Three years in a different place, I don t miss it, and I feel upset when I see it, why?

First of all, the meaning of your relationship has changed.

It may be that two people are separated, that kind of missing, is that you feel more lonely and lonely in a different place, and you don't really like him, you miss the feeling of having someone with you, and miss the thoughtfulness of someone by your side, if you meet a favorite person in your city, you will immediately devote yourself to the next relationship, thus ending this long-distance relationship.

In addition, you are not happy after meeting in a different place, but you are upset, which means that you don't like him at all, and you are just barely maintaining a relationship. The longer such a relationship drags on, the more it is not good for both parties. It's already a very hard thing to have a long-distance relationship, plus you don't like each other yet, relying on **or** to alleviate your loneliness, this kind of love is pathological, it's better to give each other a piece of the world, enjoy your life in your respective cities, and really devote your time and energy to your work and study, which is right.

If there is still fate, we will see each other again in the future, and at that time, if we still love each other, we will know how to cherish it even more when we are together again.

In fact, at present, neither of you dares to take the initiative to mention breaking up. Because, if you are not reluctant, there is still nostalgia, but you must know that such a time-consuming and energy-consuming thing can no longer give you the sweetness and happiness of love, and some only add to your troubles.

It's been three years in a different place, do you still want to persevere? In your heart, whether you are more happy or more troubled, you should measure it well.

Sister Ma said that these are all conscientious suggestions, communicate with each other, consider carefully, and make the right decision.

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<> I didn't see him because I liked him, I liked the past days together, I was upset because I was about to separate, and I might not be able to say together. In any case, it means that you usually lack communication and your thinking is not at the same starting point. Long-distance relationships require more patience and communication.

Because the long distance is not like the one who is not in love, he can hold you, pull you shopping, eat, and live alone in the long place, because he likes him, so he insists.

I'm also in a long-distance relationship. We're going to be very far away when we go to college. But our communication is no less.

He would tell me what he was interested in, and so would I. When a girl asks him to take a picture, he will tell me in advance, make a list for me when I get home, and if someone sends a message to him to confess, he will also send me a screenshot. I'm the same way, because in a different place, I have to think about each other's feelings.

Sometimes I feel like he doesn't care about me and I'll just talk to him, whereas most girls don't actually say it. But it's different in a different place, he can't see your emotions through the computer and mobile phone, so there will be an estrangement. You have to tell him that I'm not happy and I want you to comfort me, I want you to hug me and accompany me.

And you have to be aligned on your plans for the future. We are both preparing for the graduate school entrance examination, he is looking for a good job in Beijing to marry me, and I am going to chase him in the local graduate school entrance examination. We're all working hard for each other, and if we think together, there's nothing wrong with that.

Finally, I want to ask you, do you still love your other half in a different place? Love, you have to learn to change, let your own changes to drive, attract the change of the other half, don't love, don't consume, let go and find another real person. What about people who are alive trapped in memories?

My God, being in a different place for three years is already amazing. There should be few people who can stick to a long-distance relationship for three years now, although the transportation is developed, even if it is thousands of kilometers, it is not a problem, and you can see it in a few hours. But being away from home is always a hassle.

After a few years of long-distance relationship, it's strange if you don't want to, you will definitely miss it. If you don't want to, I doubt your relationship is real. Long-distance relationships are actually very painful, especially for girls, who can only chat into their mobile phones every day, unable to see or touch.

When I go out and see other people in pairs, although I have a boyfriend, but what? It's not like you're going to eat by yourself, and it's no different from a single dog when you have a holiday.

I think it's a little better for boys, boys are not as delicate as girls. I'm sure I'll miss it, but I won't think about it that much. Usually, if you have your own job and your own career, you will definitely put your mind on that.

When you have time, talk to your girlfriend again, talk about what you did, and then make ** porridge. But girls, as soon as you stop thinking, you can't be idle, and you start to think about it.

It's understandable that the meeting will be upset. But I think we should be excited to meet at the beginning, so I won't be upset. In those few days, enjoy the world of two.

Why are you upset? I think it should be like this, you haven't seen each other for too long, and you've been looking forward to a lot of scenes after you meet. But after really meeting, it's not what you imagined, so I slowly got bored in my heart.

Because there has been a transition period for this, and I have had it too.

I have been in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend for a few months. I imagined a lot of scenes after we met, hugging each other, kissing each other, and doing a lot of things. But it's not like this, I didn't hug as soon as we met, but went to eat, and I felt different from what I thought, uncomfortable.

It's still the reason why I think a lot, and it's better to go with the flow.

<> three years in a different place, I don't miss it, and I feel upset when I see it, this phenomenon is similar to the situation when you are not at home: when you are not at home, your mother misses you and misses you, and looks forward to you going home to call **; When you're at home, your mother will annoy you, and watch you play with your mobile phone. If you think about it, are these two situations exactly the same?

Ha ha. Long-distance relationship, love between two places. Holding hands, hugging, and kissing are common intimate acts between couples, but they are rare luxuries. In order to maintain intimacy, long-distance lovers must make a greater effort, because vows, like thoughts, can fade with distance and time.

But they at least have someone who is willing to work together to persevere, and has a love that is strong enough to have the courage to overcome distance.

You are in different cities, breathing the same air, basking in the same sun, blowing the same wind, and drenching in the same rain, but you often have to fall jet lag, because the wind and rain come differently. But you are always there, it doesn't matter if you miss it, it doesn't matter if you're upset, at least you care about each other, and people who love each other always have their own bad tempers.

In fact, now I see the words "long-distance relationship" is a lot calmer, do your best to accomplish what you want to accomplish, free and independent, more and more clear how to take care of yourself, comfort others, play a ** in your spare time, write a postcard to complain about the life of a tired dog, write a letter, express it when you are in a hurry, and mail it slowly if you don't rush. I have always thought that time and space will dilute everything, and the farther it is, the more untouchable it is, but when I experience it, I know that there are always some emotions that will cross time and distance to meet you. It's not scary to miss you, as long as you believe that one day there will be a reunion.