Should I face reality? Should I give up my talent? Or is it my specialty? 5

If your family can't afford to go to an art university at this stage, choose a major or school that your parents are happy with and that you are interested in. It doesn't matter if the major is related to dance or not.

Note that I am not asking you to give up your dreams, because after you enter the university gate, you will be surprised to find that in addition to completing your studies, all your childhood interests, hobbies and specialties can be shown to all people and yourself like summer flowers. The major you study will be your hole card, but it will not necessarily be the job you will do in the future. You can only complete this study after entering the university, but you can get a higher development in your specialties and interests, this development can be career-oriented, do well enough, you can also make a profit in the university community, reduce your burden, this is also to accumulate experience for yourself, and when you go to the society, you have a diploma, and have your favorite skills and rich experience, you will not hesitate.

That's the reality you're going to face.

Ask more relatives and friends who are talented in literature and art, and are now in college or have graduated, and communicate with your parents, I believe you can find answers that everyone is satisfied with. Remember, your parents, are your most important people.

Remember, when you get old, you don't regret what you went through, but you regret what you didn't! When your grandson comes to you, you have to tell him how talented your grandmother was in dancing before, but it's a pity ... Don't you feel sorry?

People live with value, what is value, value is to live their own wonderful. Everyone has his characteristics! You only need to succeed once in life, but why can't so many people succeed?

Because they have never found the industry they like, or they have given up the industry they like and then they keep regretting it, so that they keep changing industries and finally achieve nothing!

Self-confidence is the most basic quality of a successful person, but human nature is not self-confidence or lack of self-confidence, and self-confidence can be solved by the power of autosuggestion, believe that you can you will be able to, all human civilization is in people think that it is impossible or even did not think about it, there is no can't do it, only can't think of it!

Many artists, family situations are not good, including Michael Jackson, we can't decide which family to be born in, but we can decide where the future goes, and we can decide what family your child will be born in the future! Art is not the preserve of the rich, but by the capable!

I hope it helps you, I like art very much, life is art, speaking is an art, behavior is an art, communication is an art... Come on, what you have to do in life is to be open, the road is simple, and the way is natural. I believe you will definitely make a difference!

Although everyone has always said that they stick to their dreams, dreams are not reality after all. The reality is very helpless. No one will give you enough financial security just because you have a dream.

In today's society, even dreams can be measured in money. If you just love it, I suggest you think about your family and your own situation. It's not very shocking to you, how many people who started learning dance at a young age, but in the end they didn't make a difference in dance?

Think about the reality. After all, people don't just live in dreams.

Discuss with your family, your family is the one who will always be with you!

I'm just like you, but I didn't choose my favorite.

My personal thought is that I will be happy when I see my family being good.

Being able to do what you love is a great joy for people like us, and it's a luxury at the same time!

If you are still in school, then you should focus on your studies, and if dancing can make you worry about food and clothing, then don't even think about it!

Study hard.

Let's go up every day.

Think of it as a workout.

I'm also a sophomore in high school. It's really painful.

**If you are very savvy in this regard, you don't have to go to any **school to study, you can also achieve it yourself, go to the United States.

- You have a dream, which is very good and is the first step to success; What you want the DAO to do is how to implement the version, and through what party.

There are several ways to do this, which one is more suitable for you and which one is feasible;

There is no limit to being young, anything that is beneficial and promising can be tried to figure it out, and the chance of not trying is equal to zero;

The US is the only country that offers more generous scholarships, but in fact the arts are offered to local students.

There are fewer than other majors, and there are fewer international students; The proportions are really small;

The cost of living can be maintained through a part-time job, and the tuition must be won a scholarship, otherwise it will be very tiring, but.

The lineability is very small; — I remember that from the beginning of college, all personal expenses and expenses were borne by myself, also through hard work.

Striving for scholarships, competition bonuses, part-time job internships, financial management, etc., although it is a bit hard, but it is very fulfilling; Also.

Indeed, because of this experience, I have won a lot of opportunities, a lot of advantages, and a lot of help; So trust you one.

You are very ambitious, have dreams, and have time, please plan hard and work hard;

The society is very realistic, dreams need plans, hard work, opportunities, and various preparations to support them.

Brace and use your hands and wisdom to achieve;

Hope it helps! Good luck with your studies! Good development! Dream come true!

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It doesn't seem to be cheesy.

The art of bai is only du cheesy art people.

There is not much zhi

If what you say is true.

As long as you have the internal strength, I believe you will have the opportunity to express yourself, just ask you to fight for it, learn English well, write a letter, attach your work, and ask it to be sent to a better school in the United States that you want to go to, and a famous school will keep sending it, and if your work is appreciated, you will get a full scholarship, so that you can go out and study.

In fact, there are a lot of ** You can apply for it, you can look for it, maybe it will help you!

p, there are so many re-education systems in poor family conditions, not to mention that no matter how good the electronic piano is, you can't play the piano well, and you can't learn the violin at all with the general violin and general teaching, either your place is taught randomly, or you talk nonsense. People who have not studied music theory can write a score when they hear a song, you can apply for **, just say that you are a genius, too blind.

There are quite a few like you.

Don't complain, it's all fate. What is meant to be yours is.

If it's not you, it's useless to think about it!

A lot of people love it. But that doesn't mean everyone will succeed. It's not that your talent or family background is not good, but on the basis of love, you should plan for the future, if you give up everything now for **, have you thought about the future?

Will the road in the future be to work part-time as a paving for you to complete your dream? It cannot be denied that many artists have come over like this, but that is only one in 10,000 luck, maybe talent, maybe strength, but if there is no luck, nothing exists, the current family conditions are not good, you can work hard to change by yourself, and the only way to change is to study hard. It's not that your family conditions and backward cities force you to give up or even bury your dreams and talents, but that your current family conditions are not good and you live in backward cities that drag down your ideas and make you unable to complete your dreams.

No one will have smooth sailing, can it be said that with good family conditions, you can achieve your dreams in an international metropolis? Ju is also a 14-year-old girl, I also have this kind of dream, Ju lives in Shanghai, the family conditions are relatively superior. But it doesn't mean that I can achieve my dreams, and in this kind of city, the competition will only be more fierce and intense.

Guzheng, roller skating, calligraphy, hip pop, basketball. I can't be considered proficient, but I also started practicing guzheng from a very young age, calligraphy and street dance, roller skating, and even won the second place in the city. But here it still doesn't belong to the high-profile people who are wearing the halo.

All of this made me realize that if you want to achieve your dreams, you must first strive to do the best you can now. The dream is reserved for the day when I have the strength to complete it and then realize it.

I suggest you have time to read Darwin's "Origin of Species".

Good dreams are to be done for a lifetime, temporarily put down, complete your studies, it is not that you are required to give up your dreams, no one has this power, except yourself.

I don't know where you're doing now, if you've found like-minded friends who you've created your own work and put it online.

Do you want to regret it.

Have you ever thought about missing and not coming back?

Do you love her, if you love her, tell her that she loves you too, and she won't mind if you suffer hardship, because there will be sweetness.

As long as you are willing to work hard to be together.

I wish you all happiness.

Do you hold back before you do it? Do it first, if you really have to give up when the marriage is in the face of reality, think about your current problem, why give up if you can continue to love her now.

According to what you say, you really love each other, and you are very happy with each other, so of course you should strive to be together, talk about it, solve the problems you face together, and wish you happiness.

This will only hurt you again, the falling flowers are intentional, and the flowing water is ruthless. Loss is not necessarily unfortunate, and may usher in a happier future. Obsession may only hurt oneself.

Keep that ideal in mind at all times, after all, sometimes the reality is contrary to the ideal, because to achieve a goal will require a lot of effort and dedication, will not everything will go with our minds, so we sometimes have to know how to be flexible, not to say that changing the path is equivalent to giving up the ideal, only when we reach the ideal from other ways to achieve the conditions required by the ideal, in order to better seek our ideal, and as long as we can live happily, live a full life, have a heart that does not admit defeat and persevere, No matter what job you do, you can live well, you have to believe in yourself, isn't there a good saying? Do you have the intention to plant flowers and flowers that do not bloom, and do you have no intention of planting willows and willows into the shade? As long as you keep your ideals in your heart, you may end up achieving your dreams.

Finally, I hope you can have a good mood to face life.

There is always a distance between the ideal and the reality. Reality needs to be faced, but ideals cannot be abandoned, if people have no ideals, it is very sad. You can continue to pursue it in a different way. With hard work, it may really be achievable.

The point is, are you ready? You have to know that if you don't have money, you don't have power, what will you give, and it won't have to be famous, of course, whether you're famous or not depends on what you give, and who you give.

No, as long as you work hard to achieve it, one day you will be able to achieve it.

Record him and give it to your grandson in the future Become a star and talk about dreams I want to be unspoken hehe.

Hehe, it's up to you, if you really like it, chase it.

Do you sing well? Do you have your own original?

No, haven't you heard of salted fish turning over,

Most do. Let's face the reality, you can't just blindly find your own strengths, and everything else is delayed, what can you do in combination with realistic conditions, make full use of your time, and your dreams will find you by yourself. Work hard in everything you do!

In fact, most people don't work hard enough, and they can't fight for talent at all!

Maybe it's time to think about it.

If you could know where you are now, such as when you are studying? Or what's that? This way we can help you a little more.

First of all, you have to be good at finding your talents. Or what do you like to do? Maybe you're not good at anything right now, but what is it that we can master in our lifetime?

The problem you face is a question of orientation in life, and these problems may haunt you for a long time. But it doesn't matter, many people don't figure it out until the end of their lives. There are a few questions you can ask yourself:

Where I came from, what marks my parents left on me; How I grew up, what was the happiest memory of growing up; Where I am now, what is around me that can give me happiness; What do I most hope to be in the future, and what kind of life do I most want to live? Refine these questions, keep adding details to the answers, and you'll find your own talent. Have a great day!

If you treat hobbies as a career, it becomes a very sad thing.

Stick to your dreams!

When I was a child, my dream was to be a chef and cook the best food, but this dream died.

Although I have a successful career now, with the help of my parents, I can be regarded as a small achievement.

However, I still regret that I didn't learn to cook when I was a child.

Although the chef may not make much money, he can have a great development.

Alas, ideals.