How do you let yourself ignore the little things and make yourself good?

Now that you know the little things you should ignore, I don't think you put too much effort into them.

The best way to ignore something else is to think about something else, something that is more important and requires more effort on your part, so that you have to ignore it. Or forcibly control yourself, so that you don't think about it, take out the work or the tasks you need to complete, and complete them with your heart, and when you do the work or complete the task, you won't think about anything else.

If you want to keep yourself from caring about those subtleties, you mainly rely on your own willpower.

As long as every time you encounter such a trivial matter, you will quickly let yourself deviate from the topic and think about other things, and in the long run, you will be exercised and will no longer pay attention to these small things. Those little things won't bother you anymore.

If you want to be better, you have to put in the effort.

The gain in this world is proportional to the effort, you may be very relaxed, but you can't be admitted to the ideal school, unable to find the ideal job, unable to make grades and promotions in the work. Only hard work can really make you excellent.

No matter what age you are, no matter what you're doing, you have to put 100 percent of your heart and soul into it, and try to do it well. As long as you stick to it and insist on doing everything you can to the best of your ability, no matter what you think yourself, you are already a very good person in the eyes of others.

Finally, enrich yourself, study, learn more, and find yourself a long-term hobby, or **, or art, or literature. When you persevere to a certain extent, you will find that you can be proud of people who can be proud of your achievements in this area, and you are already an excellent person.

I think the best way to solve this problem is to learn, because I firmly believe that the more talented people are, the more humble they are. When a person becomes humble, many things, even all big and small, will seem positive to him. Because of his own connotation, he naturally covers some trivial things in life.

In life, what can make you pay attention to a small thing all day long is that you have no life accumulation, and to put it in layman's terms, you are very vulgar. For example, when you hear someone say foul language on an occasion, and then you feel very uncomfortable, as if you are talking about yourself. It's like having obsessive-compulsive disorder.

Also, in the dormitory or class, when someone says who's been doing something lately, as if it's not good to do something or something, when you hear these trivial things, you always think they're talking about themselves, which is also a very unconfident performance.

In the face of the above two typical examples, I think the best way is to make myself more meaningful and confident. How? Obviously, learning is okay, when a person has a lot of content or life experience.

You must be very confident in the face of these things, and this self-confidence will make you better. When a person is excellent, he will naturally become very humble, and it will be natural to ignore some small things. Because he knows that these things are really boring, and there is no need to get along with himself.

Another way is to make your life experience rich enough and accumulate enough richness in life. At this time, when you are faced with a lot of things, you will have a kind of strange behavior. As for how to make yourself like that?

You can go to the motherland and even all over the world to see, to appreciate the customs of other people, this is the so-called reading thousands of books is not as good as traveling thousands of miles. Or to engage in the service industry, when you see more people, you will naturally face some things will be strange, this should be the truth that it is better to travel thousands of miles than to see thousands of people.

In fact, this is a bit contradictory, sometimes pay attention to some small things, and some small details will make you better.

But from what you said, maybe you think that some things are small things, nothing important, and keep thinking about it will distract you, and each of us has limited energy, so you have to concentrate on doing one thing to achieve your desired goal and become excellent, this idea is also right.

For example, when we go to school, we basically look at our grades, but when we endorse, or write homework, we will be distracted when we do test papers, so at that time we have to have enough energy, physical strength and willpower.

Because there are many reasons for distraction, if you don't eat well and sleep badly, you will be distracted, and you will feel that when you are hungry, a lot of attention will be paid to the feeling of hunger, right? Therefore, if you want to concentrate on studying, you must have enough sleep, eat well, and have balanced nutrition, so that your body can provide you with enough energy so that you can concentrate on studying.

It may also be that the willpower is not enough, the willpower is not enough, you need to exercise the willpower, the exercise of willpower can start from the environment and the heart, the environment is to find an environment suitable for your own learning, if the surroundings are too noisy, you can bring an earplug, if the surroundings are too messy, you can close your eyes, and you can directly change places to study if you have the conditions. And if you start from the heart, this depends on your determination, you have to have a strong spiritual support, for example, some people will work hard because of a crush, and the crush is her spiritual support, which is the most effective.

I've only analyzed a specific situation, and you have to analyze it again specifically for your own situation, so that it is easier to achieve your desired goal.

When we get along with people, the last thing we want to contact is those who are calculating, that is, they have to care about everything, and sometimes the sesame seeds make big things like the sky is about to fall, and they are still talking about something"The devil is in the details"。

In fact, in life, whether we treat friends or family, we don't care about some small things, if we want to make ourselves better, we must abandon small things and do the big things in our hearts.

The big line does not care about the details, and the big gifts are not resigned"We must always remember this sentence, and in the future life, we must not be sad for a long time because of a little thing, and we must find a way to solve this matter.

We must learn to change, but it is difficult to change the habit and character of a person for many years, it can only take time to prove everything, practice is the only criterion for testing the truth, we must implement it step by step, maybe at first it is exactly the same as before, every day I still care about these little things, friends and classmates have been reminding you not to care.

When you suffer a loss in this road, you know what to do in the future, everyone is confident, feel that what they are doing is right, and they have not neglected the little things that will suffer one day, so when this loss comes, the change in the future will be obvious.

There are really a lot of people like this in real life, and sometimes even roommates may feel who is doing what because of a garbage accidentally thrown in the wrong place, so they accidentally make a little awkward, maybe this is too much to care about details.

We might as well relax our hearts, our hearts are not like the sea, how can we come to the same cause as the sea.

At this time, you need to develop a habit, that is, for some bad things to ignore habitually, because I think a lot of things, you have to distinguish the main part of it and some of his unimportant parts, then you find this concept after you do something, you will be more relaxed, because many times we tend to put some less important things in the first place, and then it will cause ourselves to be very, very busy. And then a lot of times you can't do something very meaningful, so I think first you have to have a concept of evaluation. <>

At this time, you also need to develop a self-confidence, because I think you have to maintain a self-confidence in your own choices, because sometimes there are some small things that are caused by some of your own choices. Everything will have its cause and effect relationship and then if you do this thing, there will definitely be his bad aspects, which can not be avoided, then at this time, about some of her bad aspects, you must maintain a very rational understanding, don't spoil the whole overall situation because of a little bit of badness, so at this time you must think from the overall situation, don't count the smaller things.

Anyway, the last thing is to stick to your own principles, that is, if there are some things, then you deal with it at this time, you must adhere to your own principles, principles are really a very important thing, is a bottom line for you to behave in the world, and it is also a way for you to do things and treat things, I think only through principles, you can set up a better star, and then do a better self, Because a principle is a person's bottom line, a principle can really reflect a person's quality.

1.Exercising regularly, exercise can really relieve the depressed mood, whenever I feel wronged in my work life, I will go to the park to run after work, it is really effective, as if the troubles are flowing away with the sweat, and ** is also better than before.

2.Diligent in skin care, it is the nature of girls to love beauty, so it is still necessary for proper skin care, and it is also necessary for boys.

3.Insist on completing one thing, or insist on developing a small hobby, this is because if you can insist on completing a small goal or a small hobby, you will find that many problems are not so difficult, you have won more than half of the persistence, for example, insist on reviewing, participating in the postgraduate entrance examination, and a year of hard review career can be persevered, procrastination will slowly get **, and good habits will naturally be formed.

4.Pick up the article, I have a little hobby, will create a lot of small surprises to life, life occasionally needs a sense of ritual, so having your own hobby, it means that life and work have a clear boundary, will be a lot happier.

5.Insist on brushing your teeth and cleaning your teeth regularly, because it is really expensive to see your teeth, I have just had my wisdom teeth extracted, and there are many small things that can make people better, excellent is a habit, I hope to adopt.

Hello to many things!

1.Get used to waking up early. This will give you time to do things you don't normally have time for, such as listening to birds singing, reading a book, practicing meditation or running.

3.Learning new things, knowledge is power, and the more you know, the better you feel about yourself. When you become a knowledgeable person, people will respect you and your knowledge.

4.Hobby exercise. It may sound strange that the stress and anxiety of life can make you feel depressed, but exercising can make you better.

5.A humble attitude. Nobody likes self-righteous people, no one likes people who don't listen to other people's opinions. On the contrary, being able to listen to other people's opinions, know how to be humble and forbearing, will win the love and support of many people, 6Build good relationships, whether it's internal colleagues or external customers, they will try to make a good impression on each other. They will put the interests of the team first and do their part to make the team members live in harmony and work together.

7.A healthy body. As the saying goes, the body is the capital of the revolution. Having a healthy body is a prerequisite for doing everything. We must strengthen our usual exercise, enhance our physical fitness, and let ourselves no longer have worries.

Keep reading[It's a useful book, not those messy things (recommended: famous books that meet your tastes, prose, poetry collections, and if you're good, flipping through the dictionary is also very beneficial.。。。

Make a plan[It must be completed.,Set it according to your own ability.,If your ability is limited (there's nothing to be ashamed of), don't show it to others.] It's still the same to insist, you can try to set three days, five days, a week, a month, and so on] In short, this can make you more organized.

Dress appropriately[There is no need for famous brands and expensive cosmetics or accessories, as long as it looks decent. For example, girls with long hair can tie their hair well and make it neat, and they don't want to tie it and comb it well. Yioyio's hair or dandruff or something...

It's a little disgusting) pay attention to hygiene (not cleanliness) above all and pay attention to your own manners].

When studying, you should be serious [I believe my parents have said so.] Specifically, everyone should know 8, that is, learning is learning, and you can't think about anything else if you only want to learn in your mind

It seems like nothing... Pay more attention to yourself8

I hope to help the baby paper who wants to progress and improve.