I care so much about what others think of me, how can I change it so that I don t care so much!

I used to care about what others would say about me like you, and even be careful that I had to do every word and action I had to do deliberately, but in fact, this is really not good, because when you pay too much attention to yourself in the eyes of others, you will often make yourself suffer from gains and losses, and ignore what you should really do, so that you live your whole life as if you are not living for yourself, but living for others, why bother? Furthermore (purely personal opinion) I think that people who care too much about other people's opinions may actually be people who want to be taken seriously, or people who don't know enough about themselves, because if you don't know yourself well enough, don't know your own strengths and weaknesses, it will be difficult for you to make a correct judgment on yourself, so others' evaluation of you has become a yardstick for you to evaluate yourself, but in the final analysis, how can anyone in this world know more about you than yourself? What others say about you, no matter how good or bad it is, it is what you see in the eyes of others, and the most important thing for people is to make themselves better in their eyes, just like someone even if everyone evaluates him very well, but he himself feels very bad, then he can only live a painful life in the end, so people should judge for themselves what kind of person they are, what kind of ambition you have, how you should work hard, and what will make you feel happy and happy, And these have to rely on their own personal experience and continuous attempts to obtain, other people's evaluation of you, you should only make a reference, can not be completely indifferent, what is said is indeed correct, you will seek change, because this is also a process of self-improvement, as for those who say bad things about you, it may be that your character does not let them like, but character is a unique sign of a person, some people do not like it, some people naturally like it, why should you lose yourself for some people do not understand, remember, as long as you feel happyThat's the most important thing, because it's what you're happy for yourself, it's what you really experience (of course, you can't do things that hurt others), then it's okay for you to feel happy, why bother what others are thinking?

Be yourself, let yourself progress day by day in your heart, and get closer to perfection day by day, when you are doing this series of work, you are already a happy person! Of course, before this, you have to put your weight in your heart, trust your own judgment more, and be confident in yourself, after all, people live for themselves in this life, and there is no need to drill into some problems, because he is a trap himself, the more you want to understand it from its perspective, the deeper you will appear in the quagmire, like this kind of thinking that will only make yourself miserable and meaningless to yourself, I hope you can overcome it as soon as possible, because there are too many things to experience in life, It's really not worth wasting your time on this kind of issue, no matter what they think, let them say whatever they like, as long as you live your life well, happy and happy, that's enough That's how I understand it, I hope these words can help you.

You are a sensitive personality trait that is particularly sensitive to other people's reactions and tries to relax.

Go your own way and learn to go your own way. As long as you like yourself. Other people's opinions are superfluous, remember, the important thing is that you like yourself. Love yourself more

Change your perspective.

Summary. Good afternoon, dear, you can adjust the first from the following angles. First of all, look at how we think about other people's opinions, because when we are in other opinions, it means that we have lost ourselves at this time, and we will always change because of other people's opinions or opinions, so the most important thing at this stage is to find ourselves.

Good afternoon, dear, you can adjust the first from the following angles. First of all, look at how we think about other people's opinions, because when we are in other opinions, it means that we have lost ourselves at this time, and we will always change because of other people's opinions or opinions, so the most important thing at this stage is to find ourselves.

Second, it's good to be yourself, change your unreasonable perception of others, because other people's evaluation of you is good and bad, because it is difficult for us to change others, so what we need to do is to change our unreasonable perception of others.

Thirdly, spend more energy on things that are valuable to yourself, because no matter how good we do everything, there will always be negative evaluations, so we just need to feel that we are doing our best in those things.

It's good to be worthy of your heart.

Summary. You don't need to care about other people's opinions, remember that no one is perfect. Everyone has their own shortcomings, everyone has their own strengths, and if you care too much about what others think of your shortcomings, you will live a very tired life.

Therefore, when you care a lot about other people's opinions, you can actually reflect on yourself, whether you are really not good in some aspects, and see your true self from the eyes of others is actually good for yourself. Sometimes it's okay to look at yourself from a different perspective.

Caring too much about what others think of you and how you change yourself.

You don't need to care about other people's opinions, remember that no one is perfect. Everyone has their own shortcomings, everyone has their own strengths, and if you care too much about what others think of your shortcomings, you will live a very tired life. Therefore, when you care a lot about other people's opinions, you can actually reflect on yourself, whether you are really not good in some aspects, and see your true self from the eyes of others is actually good for yourself.

Sometimes it's okay to look at yourself from a different perspective.

One: Good advice needs to be heard. If others really have a good attitude towards you, and the advice they say is indeed for us to be more useful, then we must still listen to it, such as their dressing style is not appropriate, or the makeup is inappropriate, etc., it is good to say that you can change it under the advice of others, after all, this is a good suggestion for yourself, so you still have to listen.

But if someone else's mind is not pure, then there is no need to say more.

Two: Stick to living your life. In this society, we must first insist on living our own lives, and sometimes our way of life may not be understood by others, but as long as we think it is right, then we can do it boldly.

I've seen girls in their early twenties driving their own RVs outside the world as their home, this is their own way of life, at least in their own opinion, this kind of life is enough to be really happy.

Three: Change your mentality. Many people who care about other people's opinions may have, but we need to change our mentality, what others say is someone else's business, after all, the mouth grows on others, although we say that we can't change others, but we can change ourselves, which requires us to have a very strong heart, take the initiative to filter out those bad voices, so that their lives will be more beautiful.

The opinion of others is only the opinion of others, and the final decision is still in our hands, so it is good to stick to yourself.