Why do I get jealous when my best friends go out with other boys?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-29
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Oh, it's good to be young, you can still worry about emotional things, classmate, you are now in the blessings, and you don't know the blessings

    If you say that you are very positive about your feelings, I personally think that you are not in love with that boy, and it is a "more outstanding real-time attraction of the opposite sex to you".

    The boy may be outstanding in school, or the overall impression he gives you is very much in line with your aesthetic of the opposite sex, so you will observe him and care about him. But once he is not by your side during the holidays, that kind of "attraction" does not exist, and you will naturally forget about him, or feel that he is not so attractive to you.

    And when school starts, you see him again, or you realize that you are going back to school life, that "real-time opposite-sex attraction" atmosphere appears again, and you naturally want to be with him again.

    This is a typical adolescent normal reverie of falling in love for the sake of falling in love. There is nothing to worry about, you must know that studying this word that has been recited by adults since you are sensible is not an empty slogan, and your education level will determine your future social status and quality of life.

    I think it's good to do everything you do while you're studying, but nothing can be better than studying. You must know how many beautiful and intelligent people like you regret that they are blessed with knowledge and are not serious.

    Don't be upset when you see that some of your friends have a "boy" or "boyfriend" that you don't already have. You should be smarter to see how many people will chase a beautiful and highly educated girl in the future!

    Think about how many times stronger you will be than other girls who have empty beauty at that time?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This kind of emotion is difficult to control, but you should be clear, you should be able to let go, since you have already separated, what else is there to think about, go on like this, study to decline, the feelings are hungry, and you are worried all day long, and you want to find something to transfer this situation

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hey, let go, you should focus on learning, but a proper relationship can also have a good body and mind But don't be too obsessed.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    All so, you cherish your friend and have the desire to occupy her alone, so.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Think more about how good she is to you. Otherwise, improve yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't think too much of your girlfriend is pretty. Think of it this way: I only want this ugly monster, how can anyone else want it? It's all right!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Jealousy is in human nature.

    It is an unhealthy psychology and a negative emotional manifestation.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    While joking, I said to my wife, wife, I'm jealous! Hehe, he'll understand.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since they are just good friends, what are you jealous of, if she has another relationship with that friend, won't she have a relationship with him, and it may be with you, men should be generous, don't be so careful.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Everyone has two or three confidants, relax, men should be generous, don't care about these little things, if it's just a very good friend, then what does it matter?

    If there is an ambiguous relationship, then see the facts as soon as possible

    Communicate clearly with your girlfriend to see if you want to divide or continue!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This is too normal, because you attach great importance to your girlfriend, and you will be jealous if you pay attention to it It doesn't matter, you just need to tell your girlfriend what you really think, let your girlfriend understand her weight in your heart, and she will be a little more restrained, but even if you like your girlfriend very much, don't interfere too much with her right to make friends, trust her.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Are you her boyfriend? Maybe it's just a joke with you.

    How could a man tolerate such a thing.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you don't even have this trust, then nothing good will come out of you together, and you will break up as soon as possible. But if you think you still love her, you should trust her.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then you go find a boyfriend who is better than your boyfriend. Don't be jealous, okay, it's not necessarily the right one for you, the one that suits you is the best.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, are you better than your friends?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Not sure if she's your good friend?

    If so, I want her to be happy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Go your own way and let others do the talking!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If the guy likes you and you like him, you should be together, and true friends should be happy for you. Ask yourself in your heart, if you don't like this man, stay away from him and make yourself happy first.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Treat it with a normal heart, and your friends will regret it when they know they misunderstood you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Crooked, this woman has a nervous disorder.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Jealousy can only happen to people of the same sex, that is, women are jealous of women, and men are jealous of men. It usually occurs between rivals.

    If a woman is jealous of someone else's boyfriend, it means that the woman is gay, she likes her good friend, so she treats her friend's boyfriend as a rival!!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It may not be jealousy, it's just a kind of envy, human nature, but it needs to be treated rationally, otherwise the relationship between friends will collapse

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Look at yourself and then look at the people around you, there will always be this kind of grievance. As long as you don't do anything out of the ordinary to your friend's boyfriend, it's just envy.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Love must learn to be tolerant, do you think, don't you have such female friends around you?

    What about what your boyfriend does and feels?

    You shouldn't care because he thinks you love him and belong to him alone.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Love needs to be inclusive. Understand. I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. Take your time. Maintain a normal mind. Everything will be fine. There's no way your boyfriend can do a t. You still lack getting along and communicating.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Unless your boyfriend is homosexual, don't bother yourself. It takes time to integrate into his life, don't be in a hurry, because it's useless to rush.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    A lot of people have this mentality, including me. This is normal, just take your time. But everyone has their own lives, and they can't force it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Ah! I'm speechless. My personal feeling is to keep a calm mind and be cautious

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Distance produces beauty.

    At the same time, a diaphragm is created.

    So even if it's good.

    Don't have nothing to do.

    I'm a man. Know men better than you do.

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