.
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How to say this?,Because straight men really don't provoke others to like.,I don't know how to care about girls.,If a girl is sick or something.,I just know to drink hot water and drink hot water.,If it's uncomfortable.,It's also hot water.,In general,I don't know how to care.,There's no coaxing language.,It's not human.,Let girls feel like they're not looking for a boyfriend.,But found a repeater.,Full of brains.,Drink hot water and drink hot water.。。
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The straight men that everyone hates are those who have low emotional intelligence, don't know how to take care of other people's feelings, and are selfish, not straight men, it is those weird, wrong, and selfish people who turn straight men into derogatory terms.
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Because in today's society, there are many rules, you can't say it directly, it's too direct and unadorned, and it's often difficult for people to accept.
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There's nothing wrong with straight men.
Because they don't pay attention to ways and means of speaking, they are easy to hurt people, and long-term contact is easy to cause too many misunderstandings, in fact, in essence, most of them are still very good, sometimes much more slippery than those with oily tones.
I once heard a passage that roughly means, machismo is that I am a man, what should I do, for example, I am a man, I should take care of the whole family, straight man cancer is, you are a woman, what should you do, for example, if you are a woman, you should do housework!
In this world, if there is someone who likes you, the person who is a straight man is also warm to you, and everything will be for you, if you don't have you in your heart, even if you hint or express it directly, you don't bother to pay attention to you, even if you are married, it is equivalent to a partner.
Usually ask a reply, even if you just go back to your mother's house to live for half a month, it has no effect on him, at most it is like a maid who usually does everything, and now suddenly there is no more, not used to it, and will miss the various services of the maid when he was before.
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Say that you sing ugly, that you don't brush your teeth, and that you really want to beat him up.
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Straight men are pretty cute when they are well managed.
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Just like the word gay, there are different interpretations, and the same is true for straight men, and this straight man is not the other straight man.
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In today's society, everyone does despise straight men more and more, but to a certain extent, straight men are not wrong.
Because straight men are direct, of course, this is very good, but because they are too sloppy and don't know how to dress themselves, they give people a feeling of uncleanness, in fact, many straight men in society are also handsome after hairstyles, clothes matching, and ** maintenance.
The existence of straight men is a product of history, in the feudal era, as long as men study hard every day or have a good family background, there will be thousands of girls to follow, there is no need to understand the minds of girls, at this time "straight" naturally does not become a problem.
However, with the development of productive forces and the rise of feminist consciousness, the situation in today's society is no longer the same.
Now excellent women are rich and powerful, no longer bound by men, no longer take power and money as the only selection criteria, marriage can also be autonomous, and they can choose the man they like.
And some men, their thoughts are still stuck in ancient times, they don't understand women's hearts, they don't understand their daughters' feelings, there are so few excellent women, and there are so many men who pursue them, as a straight man with basically 0 emotional intelligence, he can't get the favor of women.
Therefore, it is true that straight men are more and more unpopular in today's society, and straight men are indeed sometimes not wrong.
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It's because it's too straightforward and easy to hurt people, and it's hard to take care of other people's emotions.
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Because straight men don't talk flatteringly, they always tell the truth, but generally the truth is not liked to hear.
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Because there are more men than women in today's society, in most cases, it is men who pursue girls. It is very rare for girls to pursue boys, but some boys don't know how to be emotional. And this part of the boys are collectively called straight men by girls, and it is precisely because the way straight men pursue girls is not understood by girls that the term straight male cancer was born.
Boys pursuing girls is a step-by-step process, and many girls now enjoy the process of being pursued by boys. But some boys don't know how to properly pursue the girl group orange students, they all choose to use their own way, thinking that their way can be recognized by the girls. But it's a pity that the girls don't approve of it, and think that this part of the boys has no mood and is not suitable for being boyfriends.
Straight male cancer is just a misunderstanding of girls about boys. I don't think some straight men don't know how to pursue girls. This part of the boy wants to pursue the girl in his own way, but this way is often not approved by the girl.
Girls crave romance, but boys talk about reality. <>
Since the idiom straight man came out, it has been given the characteristics of a derogatory term. A lot of guys get this insulting hat from girls for some reason, and I think it's disrespectful. The upright boy didn't feel sorry for anyone, but he was ruined by wearing this hat for no reason.
Therefore, in the process of boys pursuing girls, even if the boys' ways are not emotional, girls can't be outspoken. <>
There is nothing wrong with straight men, it's just that the way they pursue it doesn't fit today's concept of love. What they pursue is just simple and simple love, but many girls are influenced by today's society. Sometimes they are too self-centered, taking it for granted that boys should pursue girls, and it is even more natural to pay for themselves.
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This is because straight men are not really straight men, but because they are unwilling to care about women and are unwilling to pay for women, so they will become more and more straight men.
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Because now straight men can't find a girlfriend at all, many people feel that such men have no emotional intelligence and are unwilling to deal with them at all.
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Mainly because this kind of guy is generally difficult to fall in love, and you will feel it after you fall in love with him, it is very painful, because he does not understand romance.
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Why do many people complain about straight men now, and even call them "stupid straight men"? If a straight man does something wrong, he should be ridiculed by a girl?
The term, "straight male cancer", originated on the internet, and its fragmentary definition is summarized. In fact, it depicts an incompetent and extremely masculine heterosexual man, whose incompetence is reflected in taste, thought, and life.
If you think about it, do you suddenly find that there are a lot of such guys around you? They lie in front of the computer every day, their greasy hands always roaming between the mouse and the keyboard, and their eyes are always full of sparkling monitors. Of course, these guys don't represent all straight guys.
Today we are going to talk about, why are straight men often complained about?
When we watch TV dramas and books, we will find that it used to be easy for young couples to be together. Boys do some childish things, even if they are just shy to say a few words to girls, girls will not particularly dislike this man. If this man has the perseverance and keeps chasing, they can basically be together.
We often say that the older generation used to be very simple, and love was very simple. Although the men are a little silly and a little naïve, they really like a girl, and they do everything for the girl with care, so no one despises these men.
It's different now. If a man can't understand a woman's psychology in the process of falling in love, he will be said to be a "straight man"; If a man thinks that a woman doesn't look good without makeup, he will be said by the woman, "You are a straight man's aesthetic"; If a girl has a cold and asks for comfort, she will say, "This is too straight."
I don't understand the customs, I am not interested, I have low emotional intelligence, and I am bored. These labels are attached to straight men. Straight men have naturally become the object of complaints, so that until now, everyone's stereotype of this word, seeing these two words, constitutes a stupid person, and often advises you to drink more hot water.
In fact, in reality, "despising straight men" is either an excuse or a ridicule. Not a lot of people break up with you just because you're straight.
If we have to define a "straight man" as one, then it can be understood as "a simple way of thinking, a straight line, and a lack of flexibility;
The lifestyle is monotonous and lacks interest;
The pursuit of value is more traditional and single, and he will simply regard the inheritance of material and family as the kind of boy who pursues his whole life. The so-called "straight man" is actually synonymous with most ordinary boys. They are more "simple" or "less interesting" than "straight".
The essence of love is to be attracted. Identity, status, wealth, appearance, and ability to do things are all good points to attract girls.
But if these material conditions are not difficult to meet, that is, if there are more boys to choose from, if the quality is better, girls will pay more attention to spiritual attraction. One, a straight man in the traditional sense, is obviously a boy who is "dedicated to work", but he is not good at enjoying life, euphemism. Their way of expressing love is a simple and crude "confession, spoiling, and giving", that is, "inviting apples to eat bananas", which is widely criticized by girls in love research, "I don't know what I want at all".
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The main thing is that they don't know how to coax girls. Always do something that makes you angry. So it's going to be more annoying.
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Because straight men are very bad at talking, they will offend all the things that girls hate, and straight men don't understand other people's feelings, they only think from their own point of view.
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Straight men are very angry when they speak, and they don't have any emotional intelligence in doing things. So people don't like it.
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Because they always tell the truth, which is unacceptable to many people and hurts the self-esteem of others.
Our family is also more reasonable, and we are very welcome to the arrival of our husband, and the wedding bride price is only 20,000 yuan at the end. He breathed a sigh of relief at that time, and opened his mouth to say: 20,000 is too little, give 30,006! Haha, I'm laughing to death, I know he's slapping his swollen face and being fat again.
Because today's society cannot live without the material material of money, it also makes them more and more realistic.
Personally, I think that the main reason why people are becoming less and less affectionate is that our society is developing too rapidly, and everyone advocates the concept of money firstFor example, if we often pay attention to some social programs, we will find that many biological children do not support the elderly in the end, many brothers turn against each other, husband and wife fight each other, and other situations that are difficult for us to understand, all of which are caused by disputes over money, so I think that although our lives are getting better and better, we should not pay all our attention to money, and we should also pay attention to the emotional communication between us while pursuing money. If family members want to maintain good emotional communication, they should pay attention to the following points in their daily life: >>>More
The rapid development of the Internet, mobile phones and various high-tech devices has made people more immersed in the unreal world, and people can be very talkative on the Internet, but they can not say a word when they are face-to-face. A group of people can sit together without saying a word, everyone holds a mobile phone and keeps scrolling Weibo or all kinds of things, people care too much about fiction, and ignore the reality in front of them, choose to touch the glowing machine, and can't see the people around them, and say a few words to the people around them.
Because life is stressful, I love to think crankily.