I wish I could find myself very sensibly5

You are wrong, women have to have women's thoughts, and you can't bury a person with their own thoughts because of your opinions. If she doesn't even have that idea of herself, then she's going to find herself again.

Like you, you say looking for yourself?

Do you understand yourself? Would you rather do what you think is a good job, or a job that you enjoy?

If the job you like is a low-paying one, would you accept it? Is it true that you can't give up the job you love by analyzing the world from the perspective of the world? So, what is the meaning of finding yourself?

If a man wants to improve, the premise is that he is self-motivated... It's useless how much responsibility you have, stop moving, plutony.

So, think about your goals and don't be blinded by things that make sense.

Thinking about it from another angle, Feng Xing is still happy, because she has her own ideas.

Not everyone can really have their own interests.

It's too painful to find yourself.

I used to list my strengths and weaknesses one by one.

At that time, it was to solve some difficult problems in life.

It turned out that I still couldn't do anything.

Your article has been written for a long time, I read it confused, and the content of your article seems to solve your own problems.

Do you want to find yourself because of all kinds of responsibilities?

Actually, I'm worse than you.

I've been in a daze for 25 years, and what I lack the most is a sense of responsibility, so I still haven't learned to work hard to do something.

In addition, if a person can really live a rational life for a lifetime, he will not do anything wrong.

To be honest, mm, you better break up with him. If you continue like this, you will definitely regret it in the end. You're only 22, he's 31 and you're still a person who has been in society for many years, and you're not in a circle of life at all.

You're thinking about how you can stay with him all the time, as if you were married. But have you considered the difference in the ideological outlook of two people? Differences in geography also represent differences in ideological outlooks.

You shouldn't be together at all. You want the manager of a company to accompany you honestly, the probability is still relatively small, because his circle is different from yours, and they don't compare each other with whose women are more, whose women are beautiful, and whose women can play? Have you considered these?

Rich man, you really have to be careful, because I'm also a rich man.

Education is not as high as yours First of all, you feel that the other party's quality is not good In fact, character has nothing to do with academic qualifications.

Do you think you're afraid of losing?

Believe in your own charisma.

Of course, if this life is not in ruins all the time, it is better to leave as soon as possible, has he corrected it, then trust him with confidence, and the prodigal son will not change his money.

After reading what you said, this will make you feel very insecure! You should test his love for you a little more! Love that can stand the test is called true love, it's okay for you to be with him now, but it's not good if you really get married and regret it!

I think you should open your mind to the fact that if your boyfriend is very good to you, you don't have to think about anything else all the time, and if you have a real relationship with each other, of course, you have to keep an eye on it.

Most likely, your friend heard something about you and misunderstood you, not to say that he didn't trust you, but I felt that you didn't have a female ticket for three years and looked over in the past, and I was more or less suspicious, so it was better to make it clear to my friends.

It may be that you really can't flirt with your sister, otherwise she will believe you instead of believing your friend. If you don't believe me, try to tease me.

Maybe it's jealousy, maybe it's because there are too many girls around you, making others feel that you have an affair with them.

It's jealousy, break off the relationship.

After reading it, you do love her very much, but she is indeed an irrational person and an irresponsible person. Your parents are also his parents, why doesn't she fulfill her filial piety and take responsibility? Like many men, when marrying a daughter-in-law, they also consider whether the woman has brothers and sisters.

I'm afraid that I will have to support each other's parents. Would she be happy if you ignored her parents and didn't take responsibility? Obviously.

And now you are not married, if you are married, what do you think she will do to your parents, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult, you should know some reasons. Besides, you have such a seriously thinking girlfriend.

Hello, although I don't have your experience, but the things around my friends make me understand your feelings very well. Love is sensual, while marriage is realistic, and firewood, rice, oil and salt are indispensable. Looking at your situation, you love that girl very much, but isn't it enough for you to love when you get married, does she love you?

If you love you, you should understand your current situation! "My parents can't borrow now, because they don't have rich relatives, and because they're too old, rich people won't borrow it, and my girlfriend didn't agree, and yesterday she told me that if my parents can't come up with the money, he won't be like my parents in the future, and there will definitely be a difference! These words put you in a very helpless position.

From a neutral point of view, you actually have the answer in your heart about this marriage, but you don't want to think about it; From the woman's point of view, she is not all wrong, after all, she also hopes that her future married life will be better in all aspects (including material), but now you really can't achieve it. In fact, when a consensus cannot be reached on many issues, you might as well put them aside for a while; In this way, the other girl will also think. Now it is obvious that you and her should not argue and negotiate too much, and both sides will be quiet; Maybe time will give you the best answer.

You choose for yourself, whether you want the old man or her. Others are not you, not in your place, everything is in vain, this kind of thing, even advice can not be given to you, you can only remember that the road is your own choice, set foot on it, you will bear the consequences.

Brothers. First of all, your parents raised you. I also want to help you raise a daughter. Don't say that parents can't come up with money. Even if you can take out this hard money. Nor should it be. If you can't treat your parents' wives well. Single for life. I don't need a wife...

This is too realistic, realistic makes me doubt the relationship between you? What is the significance of this knot? I'm afraid that life will not be easy after I barely get married.

Alas, it's such a realistic woman again, it feels like she won't be good to your parents and daughter in the future.

You've found the answer! Just looking for an explanation and a reason! You can't build everything on money for long!

It's helpless, but it doesn't matter if you raise it yourself, but there will be contradictions in the future if there is such a relationship, it depends on how you adjust.

Listen to her real thoughts, say what you want to say to her, no matter what, two people together can't be suspicious of each other.

You ask her what she thinks.

I feel that your girlfriend is not filial, so you should be cautious about getting married.

If you want to rely on it, you will eventually rely on it. Everyone's path is different, there is no so-called guide, everything can only be on their own, they will be tired, they will fall, and they will make a lot of mistakes. But if there are no such mistakes, the road in the future will be more bumpy, on the road of 18 years old, we should challenge all obstacles, temper ourselves, and help you now is harming you.