Since when did you find out that you were sensible?

At the beginning of junior high school, I felt instantly enlightened and sensible! Before I was sensible, I just remembered the words hard work, hard work, and sensible, but I didn't understand its meaning, for example, my father and mother got up at 4 o'clock in the cold winter to push the three-wheeled truck, and sometimes it was very difficult to push it several times to start the car, at that time, I was woken up in my sleep, I would be very angry, and I wouldn't feel that my parents had any hardship, at that time, my heart couldn't be reasonable, and I couldn't have any experience of love in the outside world, and when I saw my parents busy for the family, I also saw it in my heart and put it in my heart, understand filial piety, and then see my parents cry when they get up earlier, I should do things I will do my best to help when my parents are busy, and then I am sensible, and the sensible time of that year happened in the first year of junior high What about you?

Since I joined the workforce, I slowly began to realize how difficult it is for my parents, in the work, the interpersonal relationship is very complicated, and it is very hard to earn money, since then I have stopped spending money indiscriminately, and know how to be diligent and thrifty.

35 years old. At the age of 35, I realized that I couldn't mess around.

I was sensible very late, and 35 years old was a watershed moment. Before the age of 35, you can get by, just have food to eat and clothes to wear; After the age of 35, a sense of crisis quietly hit. All my classmates, relatives and friends of the same age have already achieved something (for example, my sister-in-law, who is two years younger than me, has been working in Chongqing for eight years and has already bought three houses in Chongqing).

And I'm just a low-level worker, a poor worm who lives a miserable life and doesn't know it. With a meager salary, he is engaged in the hardest and most tiring work, and he may be fired by his boss at any time. What is called a stop in the hand, I show up to say.

As soon as I lose my job, my income is gone. There is no money to use, no work to drive. After quitting his job, he was also very passive when looking for a job.

Family interviews, rejected again and again. I really don't want to try that taste again. It's time to be sensible, it's time to have a plan for the future, and you can't go on like this anymore.

Remember, never put your hopes in someone else. Stand up on your own, including your own siblings. No matter how much money other people make, it's all someone else's, and it has nothing to do with you.

Nowadays people are very snobbish, and if you are poor, even your relatives will look down on you. You have to rely on your own hands and live uprightly.

Ten. At the age of two or thirteen, he was almost sensible.

I was married when I was married.

The more sensible it is, the more distressing it is.

That's why the source of Shinshu can not be so sensible.

Since I was a child, my mother has been saying in my ear every day that I am disobedient and ignorant, and hopes that I will listen to me and read more books. At that time, I was quite rebellious, and I felt that I didn't have so much consciousness and didn't know what it meant to be sensible. One day, I inexplicably understood a lot, and I also knew that I had to be obedient and study hard, I felt that my mother was very tired, it was not easy at home, and if I didn't study well, it would definitely be difficult in the future.

From that day on, if I didn't study well, I would feel guilty, if I stayed at home for a long time, if I bought something I shouldn't have bought, I would feel guilty. Although my family never asked me for anything, I would give me whatever I wanted, but I never took the initiative to ask for it. More and more for the sake of others, thinking that my younger brother does not listen to slippery words, I want to comfort my mother sensibly and teach my younger brother.

I really don't want to be sensible anymore, I don't want to be able to run out of money, I don't have to worry about getting by at home, I can buy whatever I like, I also want to stay at home for a long time and do nothing, I don't want to work hard, I also want to do what I want. Although I am 22 years old, it is time to work hard and learn what to be independent of. But I always felt that I had never experienced being a carefree child, and at the age of fourteen or fifteen I had endured things that I should not have endured at this age.

Sensible people, really no one will feel distressed.

I've always felt that time doesn't take away anything unhappy, it just stays in my heart, longer and longer. Then, from time to time, I sighed why I was so unhappy at the beginning.

People are slowly sensible with the increase of age and experience, and there is no fixed time, there is an older generation of teaching and guidance may be sensible faster, if they stumble all the way over, they may have suffered before they will gradually become sensible and mature. A truly sensible person is more likely to behave in the world, handle interpersonal relationships more harmoniously, respect the ideas of others, and will not go his own way. Hope it helps!

Have a great day!

"Sensible" has two levels, one is obedience and the other is maturity.

One is the "sensible" in the mouth of teachers and parents in childhood, and at that stage sensible means obedient, obedient and unorthodox.

It's like Kong Rong made pears in ancient times.

Brother, Huang Tingjian.

Modern children know that respecting their elders, retiring in an orderly manner, abiding by the moral system and fulfilling the corresponding obligations according to their own status is the concept of "sensible" in our mouth.

But for adults, what is "sensible.""This?

We often say that if you are not crazy at the age of 20, you will not be productive, and if you are crazy at the age of 30, you will not be productive. It is because people have reached the age of establishment, and they should know the society and themselves, know how high the sky is, how thick the earth is, and how many catties and taels they have.

No, being sensible refers to understanding human feelings and doing things according to reason, not to be able to do a specific thing. For example, if you know how to stir-fry, you are not called sensible, and if you make something delicious, you can only be called sensible if you let your parents eat it.

I think to put it bluntly, being sensible is to let yourself do things from the perspective of others now, and you will naturally understand what it is to be sensible when you are older, and it is best to be happy to be yourself, not necessarily to look at other people's colors, and consider others.

Have a plan for life, be able to choose your own direction in life, and be able to choose to take responsibility for yourself.

Go forward without fear.

I remember that I have been sensible since I was 13 years old. Because when I was 13 years old, I was in the sixth grade of elementary school in the town and lived in my aunt's house. It was the first time, leaving home and going to study in other places, and there was a lot of inexplicable sense of loss in my heart, and I often felt lonely.

Even many times they cry and can't face life.

Slowly, I began to become independent, did my own laundry, and carried my schoolbag to school by myself, and I often felt very sad in my heart at that time. I look forward to the weekend every time, because I can stay at home for two days after school on the weekend, and I am reluctant to leave home every time I go home.

Every time I leave the house, I feel very heartbroken, and I even have the idea that I don't want to study. Every time, I muster up the courage to go to school, but every time I want to beat the drum on the way. At that time, my grandmother gave me great courage and encouraged me to go to school and study hard, because of my grandmother's encouragement, so I mustered up the courage to go to school and slowly began to become independent.

When I was at school, I missed my home very much, and every day I would miss my family and think of the pictures of home. Every time I think about it, I cry, and I never tell anyone, and my classmates often ask me why my eyes are always red. I always tell people that it is the sand that blows.

Then a person walked to a place, silently wept, and found that he was really vulnerable at that time, probably because he was too kind and cute.

Slowly I began to grow, and I was strong enough to overcome all the difficulties. One goes to school, eats alone, does his own laundry. At that time, I felt that it was really painful to be away from my family.

It's like a little bird that has left its mother, no one cares, no one loves, and every day is spent in sadness.

From the age of 13, I began to understand how difficult it was for my family. Because I don't even have the courage to be independent, I can't take care of myself, so I can imagine how difficult it is for my family. Every time I go home, I care about my family, and when I see them working, I feel very painful, and I hope that they will never have to work and live a happy life.

So every time I take the initiative to help my family work, I often care about them.

My grandparents often said that since I left home to study in other places, I have slowly become sensible. Not only has he become hardworking, but he has also been able to understand his family and take the initiative to care for his family. They even want to help their families solve their financial problems and hope that they can be independent.

When you are wronged but don't want to talk out and worry others, when you finally know that you think about others instead of just yourself, you may be really sensible.

I remember when I was seven or eight years old, my friends had their first bikes and would ride them together after school. At that time, I couldn't afford to buy a bicycle because my family was poor. When they went to play, I wanted to go together, so I had to sit in the back seat of my friend's bike.

Once, a friend laughed at me and said, "You're just a beat slower than us, and when you have a bicycle, we're all going to get into a car." "I felt so sad that I ran away crying.

When I got home, my mom looked at me with red eyes and asked me what was going on. I felt like I had a stomach full of things to say. I want to ask my mother, why do other children have bicycles, but I don't?

I want to tell my mom that I really want to have a bicycle and that I want to go with them. But I endured it for a long time, forced the tears down, and then shook my head and said nothing. It was from that moment that I felt that I had grown up and become sensible.

You can never imagine how important a bike was to me at the time. But I also know that it is not easy for my mother to support the family by herself due to sudden changes in the family. If she could, my mom would like to buy me a bike, too!

However, there are too many places to use money at home, **There will be spare money to buy me a bicycle, but it makes my mother embarrassed and saddened by me!

It's a painful thing to be sensible, and growing up is just a moment.

When I got the university admission letter, because I saw that my parents were not as happy as I imagined, I knew that there was no money for me to study, and I was really sensible at that time.

When I was studying in other places and found that I might not be able to live without my parents, I slowly became sensible and began to understand the hard work of my parents.

I started becoming a director when I was in high school, because from that time I discovered the hardships of my parents and the love for myself.

When my mom was in menopause and she was suffering from illness, I started to become sensible and started to feel sorry for her and wanted to protect her.

When I found that it was not easy to make money, I began to be sensible, because it is really not easy to make money in today's society, I understood the hard work of my parents, and I became more sensible.

When I was in junior high school, I began to be sensible, and when my mind matured and I could judge things good and bad, I knew that I was sensible.

When I sat next to my parents and listened to them discuss things, I realized that I began to think differently in my heart, and I felt that I was starting to be sensible and no longer blindly obeying.

I guess when I was in high school, I began to understand my parents' expectations of me, and I also began to understand that it was not easy for my parents to make money.

When I stopped competing for the love of my parents and began to love my little brother, I found that I began to be sensible, and I began to know how to take care of others.

It should be that after I went to high school, I knew that it was not easy for my parents, I knew the hardships of my parents' work, and then I also understood the importance of studying hard.