Why is love so hard and so bumpy?

Because you like each other, you come together, and then you lose your goal of maintaining love, and you don't get it back, and you separate. A good relationship, without giving, you will also become strangers, because you can't stand the test of love. Refusing to part with the dedication of love, testing love, can increase your affection.

A good love needs to have a common goal to maintain, for your goal, you will get along well, then you will love each other well for a lifetime.

Love? Someone once asked me what love is, I don't have him, but, in my heart, I have long had a good interpretation of love, this interpretation, not with a definition or a concept to explain, but with heart, with action. In a person's life, there is family, friendship and love.

Family affection, to put it bluntly, is a relative, because it is the closest person to you, there is nothing to say, after all, it is the closest person around you; Friendship can be said to be one of the important "feelings" in a person's life, because he is the most important in your future study, work and life, when you encounter difficulties in learning, you can find friends, friends can help you learn, solve all kinds of difficulties encountered in it, is an incentive, an encouragement, but also the driving force to move forward; What about love, I think it is as important as friendship, if there is no friendship person, it is not a complete person, no love person, similarly, he is also a defective person Friendship, his road may not be easy to walk, but it is a smooth avenue, on this avenue, you can meet a lot of friends, and love, although it is said to be straight and smooth, however, he will also encounter blockages, no pass, and even no way out, when you face such a problem, how to solve it, is to move forward? Or backwards? If you choose to move forward, maybe you have chosen difficulties, all kinds of difficulties, and it is very difficult, if there is no way out, you still choose to move forward, then you have to dig the road, to create a road of love yourself, if so, your love will be tested, you have to dig little by little, there is no time boundary, dig it, your love road will be one step forward, dig twice, just two steps forward, if you keep digging, it will always be forward, But the premise of this is that you have to pay an unimaginable price, but if you keep digging, one day, you will dig through the road of love, and then your road to love will be smooth; However, if you choose to retreat, maybe you will not encounter the difficulties mentioned above, you will be very easy, however, your road of love may also come to an end here, if it has been like this, if you encounter difficulties, you will retreat, the consequences needless to say everyone knows So, on the road of life, whether it is family, friendship or love, encounter difficulties, do not retreat, you must insist on going down, only persevere, the last moment of success is the happiest, you say!

No one's love road will be smooth, and what is smooth sailing in love is not necessarily good love, but it is only touched in the ups and downs.

1.Communicate well with the other person: Be honest with the other person and tell them how you feel and how you would like more love and attention. Maybe he's just not good at expressing it, or maybe he hasn't seen your feelings for him yet.

2.Give the other person some time: If you don't think the other person has enough feelings for you, don't rush to make a decision. Give the other person some time to see if they will develop more feelings for you.

3.Don't expect too much from feelings: Love is not a one-way street, and even if you think you're giving a lot, the other person may not be able to reciprocate the same amount of affection for some reason.

Don't expect too much from feeling remorseful, stick to your choice on the path of love, and trust that you will eventually find someone who suits you.

4.Stick to what you really think: Whether you choose to continue the relationship with the other person or end the relationship, stick to what you really think and feel. Don't give up your own needs and values in order to conform to the needs of the other person.

The reason why some people feel that the road to love will be bumpy.

The real fate has not yet arrived, and it may be that you met the wrong person at the wrong time.

I don't know how to manage my relationship, and I need to constantly experience and run in in my relationship. If you have experienced multiple relationships, you have not thought carefully about the reasons for your previous failures.

Personality problems, whenever there is a conflict, it is not resolved well, the relationship slowly fades, and finally breaks up.

If you like someone, after a long time, you will feel that he is not what you want, and it may be too perfect.

If you don't think it through, you enter a relationship when you don't know each other.

Because the person who is with you in the end may not be the original one, so when you mature, you will finally find the right person.

Someone's love road will be more bumpy, because he didn't meet the right person, and there are various reasons, and they can't be together in the end.

This has a lot to do with their personalities and the other party they meet, and they will settle when they meet the unsuitable themselves, so that their love road will be particularly bumpy.

Because I am not ladylike when I meet someone, there are also because of my own personality.

Some people in love, have always emphasized pay, they have paid time and energy, will ask the other party to be the same as themselves, but there are no two people in the world who are exactly the same, such a character in love, no matter who the other party is, his love road will be very bumpy.

To be tolerant of others is also to be tolerant of yourself.

Because they don't see people accurately, they don't meet the right person, and love can't be controlled, when they encounter love, many people will lose their minds and become fools of love, so love is so difficult.

The road of love is bumpy, or it is that your attitude in love is wrong, or you are unladylike and meet scum, the former must sum up experience and change your mind, and the latter must polish your eyes and stay away from scum.

Because the fate of people is different, some people's love will be hindered by their families, and it may seem particularly bumpy.

Because you meet the wrong person at the right time, or the right person at the wrong time, the road to love will be bumpy all the way.

Because some people have too many requirements for their relationship or the other party, and have a lot of expectations, the more expectations they have, the more disappointed they will be, and the more bumpy they will be.