My husband asked me when I would be sensible and how I was

This is not a question that can be done with words, but by action. Think more for your husband and do more empathy. Whatever he says, I hope you will listen to it and do it right away.

Life is a bit regular, and doing things and talking first goes through the brain's thinking. Don't lose your temper at every turn, don't get angry at every turn, he can accept whatever you say to her, and you can't stand it when he says something.

If your husband nagged you all day long, it means that he still loves you, and if one day she stops nagging you, then your happy days are over.

I think if you really change, he will understand, and should not just not focus on how he is. I think there are two ways to make mistakes: keep expressing your stance but never correct it; Regardless of whether the statement is expressed or not, it has been corrected. As for what is the right thing to do, I think you should know that too.

I think you always keep telling your husband that you were wrong and didn't make a real correction at that time, and people will always be unbearable. People's patience and tolerance are limited, and this has nothing to do with love: that is to say, he may really love you, but he may also really not be able to bear such constant criticism as you one day.

In fact, men have to face a lot of things, and if you can't fix even these very bad but small habits, maybe you will really make him disheartened in the end. If you really love him, why don't you take the initiative to correct your own badness, and tell him with actions: Husband, I corrected it because I love you.

Actually, you're just like my girlfriend right now, and I think the best way to do that is not to say anything. In the future, you will live a little more regularly and let him feel the changes in you. If you have to say it, say it:

I really know.,I'll definitely change it in the future.,If you don't believe it, we'll make an agreement.,In。。。 I didn't do much in the time. After that time, ask him to accept it.

Or the previous one you think you have said many times don't, just say what kind of agreement you have to make, let him see your changes, I think he will be very happy.

If you feel that your husband is more sensible than you, then you listen to him more, sensible and irrelevant matters, action is the key. You have already made a statement, do you think that the other party can still trust you by making a verbal statement?

Being accustomed to and being accustomed to is actually a kind of happiness, and he doesn't necessarily have to change when he says this, because a man's broad mind can achieve the beauty of a little woman. "Note: Don't divide".

To be honest, it's not a question of whether you can go back or not, but it should be reflected in your future performance.

Hey, hey, I'm too, my husband is annoying every day, and I have to work hard to change the saying as the saying goes, marry a chicken, marry a chicken, marry a dog, and marry a dog.

If I were sensible, I wouldn't love you.

No matter how much you say, it will be in vain, and it will be possible to see if you will take action in the future.

Listen to you from now on!

Give me another chance, okay, can't you tolerate me.

I think you're a princess, and you're seriously ill.

Find out why.

It's okay for a man to be like your husband.

Don't ask too much of him.

Slowly you get used to it.

In fact, a man is the same as you think, you want to get married and want him to serve you, and he also wants to find a wife to serve him.

Also, don't tell him to do this and that in front of his mother, then the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be difficult.

If you want to achieve the results you want, the fastest and most effective way is to take him to professional psychological counseling, and the psychological counselor will prompt him to understand these "problems" in him from a deep psychological level, and then make him adjust.

It varies from person to person.,Young age doesn't mean you can't be mature.,The company is really good.,Tolerate him getting up late to ask for leave.。。。 Dizzy, these are not worth leaving, change him slowly, care about your words will change.

Give him some stress in life. If you don't have a BB, then the man's sense of responsibility will naturally be aroused.

It's good to sleep until you wake up naturally.

But how much money will be deducted for going to work like this? In the future, your company will dare to ask for such employees, it is too sloppy and lazy.

It'll get better slowly. Don't worry.

You'll understand when you go out more.

You'll find out when you're older.

You're an LG only child, aren't you? My husband is the same as yours. I'm annoyed. Such. It's so tiring to be a woman

It's really disgusting with you, and you must have done a lot of things that make people sad and desperate.

It's also possible to dislike it, because you're doing it to make him very uncomfortable.

You also have to reflect on this yourself, try to empathize, whether what you are doing is a bit excessive.

I don't think he doesn't like you anymore, it's just that you have more things to do.

In my opinion, if your boyfriend often thinks you are ignorant, he may really dislike you.

If you can say such things, it proves that you have really grown up and matured now, and a person needs to experience to grow!

Maybe I can be sensible and steady, you can answer this sentence. It's true that everyone wants to be a little more stable and sensible, but they all need one. Go through the process slowly.

It's okay, you've done a good job, and a lot of things need to be done slowly, and you can't rush it.

As you grow and go through things, you mature very slowly. Stable. Be careful.

The other party may have encountered some things, I hope I can be sensible, you can answer like this: I also think that you are just this matter, you need to be more stable, next time something like this happens to you, you need...(You can give him some advice).

You can reply like this: Since you understand the truth, then you must match your words with deeds, and you can change yourself well.

Actually, I can be more sensible and steady. This sentence may have to reply to the other party's words, you can say that you are already very good, and you are already very stable.

Everyone needs to go through this period of time from naivety to maturity.

Well, I think the other party must have something unpleasant to have such thoughts, and you can comfort him and say that you are sensible enough and very stable.

The meaning of this sentence is that he thinks he is not sensible, and you can tell him that you have done a good job.

Since the other party said so, it means that he must be unstable when he does something, and if this is the case, then you have to comfort him and take your time.

This sentence must have been said when I did something wrong, well, if I were sensible, I wouldn't have had that kind of regret happen in the text.

Encourage each other more, people will become more and more mature.

You said I'll take it a little more steadily after that, and let you see.

You can be sensible and steady, you can tell him that I have been through a lot of things, and I am very mature and stable now.

If others say, maybe he can be more sensible and steady, this sentence means that she blames herself more, he thinks that maybe the relationship is not getting along well, it is his own relationship that he wants to correct.

I can understand that it would be good to be mature and steady, how do you answer this sentence? I think you're answering him, and if you do that, you're going to be a very good person.

In fact, if you have anything in your heart, you can also explain it to him directly. Otherwise, one day you won't be able to stand it. Maybe they broke up after a quarrel.

In terms of personality, I think that's pretty good. It's active, it's cute, it's fun, and I'm going to be very happy with you. I want you to show your most authentic self.

No matter how bad the temper is. I can tolerate and tolerate everything. Because I love you.

As long as you're happy, I'll be happy.

First of all, let's take a look at what it has to do with you, ordinary friend? It's still a boyfriend and girlfriend, and secondly, ordinary friends can say that it's good to be yourself, and when the relationship is good, you can ask her what happened, why is it suddenly like this, if it's usually good, just keep it up.

Tactfully set out her psychological thoughts! Do you have some conspiracy?! Joke tone.

I like all the looks you have.

You ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend.

I felt that when my parents were old and they couldn't do a lot of work, I realized that I should grow up, take care of my parents, and know what kind of life I should have and what responsibilities I should have.

When I was a child, I was sensible and pure, and as we grew older, we chose different things, rather than just being sensible. When you grow up, you are sensible, and it is more of a responsibility.

Generally around the age of twenty-one, you have to watch, some boys are very early and sensible, so it is not good, for example, people who graduated from junior high school are generally slower to be sensible, and they will be more likely to become bad when they come into contact with society It is different in school, and it is generally necessary to live independently in college, and the people around you are also in contact with each other, so it will be less likely to become bad So it is generally almost sensible at the age of twenty-one Of course, it also depends on family factors and the teaching of parents.

After wandering outside for a few years, I suddenly came home and saw that my parents' hair was gray, and I realized that I should do something for my parents, and I should plan for the future, and then I realized that I had really grown up and was sensible.

Suddenly, I found that my parents were old, and suddenly I felt that I couldn't mix like this anymore0

When I was in junior high school, I quarreled with my parents, and my parents were very sad, and at that moment I realized that I should be sensible.

After being responsible, I feel that I should be sensible.

I'm growing up. I saw how hard my parents worked. There is no money at home. See. Parental efforts. Hard-working. That's why the old self I met should be sensible.

There's a saying that growing up happens in an instant. For me personally. Actually, yes and no.

I did have a moment to grow up, shortly after my first summer job. I suddenly realized my actual situation and family conditions. I felt like I had to work hard, and indeed, the results were acceptable.

But have I really grown up? Not really.

It wasn't until recently that I understood. When you think you grow up, when you look back. There are still a lot of very naïve and extreme behaviors that are occurring. It wasn't even that long ago that it was done.

What you think is growing up or maturing is what you think you are subjectively self-conscious.

I think, a really mature person. Whether it is for one's own subjective behavior or subconscious expression, he can empathize and be fully rational.

When it is not natural to ask your parents for money, you know that life is not easy to have an empathetic empathy.

I started to live on campus, and I was very happy to leave the family at the beginning and didn't want to go home, and when I came home at the end of the semester, I found that my parents' hair was gray, my mother's back was bent, and my eyes seemed to be no longer shiny, and I suddenly realized that my parents were old, and I didn't know how to care about them all day, only to spend money, and at that moment I felt that I should grow up and be sensible.

When you have a child and an old man, and you have no one to rely on.

1, time tells me, the age of vexatiousness is over, it's time to be sensible, life is not to rush, but to feel the road, life is not in a hurry, live in the present, the coming day is long, don't blame the time, who has no story in his heart just learned to control, live his own life, what should come is on the way.

2, in an instant, time has changed a lot, the years have passed, leaving our shell, continue to move forward, time tells me, the age of vexatious trouble has passed, it's time to be sensible, the vicissitudes of life, please treat it well.

3, time tells me that the age of vexatious trouble has passed, and it is time to be sensible.

4, don't live up to your best self at the best age, it's enough to know, I will go by myself for the rest of my life, I have no support, I still have pride. Time tells me to be unreasonable at an age, it's time to be sensible, time is not to rush, but to feel the road, who has no story in his heart, but just learned to control.

5. Time, you can understand love, you can prove love, you can overthrow love! Time tells you that the age of vexatious trouble is over, and it's time to be sensible. If there has ever been happiness. Happiness is just a fragment of a moment, a small segment.

6. You tolerate life, accept life, and give back to you The result is tolerance and acceptance, game life, will eventually be a game of life, when you are older, you should be sensible, impulsive, irritable, only consider the problem from your own point of view, that is a child is not an adult, may I remain kind to life, and life will give back to me sincerely.

After getting married, I feel that life is not a matter of one person.

Realizing that you are an "independent person" is a sign of a person's maturity, and one of the signs of a person's maturity is having a third perspective.

In my understanding, human growth is not linear, but an expansion of a circle. At the beginning, it is a small circle, and then each stage of growth can be understood as forming a larger circle, set on the periphery of the original small circle, the small circle does not fully represent the present you, nor is it just the past you, but only a part of the present you, which can be taken out separately and observed, and re-understood by you in the big circle.

We often see the protagonist's memories in movies being treated like this: the protagonist returns to a previous scene and sees him interacting with others at that time. At this point his observation is from a third perspective, but with a first point of view, he may shout at him at that time, "Don't do this, you'll feel pain" or "You should do that, that's what you want".

In the scene of an event, you are the first point of view, the other person is the second point of view, and the gaze that is independent of you and the other person, recording and feeling the whole event, is your third perspective.

Our growth is like in the movie, gradually have a third perspective, objectively observe everything that happened before, re-experience the feelings of these things that happened to us, and interpret the meaning of history to us, whether it is failure or success, sadness or happiness. Instead of getting lost in that little circle all the time and blaming myself: I just did it at the time, or I really regret doing it at the time.

Such behavior is not conducive to one's own growth at all.

This continuous growth in circles has created a more mature person who gradually has an independent personality, and has become more tolerant and stronger.

The third perspective does not have to come from the present to examine the past, but it can also be the attention of the moment, or the present looking at the future. It can probably be said that when you are truly an independent person, there will be two of you in any interaction with everything in the world, one you who interacts with things, and one who looks at everything independently - I realize that I am a truly independent person.

What's even more amazing is that these two "I" can also interact, that is, all the behaviors that are often mentioned as self-observation, self-cognition, self-analysis, etc., which are substituted for the word "self", are the interaction of these two "mes". The two "I" are like confidants and friends, and this kind of interaction is beneficial and positive. If you still stay in one "me", it's just a one-person competition, and the more you toss yourself, the more you twist your jaw.