I m a timid and unconfident man, so I haven t been able to make a girl

No, brother, it's so miserable, then you're really introverted enough, in fact, it's useless to say that you're doing anything, and you have to rely on yourself.

You feel thin and ugly In fact, thin is skinny Some girls like to be thin Exercise more Push-ups Sit-ups Insist on doing 30 a day No need to say that you are ugly is not confident You have to find confidence first It doesn't matter if the clothes and pants are famous brands or not Clean Don't wear a Adi feel more than NB I didn't look at how much mud was on my feet.

The other thing is to chat with the girl You can say whatever you want, you can be humorous, you can contact the two first, don't ask to catch up, just ask for a red face when you talk later, and ask someone to eat, don't go to those small shops, KFC or street food, you can suffocate you if you have no topic in the small store, KFC and the street are lively, not afraid of the cold scene.

You can't be taught the skill of speaking, you can't just teach this thing, you have to learn it yourself.

You're 27 years old, I advise you not to worry about picking up girls, find a good object, that's all, see for yourself, it's all hand-made, it's not pasted, if you think it's good, try it, if you think it's bad, I didn't say it.

Feeling that you are thin and ugly is not the real reason You have to find the right reason for your lack of self-confidence.

The method of chasing girls has been talked about for a long time.

Courageous! Careful! Thick-skinned! Considerate! Something like that!!

If you just want to have a baby and take care of your wife, it's too easy, my QQ is 155241420 23 years old, I don't know if I can help you!! You can add me if you want!

First of all, you don't have a good attitude and attitude, so others feel very unsafe about you, and they can only refuse to stay away!

Girls? Girls are chasing, not soaking, and I feel like I don't want to have a girlfriend when I talk like you! Wait until you have your mindset in place, and then discuss this issue!

A turnip, a pit.

That's because your Snow White hasn't appeared yet, and when he does, the two of you are drawn together like a magnet.

Chatting, first chatting is angry, and then depending on the other party's attitude, they are chatting about some things that have happened recently.

Girls? The starting point is not the right ... It's not sincere at all, who wants to be friends with you.

Find a psychiatrist and have to take a look, or this is called autism!!

Lack of self-revival, to temper yourself.

Now that you know that the cause of all this is a lack of self-confidence, why not start cultivating your self-confidence? Know that self-confidence can be cultivated. To tell you a simple way, every morning when you get up, before you go to bed at night, you have to repeat this sentence to yourself in your heart:

I can be whatever kind of person I want to be, and I can do anything I want to do. As long as you insist on saying such a thing to yourself every day, you will gradually find that your confidence is increasing little by little. In this way, you may feel that it is an exaggeration.

But I can tell you for sure that it works. As for the reason, when it comes to the principles of psychology, I will briefly mention it here. - A lie repeated a thousand times will become the truth.

As long as you keep giving you hints in your mind, no matter what kind of hints you have, over time, they will reach the subconscious mind and affect your thoughts and behaviors. Now, you should understand the meaning of this, right? However, one more thing to note is that you may not feel that it will be effective at first, don't be discouraged, stick with it and you will gain superhuman self-confidence!

Take the initiative to reach out to people!

When you're with people, you can talk a lot!

Slowly find a word! For example, the weather is so nice today! And so on.

If you have time, you can check out the bookstore for books on interpersonal communication!

Your self-confidence has improved, and I believe you won't be so inferior!

If you find your own problems, then go in the opposite direction and contact more people, and be bold.

I used to be naughty like you, but when it comes to girls, I become very shy, don't think of them so hard, you think of them as your male classmates, be bold, as long as there is an opportunity to hold hands, take the initiative. As long as you hold the girl's hand, you will find that everything has changed, and you will not have these troubles.

Holding the girl's hand, this is the first step you have to do.

first.Find someone to fight

second.Go to the street to see the beauty, and look at the face, note: the face should be thicker, don't be shy!! There are beautiful women who don't look, and the brain is not in the water)

Are you a man, are you afraid of those saleswomen, afraid that he will look at you too handsome and strong. The glorious years of your childhood are over, and you won't be embarrassed to tell people how good I was when I was a child. . . If it's a man, just hold your waist up, I'll do it.

Actually, you are very similar to me when I was a child

I think there's only one way to do that, and that's to go out and about, and it's better to go to work, and make sure you don't do that again

I've experienced it myself

Don't say that Brother is also 22 years old and has never been to a woman Isn't it the same to live this haha , it's really not important to talk The key is how your people are The ones who speak well on your street can you say Aren't everyone shouting Why is your character not good What you say Others should be put p, In a man who doesn't like ink A lot of words is not necessarily good Big brother.

Don't get too obsessed with yourself, nag, in fact, just say whatever you want! From my hometown to the entire universe, from my life as a child to the Mayan prophecy, I have always found topics of interest to both parties. To let go, there is only one result of embarrassment, don't be afraid to say the wrong thing, I'm afraid that you will be embarrassed!

Go for it!

You should go out more to communicate, learn to be bold, I used to be very timid, and later, my mother said to go out more for social communication, at first I went out to buy things by myself, and asked the price ......can help you.

Because you are afraid of losing, since you will all lose, you should have lost your right, so what are you afraid of?

Does anyone dislike you for being like this?

Do something you wanted to do, but you haven't done it before!

Read more books on self-improvement, think more about life, and find your own sense of existence and value.

Change yourself and develop self-confidence.

Go and see more, go, have more experience, and there is nothing to be afraid of.

The common problem of people, in the future, learn to be shameless, not to die, not to want money, if you do it, you will be the boss.

Three things, as long as you've tried them all and succeeded, it's best to develop them into a hobby. It will help you a lot in your character.

1.Bungee jumping 2...Skydive 3Dive.

Then change yourself, do more things to challenge yourself, if you feel confident that you can go online and ask questions, then go ahead and do more challenges.

Don't be discouraged and find confidence in what you're good at. Seek adoption.

A man should be strong, and cowardice can be changed.

If you are confident, you won't care if you have many friends :) A person with a strong heart, who will not be affected by the environment and people around him, who has his own goals and directions, who is happy and at ease. This requires reading more books, more experience, and slowly improving yourself.

Not necessarily. The key is how you perceive your friends. Yong said:

There are only two true friends, one willing to lend you money and the other willing to attend your funeral. If you don't have both, then cherish yourself. In this life, the only friend who cannot and will never betray is himself (confident people naturally understand).

You tell me? The words may be a bit negative or even offensive to the world, but they are also true.

Well, it will. First of all, self-confidence is the first step for you to embrace the world with open arms, you must first open your hands with a peaceful and relaxed mind, so that you have the opportunity to have more, whether it is family, friendship, or love. On the other hand, if you just clench your fists to protect yourself, you will end up with less in your hands.

No. Friends have nothing to do with self-confidence. If you sell yourself and accept others, you will have a lot of friends. What you have to do is sell yourself and express yourself.

Well, definitely, it's always right to be confident. People will definitely be attractive when they are confident.

You're talking about ifs.

Practice speaks for itself.

Yes, self-confidence is an effective way to be optimistic.

Well, you have to be confident in yourself! But you also have to pay attention to the methods and ways of making friends!

As long as you make friends with sincerity, you will make real good friends.

That's right, you just need to be lively and cheerful and take the initiative to make friends, in fact, every friend has the same psychology as you.

Believe in yourself, and as long as you're comfortable and happy, do it.

Shout a few times a day"I can do it, I can do it, I'm good"It is a kind of psychological **, which can enhance self-confidence, and you can also make a few optimistic and open people as friends, and your personality can be driven.

Shenma are all floating clouds, try to do your best, don't get along with psychology, and do it with a clear conscience.

Be thick-skinned, don't be afraid of losing face,

It's dark on a hot day! Many people will think that you have a problem with your mind! And the girl to soak you?

Fate doesn't fall from the sky, you have to work hard to get introduced by relatives and friends, it's okay.

The appearance of a man picking up a girl is not the main thing, first of all, there must be an economic foundation, a car and a house, and everything else is empty.

There is no way to change your appearance, you can change it from the inside, be mature, be confident, and be careful. What girls lack is someone who knows how to love and be considerate.

It's not a matter of looks, it's a matter of style, learn to summarize.

It's not that I haven't touched it, but I haven't touched it, take your time! Support you.

looks much more handsome than me, look at fate, when I really want to fall in love, no one wants it, and when I was about to give up, she appeared, because of fate, please adopt, I wish you to find her who is looking for you as soon as possible.

The hairstyle is not good-looking, the dress does not match, the appearance is okay, improve it from the inside out!

It's okay. It's just with a little bit of airflow. Wear it in brighter colors. Sun-spotted. Sweeten your mouth. That's it.

With fate, the more anxious you are, the more you can't find it.

Then see if you have enough space.

Wear clothes that can be clean, the color is not too bright, clean boys are very attractive and comfortable to look at.

Take your time and don't rush to finish your career first and then create a family.

Is it hot to wear a black hot outfit in the summer?

Just like your ID, you are so confident online, so you need to go to an unfamiliar city to prove yourself, otherwise you will not be able to overcome this hurdle.

Everyone has embarrassing things, low self-esteem is not necessarily a bad thing, people want to live calmly, this is an art, which needs to be constantly figured out and learned.

It's the same for everyone, some people just hide what you say is unconfident, stupid, timid, and just hidden! Don't care too much about other people's opinions!

I also have things that I am ashamed of, and I sometimes think about them.

If it were me, I would keep thinking about it until I could face my weak self.

Don't always think about it, think of something happy, or force yourself to laugh

Be self-confident, otherwise you will not succeed in doing everything.

is not confident, and is called the first handsome in Asia.

It shows that you are not strong enough inside.

Me too, and I'm worried that I'll get mentally ill when I'm old.

When your talent is not worthy of your ambition, you should calm down and learn.

You can't always live in the past, but in the future.

The main reason why a man is timid is because he is not confident enough, you have to give him enough confidence, encourage him a lot, and be honest (there is really no other one in the world who is unique), so you have to live a life.

Some people can't pretend to be cowardly, but they have to master it"Cowardice"Although cowardly, don't really be scared and have no idea, then it's a shame.

Then go and play Dungeons and Warriors, spend money to play Dungeons and Warriors, and if you are willing to spend money, your courage will naturally become bigger.

In the past, like you, I was timid and scared, and most likely I was depressed.

Me too, normal, to be confident in myself.

1. Distinguish between cowardice and love

Whether the husband is cowardly or kind-hearted, there must be a criterion in his heart, the basis for judgment, a cowardly person is timid and afraid of things, and cannot protect his dearest people, and love is different, that is, he doesn't like to cause trouble, but there is a bottom line and principle, see what kind of person his husband is, whether he is really cowardly or kind-hearted, or he loves himself, and is reluctant to quarrel with himself, and then think about how to change him.

2. Look at popularity:

If the husband is more popular, the work is smoother, and he is very respected in the unit, no one is pointing fingers at him behind his back, no one is bullying him, then he goes out, and he himself is in a happy mood, then it is not cowardly, cowardly people are generally preoccupied, unhappy, and will be bullied by others.