What to do when you find out that your best friend is a bit of a disdain for something you love?

Understand that there are differences in each other, and you may not be able to accept what she loves, she just said it in her own way, and she may not respect you very much when she says it, so don't pay special attention to it, and a real good friend will not make the relationship between two people no longer as good as before because of the difference in what she loves.

We live in this world, there are many things we can't completely decide by ourselves, you can choose your own good friends, but you can't choose the character of your friends, you have good friends, just like you have a boyfriend, accept each other's shortcomings, and don't discriminate against others' shortcomings, promote each other, make progress with each other, so that you can be regarded as true friends, and you are friends. No one can be the most correct and standard look in your mind, because the way you want to be will always be centered on yourself, and others have their own lives, you can't force others to like what you like, but at the same time, I hope you don't discriminate against what others like. In this way, you can't say everything, you have to say it selectively, you can not love what your good friend likes, but please respect what she likes, so that you can give others enough respect, and you will also gain respect.

For example, I have occasional good friends who look down on what I like, like they always think I like non-mainstream songs, but who hasn't had a non-mainstream period, and it's their business to look down on them, so why should I be angry because of this, or change my mind about what I love?

But to be honest, you always have to respect others, you can try to tell your good friend that you fully respect other people's choices, I hope you also respect my things, everyone's preferences are different, but you can't give up because you don't like a word, or respect each other.

In the face of what you like, then you have to recognize what you like, and not be changed by other people's eyes and thoughts, such a change of choice is to prove that you are a weak person, there is no way to stick to your choice, so you, in fact, you don't like what you like enough.

In the face of other people's contempt, what you have to do is, first of all, you have to ignore their dislike, you don't need to believe in other people's eyes at all, your own things are your own through continuous selection, choose out of this one of your favorite things, you have no reason, and there is no excuse for not being firm enough in your own things, in the eyes of others, what they can't get, maybe it's the reason for their jealousy, so you have to believe in your choice, and keep believing it, You can't be changed by the eyes and words of others, they have no way and no right to influence your decision.

Therefore, first of all, you must believe in yourself, and you must always believe in yourself, you can't be changed by others, only yourself is the most true choice.

Secondly, you can face the dislike of others, you can fully show what you like to your friends when a situation happens, what you like must have a point that is unique, such a uniqueness is what you like, you can show such a point to your friends without reservation, can not have stinginess, such a display process is the most convincing.

Therefore, believe in your own judgment, do not hesitate, do not waver, work hard to persevere, and then insist that others have acceptance of your hobbies.

If I were in a situation like this, I would still stick to what I liked. This can only show that there is a difference between my appreciation level or three views with this good friend.

Since it's something you like, then stick to it, don't care what others think of what you like, everyone's appreciation level and way of thinking are different, and the things you look at are naturally different, don't care too much about other people's opinions, just be yourself.

But when your best friend looks down on the things you love, you will feel a little unhappy or unhappy in your heart. In this world, you can't make everyone like what you like, everyone has their own unique thinking and opinions, and has different beliefs. You don't have to think about what to do, what you like is what you like, others have no right and obligation to blame you or what, let him look down on him if he looks down on him, then you can't give up what you like for the sake of other people's opinions.

Empathy, sometimes we also reject some things that others like, so if everyone cares about what others think of them, then this person must be very tired.

You also need to be confident enough, not only in yourself, but also in the things you love. It doesn't matter what you like or how much it's worth, it's a belief and hobby of your own. Don't care what others think of you, this will not do you any good, but will make you very anxious, and you will live a life of thinking about others every day.

According to a classic saying: go your own way and let others say go.

I felt like I'd keep quiet and distance myself from her.

I remember when I first entered college, I was really on my own. I will have a lot of loneliness and loneliness to vent. And I feel that I am a person who cares a lot about my friends, and I am also a person who cares a lot about what my friends think.

I don't know what other people think of the definition of a friend, but I really think it's not easy for us to meet someone who we think is having fun and have the same interests as ourselves. I keep telling myself to cherish it. But sometimes I really like and love things, and if my friends don't like or look down on them, I don't like them very much, and I don't think I will have any close relationships with him anymore.

I remember a good friend of mine from college, and she was really the kind of person who really looked down on some of the things I liked. Sometimes she had to say it to my face. At first I was really wondering why this was going to happen, and I was angry that she shouldn't have done it.

But I really feel that I am a little different from others, and I am slowly estranged from her now. It's a little bit less to have something to say than it used to be, not as good to communicate as it used to be. It's easy to have contradictions, there are a lot of problems.

All I know is that I feel that my friends are supportive of you and care about your feelings. But she gave me that feeling, not like that.

I went into the school radio station, and sometimes I would tell her something about me, but she would always say, "What kind of school radio station are you?" I'm really angry, and sometimes I don't want to talk to her all day. So now I don't often stay with her, and the relationship is slowly estranged and becomes bad.

I didn't feel like I was doing anything wrong between us, and I felt like I loved something that shouldn't be like that as friends. At least support me, and if you don't, don't speak ill of me in front of me.

So I think that as a friend, I should support and encourage myself, and I shouldn't just know my own feelings.

At that time, you may be a little angry, or you may hate her for a short time, or even immediately"Turn the other cheek"。But it's not really a little thing that ruins our friendship. Everyone's preferences are different, and I can't force her to like what I like, as long as we don't have too big emotional problems.

It's normal for a friend to have a fight, and it's not really a big deal for her to look down on what I love, it just makes me feel embarrassed and angry at the time. I think as soon as I get angry with her, she'll understand that she's hurt me a bit, but she's not necessarily going to apologize right away. She will also feel somewhat embarrassed, when she realizes that her behavior is a little too much.

We have to tell our friends in the right way why we love it and what it means to us. As long as it is a true friend, it will definitely understand. She may not be able to like that thing as well, but she will never look down on it again, which is the basic morality and instinct of being good friends with each other.

When I was in junior high school, I was very fond of sneakers because they were the most expensive shoes my mom bought me. I wipe it every day when I have time, and my best friend at the time said about me"Such an ugly pair of shoes, you can wear them for so long, and still be a baby. "I was angry at the time, but I endured the discomfort and told her the reason, and she felt a little embarrassed.

Later, in fact, she was some"Protection"I thought it was funny that when someone stepped on my shoes, she would shout for them to get out of the way.

There is nothing that cannot be solved between friends, it is just that they have different views on one thing, as long as they communicate with their hearts, they will definitely understand each other, and they don't have to mind too much.

I will warn her: you can't say I can't, even more so what I like, even if you really feel bad, don't be known, otherwise, believe it or not, I'll beat you.

I think I'm still very democratic, and I allow my friend to have different opinions from me, and I also allow her to have a bad opinion of my things, but the premise of these conditions must be that I don't know!

Although I am democratic, I am cautious, saying that my things are not good is equivalent to questioning me as a person, and I am the most unbearable to question, in front of my friends, I am considered to belong to the kind of scoundrel person, "I can't say no" "Why can't I?" "There's nothing for why. ”

Some of my friends are particularly annoying, whenever they know what I like, they will deliberately say that this thing is not good in front of me, they just want to provoke me, and I know it, but every time I get hit, I can't help it.

But since it's my good friend who looks down on you, it's nothing for me to cry about, because it's all my own family. Hit when you should, don't be polite. Whatever your friend likes, you also pick and choose what he likes, and make him angry.

All good friends dislike each other, and you must not take your friend's words too seriously. I think that even if your friend really dislikes what you like, if you really want to stick to what you like, I believe that your friend must be the one who will always support you. They hate this thing in their hearts, but it doesn't mean they hate you, maybe when they see this thing somewhere else, they will think:

He likes this, so why don't you bring some for him? ”

Friends walk together for a lifetime, don't affect your friendship for the sake of preference.