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If a man has experienced many failed relationships and has a fear of girls, then I think it is because the last relationship left too much meaning in his heart, because we must know that many men are very nostalgic animals, and men also have to bear a lot of pressure, these men not only have to bear the pressure from life, but also from the pressure of work, such a heavy burden on a man's body, will make the man breathless.
Therefore, many men hope that they can find their own sense of belonging in love, and they also hope to make their love more complete their lives, so these men have high expectations for their love, but love is not what they think, many men have experienced love is particularly cruel, and some men have unfortunately experienced the betrayal of each other, which will make these men have a fear of girls after experiencing many failed feelings.
Therefore, at this time, we must actively help him get out of the shadow in his heart, and we can carefully help him analyze what the reasons for the failure of several relationships are like, or what kind of girl he is more suitable for in the future, let him regain confidence in love, but also let him ignite the illusion of the other half in his heart, and we can also mention some more positive things in life to him, such as his friends and other people's love is very complete together.
The two of them have made life better because they are together, and this will subtly make your male friends have a faint change in their hearts, so that he will have a lot of thoughts about his love, and he will have a lot of hope for his future life, so that this man will gradually reduce his fear of girls, and he will also have his own life.
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For such a man, I suggest going to the psychological counseling room and letting a professional person go to him for psychological dredging. It is necessary to slowly help him get out of this psychological shadow, and slowly not be afraid of girls.
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Then don't contact with the opposite sex first, sort out your feelings in the circle of the same sex, don't fall in love with other people in a hurry, and don't let the people around you urge marriage.
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I think it's important to talk to friends and relatives about this kind of problem, and then don't be too pessimistic about the future.
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