Why girls like to say that being friends can keep a relationship for a long time

Hehe. How to say, some people can be friends for a lifetime.

But if you are a lover, it may only take a few years, it depends on whether you are suitable to be a lover, but I think that girl is quite sensible.

I was like this with a junior high school friend of mine, and I had ignorant feelings for her in junior high school.

Later, we became friends, and it has been 11 years now, and I think that if we were lovers at that time, I guess we wouldn't have been in touch again after high school.

Therefore, I have always felt that if you want to be with someone for the rest of your life, you should not choose lovers, but friends.

Friends can last a lifetime, but the feelings of this era require too many things, and sometimes they are not what you can bear.

Because once you break up, most girls won't associate with that guy anymore. The saying that you can be friends after a breakup is deceitful. There is also a situation where the girl is rejecting you.

Generally, girls will take the relationship between friends too seriously.。。

More conservative girls will feel that the relationship can only be considered complete after marriage.

In many cases, it's still hard to explain the problem correctly, because a lot of women think differently, otherwise where would a woman get a needle in her heart?

It may also be in rejection Or maybe she has been hurt before Afraid that if you are together, you will lose It is also unpleasant and quarrelsome in love Details can sometimes defeat love Being together may not be the best way.

Friends together, will you feel bored, for your friend's faults or shortcomings do you laugh or say you want to criticize, with your girlfriend, stay for a long time, will you feel bored, for your girlfriend's faults or shortcomings do you laugh or say you want to criticize, why there is a little Biesheng newlywed sentence that everyone knows, think about it, in fact, to a certain extent, what your girlfriend said has a certain truth, of course, the premise is that the other party really thinks, Rather than an idea that arises because of some external factors!

They don't believe in love anymore!

In fact, she is already in love with you.

The so-called distance produces beauty.

Sweat. It should be the way to reject you.

Because men don't know how to cherish after they get it.

Girls are like this, what you don't like is not like, you don't like what you like, she doesn't like what you like, so it's normal to be friends between you, don't think too much, let it be, don't force it, don't give up, sometimes it's a lifetime thing. You can start with ordinary friends, get to know her slowly, know her preferences, so that you have a chance, come on! Bless you!

Summary. It means that I don't want to be a couple with you, and I rejected you euphemistically, if you really like her, you can pursue it, and if you catch it, you can get your wish, even if you can't catch yourself, there is nothing to lose, don't leave yourself too many regrets.

The girl said just be friends, what does it mean that such a relationship will last for a long time.

It means that I don't want to be a couple with you, and I rejected you euphemistically, if you really like her Huipei, you can go to chase the trip and ask for it, in case you catch it, you can get your wish, even if you can't catch up with yourself, there is no loss, don't leave yourself too many regrets.

How to chase it. Girls say to be friends, maybe they really think you're not suitable, not the type of boy she wants to find, so being friends is just a more euphemistic rhetoric, and there is a possibility that the book is not deep enough to understand you, and I don't have much feeling for you at the moment, start with a friend, since there is a possibility, and you like her very much, you can try to pursue her, do what she likes, and say that Zao Hong may not be able to capture her heart! Even if you don't end up together, you won't regret or regret that you didn't fight for it.

If a girl tells you to be friends, because this girl knows that you like her more and has taken the initiative to confess to her, then it means that this girl is rejecting you tactfully, and it is very wise to tell you that the two of you can only be ordinary friends, and it is impossible to become a couple. In this case, if you continue to chase it, it will be difficult to get the expected goal, and it will be counterproductive. But if Zheng Guo, a girl who didn't know you very well before she shook hands, suddenly said that she was friends with you, then to a large extent, she recognized you and had a certain good impression of you, so Liquid Yuansong's words are a good opportunity for you, especially if you haven't confessed to this girl before.

Then you have to express your heart, since you like it and there is hope, it must be to chase, say be friends, it means that he feels that he does not have that kind of relationship with you, so you have to show his heart, and coax her, so that he can slowly get familiar with you and create a relationship. When a girl says to be friends, she refuses, she just won't be with you, and your relationship can only stop being friends. Because you have known each other for too short a time, the girl will definitely not agree to you if you confess with you, and the girl will definitely not be your girlfriend if you confess it to the extent that you have not yet reached that level.

If you still want to keep chasing, get along as friends first, and wait until you know each other well, then confess.

How to get to know each other in different places.

How do you usually contact you, dear?

You have to understand what she likes, what she likes to do, what dramas she likes to follow, and so on.

Then don't you have a topic to talk about next time, isn't it pro?

Usually I feel that he likes to chase dramas and watch Douyin.

I don't like to socialize very much, so I don't go out much.

That's not easy, dear, how to say.

Good song. Then discuss the <> together

How does a guy maintain a long-lasting friendship with a girl?

1. Moderate communication.

No need to call** or email your friends too much. Communication can be brief, a five-minute chat** or a short email. Know your friend's schedule and don't call your friend too early or too late.

2. Don't compare.

Don't let the camaraderie turn into a hidden contest and compare who has the richest, the best clothes, or the coolest car. Don't argue with friends. This will only turn friendship into a bad comparison.

3. Determined to improve yourself.

Cultivate honesty, generosity, and humility that will make you a compassionate and respectable friend. Avoid endless whining. Constant complaining is tiresome and makes friendship go away from you.

4. Listen. Care about your friends and learn about their living conditions. Don't always talk about your own problems, if you are only keen on your own ideas, friendships will not last.

5. Don't idealize your friends.

No two leaves are the same, even though your friends and you have similar temperaments, interests, and similar sexualities. But after all, friends are individuals, and there will always be some differences from you, and there will always be shortcomings of one kind or another. Therefore, when socializing with friends, don't idealize your friends too much, and don't take all your friends' words and deeds as such"Me"is a reference.

6. Tolerate the shortcomings of friends.

Once you find out about your friend's shortcomings, tolerate them and choose the right time and method to help him overcome them.

Hello, dear! You reply to each other, you can slowly develop from a friend's hidden grip, you can be a friend for a longer time, but from a friend to a lover, if you really like her, you have to show your true feelings to move her in order to make her accept you, where boys are prone to make mistakes is to be too self-centered and not consider each other's feelings. Like is the love at first sight, love is a long-term relationship, it is easy for two people to be together, but it is not easy to maintain it.

Many boys complain that they don't know why their girlfriend wants to leave them and go to Pichang, in fact, many times you don't give her the "sense of security" she wants. Women are different from men, and what kind of man she marries will almost affect her Zao Chong's life. If you can't give her a "sense of security", how can she give her life to you.