The double pressure of age and reality. What to do?

Looked at the above. I want to tell you my story.

Because I feel like I'm in the same mood as you are right now.

This year I'm 22She 27She is northeastern. I'm Hubei.

A word difference. That's a thousand miles away.

Now the relationship between the two of us is very good. I got pregnant some time ago.

But for various reasons. The child can't want (not that both parties don't want it.) I didn't know at first.

She was not feeling well. It's another drip. It's taking medicine again. Tossed for more than half a month. Later, I consulted my doctor.

The doctor said it was better not to)

I haven't told my family yet. I know how stressful it can be. The family will definitely object.

This relationship. After all, she's 27. I'm only 22Sometimes think about how nice it would be for me to be 27 and she 22.

Maybe I'm a boy. I don't think about it that much now. My most hope is her persistence.

She doesn't think I'm small. Trust me to take care of her. can give her happiness. That's all right.

At the end of the day, I'm going to stick to it. No matter how opposed the family is. I'm going to fight for it.

You're a girl, after all. It's almost 25. I must think more than I do.

But I hope you understand. On the road of life. Meet someone you like.

The feelings of genuine love for each other. How difficult it is. Be sure to cherish it.

Be sure to go for it. Don't have anything to be sorry for. Don't have any regrets.

You can fight with your family little by little. Little by little, I went to discuss with my boyfriend to get married as soon as possible.

Have a good communication with him. Say what you want to say. I want to express it. I was worried. Say it to him.

I believe that as long as he loves you, too. He will understand you. will face it with you

In the end, I hope that our relationship can come to an end. You can be happy and happy!

It is advisable to separate. Have a career and get married? Do you ask him if he really wants to marry you? In these years, the family has no money and wants to have a career, so it takes time, a lot of time. Can the yellow flower girl afford it with you!!

If he can love you for a lifetime, of course, it's great, but who can say for sure this kind of thing! You can talk about this matter and ask for everyone's opinions, presumably you are also a realistic person, and it should not be your character to pay without regrets. In order not to make you regret it, it is recommended to break up, not to mention what difficulties, bitterness and tribulations you will have to face in the future, just say that you can't afford to wait now.

Listen to what the elders said, the old man is a person after all! That's right!

Wishing you happiness!

Sister, if you really love each other, then nothing can stop you from getting married, if one party can't stand the test, it is doomed to failure, love, it means giving and sacrificing, thinking about love, then pay without regrets, if you want to return, then don't pay, plain, why not a life?

People still have to look at the reality of the problem according to their own situation, always believe that this society has a lot of opportunities, as long as you calm down to think, to use the value of their own reality to develop themselves, so that they become energetic, life is meaningful, this is the most important thing, nothing can be rushed, take your time, after the rain is a rainbow!

Men should maintain a good attitude, exercise more, smoke and drink less.

This question. It's very common, 80,,90 is generally not very adaptable to all kinds of pressure in life, mainly depends on the mentality, the mentality is good, and the problems in front of you will be solved. If you are not adjusting your own mentality, you can only passively assume the responsibility you should bear, after all, you live and work not only for yourself.

But remember not to be harsh to others because you are in a bad mood, so that you can only keep others away from you, be kind to the people around you, try not to quarrel with your lover or boss, take annual leave if you can, relax well, wait until your mood is better, and then devote yourself to work and family with your best side.

All right.. That's all I know. In addition, if you go out, it's best not to find a bar to vent your anger. Climbing a mountain or something is more healthy and healthy

Only by finding a way to solve the problem can you reduce the stress! There's nothing that can't be solved! It depends on how much faith you use to do it!

Withstand pressure, decompose pressure, turn it into motivation, and never forget the original intention. Quiet and fair face everything.

Either release and vent the pressure, or internalize and absorb the pressure invisibly!

Three words, everything should be calm.

...If you love it, be bold enough to tell him or her and let him know your love, direct and simple language is the most beautiful. Even if you fail, you don't regret it because you have fought for it.

If you don't love it, be bold and tell him (her) not to let love become a burden. Let the good memories of the past become unbearable to look back on.

True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

Because, letting go is having everything.

When you cherish it, please love it well.

When you let go, bless well.

Sometimes if you love someone, you will love deeply. I don't know how to love.

What is love? Maybe it's because there is no answer that love is obsessive. If you love, love deeply.

To be loved. Or love. Please make your loved ones feel safe. Sometimes love is tired. I'm afraid of losing. Fear of loss is when you are in love. Cherish it.

True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swear and promise.

illustrates its uncertainty and never trust sweet words. Feel it with your heart.

Where there is love, there is hurt. Once things have passed, they can never be undoneFeel happy for having each other before. Cherish happiness for this time.

Remember what should be remembered. Forget what you should forget. Change can change. Accept what can't be changed.

Grab love and earn bread! I believe that happiness will be waiting for you not far away, if there is only bread and no feelings, it will be too boring, if there is only feelings and no bread, then how can you give the most basic material security to feelings!