I m very tender in doing things, what should I do

After more experience, it will naturally mature, and the personality of the family and the individual will be affected in many ways, some people mature a little earlier, and some people a little later. Simplicity is not a disadvantage, everyone has it. Use your brain before you do something and think twice.

People can only progress if they think often. Don't treat this as a burden, just let it be. People who feel that they are mature are often the most immature.

If you want to have something you haven't had, you have to do something you haven't done before! You yourself said that life is basically arranged by your parents I haven't experienced anything The problem is here The next time your parents don't do anything for you Don't blindly obey your parents' arrangements Think more about your own ideas Are your parents really what you want If not, you have to give up decisively and work hard to live your own life Don't be so big and still live in the arms of your parents There is nothing wrong with a smooth life The main thing is that you have to do something for yourself The experience obtained through difficult struggle will make you mature It's time to be mature and mature, otherwise you will have your own family in the future, how are you going to support it?!Come on

Learn everything you wouldn't know about life, starting with housework! I'm 24 years old and I haven't helped my parents with housework!! You're too lazy, at least you have to improve your self-care ability to the level of ordinary people within the planned time (you can buy all daily necessities).

Parents follow along when doing things, watch more news broadcasts to learn about national events, check international news more on the Internet, observe all the advantages and disadvantages of the people around them, and learn the knowledge or abilities they need!

The rest is to wait until you encounter difficulties in your studies before finding a way to solve it on your own.

Maturity is increased by age, girls see you young and say naïve, it's all like this, you find a girlfriend who is more tender than you, maybe you won't say that, or ask me if I'm immature, are you mature? The more things you experience, the more things you know, and the more you get older, you will mature, and everyone will always mature.

Maturity is experience. Encounter all kinds of things. Even failure is a lesson, and only after experiencing it will it mature.

See more, think more, practice more, and think more from the perspective of others!

When one day you have setbacks, you overcome. Then you are mature.

Show what is missing, so don't show what you want.

Is it that she is not satisfied with the bed scene, saying that you are tender

Think about your future, your responsibilities.

That's a naïve question.

The annoyance of people's skillful training lies in having too much attachment and taking many things very seriously, such as money, career, and reputation.

The Buddha said that the reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things. Let go, you will be at ease, learn to let go, then your mood will be natural and peaceful.

It's hard to take your time, but once you do it you'll benefit for life.

In addition, you have to develop the idea that everything is a life experience, whether it is good or bad. It is recommended to take a look at "Lao Tzu", his inaction, indisputability, and going with the flow are exactly what our floating society lacks today

Others apologize to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you don't expect that the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about that sentence.

It's a day to be happy, it's a day to be unhappy, so why not be happy every day."

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position where you feel comfortable and stand open, sit or lie down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties.

Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, and finally wish you a happy life!

Timid, careful, and introverted.

Give yourself a reason to live well and set a goal. That's how people have a certain belief as a spiritual pillar, and then they want to work hard to achieve it. With enough reason, there is hope, and there is hope to be motivated. Without a goal, I don't know where to go, and I am often aimless

Hello, 1, mental cognition. Tell yourself every day to be efficient.

2. Make friends with the people around you who have a rhythm of life, and be rendered by the environment.

3. Ask family or friends to help and don't hide your shortcomings. Let your relatives and friends become the objects of your supervision, and use external forces to spur yourself.

4. Before doing everything, you must have a plan and be organized.

5. Write down the things you want to do every day in a notebook in the morning and check them in the evening. Self-assessment.

I also had this problem at the beginning, everything was procrastinated, tomorrow after tomorrow, tomorrow and so much and so on, and I knew a lot of inspirational words, but I just couldn't change it.

The first thing you need to know is a sense of responsibility, including a sense of responsibility to your body, to your work, to your family, to your friends, and to society. Although the world can turn without anyone, you have to learn to make the world turn more beautiful, start from everything, what can go fast will never go slow, what can be solved today should never be delayed until tomorrow, what can be solved this minute, don't delay until the next minute, for example, what I plan now is to ......After your question, I'll go to WC right away. Haha, just kidding, but in fact it feels the same, you arrange everything as if you are going to WC - "If you don't go, you can't hold back!"

Please don't mind, but this is my true thoughts and practices.

If you can't change it yourself, find someone to supervise you.

When a nervous emotional response arises, an effective way to adjust should be to face and accept your nervousness. You should think that it is normal for you to be nervous.

Don't fight against this unsettling emotion, but experience it and accept it. Train yourself to be an outsider to observe your fears, to be careful not to get caught up in them, not to let them completely control you: "If I'm nervous, I'm nervous, but I can't be nervous and don't do nothing."

At this point, you can even choose to talk to your nervous mind and ask yourself why you are so nervous and what the worst possible outcome of your worries may be, so that you can face up to and accept this nervous emotion, deal with it calmly, and do what you have to do in an orderly manner.

Attend more public places, go out to eat with friends, and participate more when there are activities, you can exercise!

I'm a very introverted person, I don't talk much, but I really exercised a lot during the previous few years of looking for a job, I used to blush when I saw strangers, I couldn't speak, I was cringe, during the job search, I had countless interviews, and now I am much stronger than before, and I am much more cheerful, just exercise it!

Nervousness is to pay too much attention to what others think of you, or to pay too much attention to the outcome, and it will be better for you to look at things with an attitude of indifference and indifference. Try taking a deep breath for 4 seconds, holding your breath for 16 seconds, and exhaling for 8 seconds before you get nervous.

It is recommended to solve the problem from the inside out, relax more often, and constantly improve your self-cultivation and self-confidence. Going from the inside out is slower, but it solves the problem at its root. Good luck.

Social Wide will not be nervous.

Just do a little more numbness

Men want to save face, sometimes they do something wrong or say something wrong, hoping to find some reason to make up for it, hoping to get back face, which is a common problem in men's subconscious.

Friend, this is the nature of men.

Men are rational, women are emotional, women can do things by feeling, men cannot.

It's not easy for you, and you're filial enough, I think you can have a clear conscience.

Your family situation is ready-made, your husband's uremia is very troublesome, his body is very weak and he can't work, and regular dialysis costs a lot of money, and your own health is not good. No matter how filial you are, you can only do what you can, and unreasonably force yourself to hold on, and the final result will be that everyone will collapse, and it will not benefit anyone (including your father).

It's okay to talk openly and honestly with your father and sisters, your father continues to live in your house, and it's okay for you to continue to take care of him as much as possible, and you are willing, but you need help and sharing. One is that your father needs to share part of the household expenses; The second is that your husband also hopes that your father will support as much as possible for his treatment; The third is that you have to take care of your father and husband and live a lot of pressure, and you are not in good health and can't continue like this, so you should hire a nanny, and your sister should also share this money every month. These demands are reasonable and can be made frankly!

It is necessary and natural to communicate frankly with your father about everything and thoughts, and it is a biological father and daughter, what should not be said frankly. Blindly compromising will not help solve the problem, and it is not a long-term solution.

I sincerely hope that the advice will help you and hope that it will be strong and smooth! Don't think about any points at all...

First of all, your parents gave you life, and it is your responsibility and obligation to take care of them, and the same is true for your husband, he also has his parents, and he has the obligation to take care of them with you, but you should communicate with your father, since the old man is in good health, and your health is not good, he should also be considerate of you as a parent, and help you share some things within your ability, family reunion is an enviable thing, and it cannot become a burden, I wish you a happy family!!

Obligation is 'duty'!

Now that you are having difficulties, taking care of your husband is number one because no one can 'replace' you.

When you are 'busy', let your father have a few days of 'comfortable life'!

When you really can't stand it, tell your father and sisters and let them make up their minds.

What needs to be done is this: never get angry because they 'maybe' be 'negative'!

If you can 'command' your father to do something 'small'. Didn't the father become a 'helper'? When things are 'piled up', there is even more 'help' for you.

How's it like to see your 'art of leadership'!?

Happy to you!

Sympathize with you. This kind of family situation is really troublesome, because they are all your own relatives, and I believe that you love them all the same. However, you have limited strength, you are financially strained, and you are taking care of both the elderly and the sick, which no one can stand for a long time.

In fact, you already know it yourself, but it's really hard to say. Your husband is the most important thing, and I believe that your husband also loves you very much and supports you. Father raised your sisters, and filial piety should also be done, but you still have to have a range of ability.

It is recommended that you communicate well with your sisters, I believe they can understand, and everyone can share it. Or be kind to others.

The bad tricks still don't come out, right? Hey.

If you really can't stand it, don't be afraid to tear your skin. First, if my sister doesn't contribute, she will pay. Second, honest people have no temper? Let your father come to your sister's house and see who has the bigger temper among them! Third, on the news. Fourth, go to court!

I think you can talk to your sisters about a situation like yours, and if you don't coordinate well, you can go to the city to solve it!

Well. I also think you should talk to your sisters, and you can bring your sisters and father together to discuss and not feel embarrassed.

Your own tiredness and worries should be shared by your family.

If the situation is really bad, and your sister is not willing to take responsibility, is there a law?