When falling in love, couples often quarrel over trivial matters, is it still suitable for marriage?

As long as people become intimate, there will be contradictions, so there will be a series of anxieties, troubles, quarrels, and crying. That's why everyone and their families must have friction in their lives, which is why there is such a saying that distance produces beauty.

It's the same with couples, an intimate relationship will lead to two people having quarrels in the process of getting along, which is very common. So if a couple never quarrels, it's either fake or their relationship is fake. How can there be a couple in this world who don't quarrel?

In fact, quarreling is also a way to communicate feelings, there is no quarrel to run in, there is no balance lever between two people in the relationship, and couples who do not quarrel must not understand each other, but accommodate and endure each other. There is no one whose patience is unlimited, and no one who has no regrets and no returns. Appropriate quarrels can promote the warming of the relationship between the two people, so that they can find the most comfortable state in each other's interactions.

But if you quarrel often, then there is a problem, not to mention that love and marriage are fundamentally two different things, before marriage you should be the most romantic time in your life, it is worth leaving good memories, because once you enter marriage, you are not a matter between two people, but between two families, and the involvement is constantly troublesome. So if you can't even enjoy love, but use it to quarrel, then the marriage will definitely be very bad.

Once you accept the matter of firewood, rice, oil and salt, once you come into contact with the small family in charge of yourself, if you have to learn to spend and learn to run the family, I really don't know how many endless conflicts will arise. There is no need to ask, couples who often quarrel must have quarrels over trivial matters, and even small things cannot be solved by everyone, and must be solved with a war of words, so what should I do about the big things in the marriage in the future?

So my advice is, take it one step at a time, let's talk first! Let's see if this situation will be better in the following interactions. For example, the woman is more gentle, considerate, and sensible, while the man is more generous, tolerant, and understanding.

If they can both find their own problems and are willing to change for each other, then they may be a good couple in the future.

It's normal for couples to quarrel and quarrel, my boyfriend and I often quarrel for some nonsensical reasons, perhaps, this kind of relationship is like this, I care too much, and there are more constraints on each other. Too possessive, always thinking that one person is another world. In fact, this is a manifestation of love, in love, the more profound, the more you care.

It's just that we're not so mature, but when we're mature, we won't love so hard. So, I think that if you and your lover are still quarreling over trivial matters, then cherish each other, he must love you very much. As long as you persevere, you will definitely get married.

The beginning of marriage is love. If you often quarrel over trivial matters, then I think there is no doubt that there is a deep love between you. But marriage stems from the persistence of love.

You have to insist on loving each other, quarrels are quarrels, but love should not fade in the slightest. However, some people will feel that it is really torment for two people who love each other so much. So, I think, take a step back and open the sky, show your tolerance for others, to tolerate your lover, then you will be much happier.

Because you often quarrel over trivial matters, you must gradually run in, tolerate and understand each other, and turn every little temper into greetings and care for each other. Over time, the two of them will run in well, and the love will be deeper, and you will definitely get married.

Because quarreling over trivial matters is a very normal process, every couple will go through this process, when you are persistent in love and work hard for your love, then, whether it is you or the other party, will wrap you with love, give you true feelings, and spend the rest of your life together.

Therefore, couples who often quarrel over trivial matters will fall in love more and more, but often quarrel and often hurt each other. We should turn this kind of love into a harmonious form of expression, so that gradually you will eat the best fruits because of the changes in yourself and each other, and your love will become real. Then you will be perfectly suited to get married. ～

When falling in love, couples often quarrel over trivial matters, is it still suitable for marriage? I want to say, why is it not suitable, there is no couple in the world who does not quarrel, haven't you heard of this sentence. If you don't get married because you often quarrel, then I don't think there are many couples in the world who can get married.

Every couple around me has had a quarrel, whether it's because of a small thing or a big thing, but after they quarreled, they haven't reconciled as before. There are many couples who quarrel only after they get married, so I think it's better to quarrel before marriage. Why do you say this, I think that this quarrel, maybe it is true, if you get married, this kind of quarrel over trivial matters will seriously hinder the relationship between the two.

There is a crisis in the relationship after marriage, which is not a good thing, the serious consequence is that the husband and wife are not in harmony, creating the idea of divorce, if it continues like this, then, divorce is an inevitable event. Therefore, I still think that it is more appropriate to quarrel when falling in love, and after exceeding, maybe the relationship between the two will be better and they will know how to cherish each other. Wouldn't it be better to know each other's character and habits better after a quarrel, so that after marriage, there will be no more such incidents of quarreling over trivial matters.

Of course, this is not absolute, it depends on how the couple views the relationship between the two, if you think that it is not good for the two to quarrel often, then don't quarrel, lovers just need to accommodate and tolerate each other, because some trivial things quarrel, this is not necessary. After the quarrel, I feel that I can't bear it, so let's separate, and get married if it's appropriate, it's that simple.

Although I don't know how far you quarrel, but I often quarrel over trivial matters, and I think it has seriously affected your relationship!

For ordinary people, when they fall in love, they will see each other's advantages and ignore each other's shortcomings, which at least shows that two people like each other, and each has some characteristics that attract each other.

So what does it mean that you guys often quarrel over trivial matters?

It shows that neither of you belongs to a more generous person, will not tolerate each other's shortcomings, and will not handle things well, it should be said that both of you belong to people with more straightforward personalities and words. It stands to reason that there will be a lot of contradictions between such two people when they get married in the future.

And I think that as two people in a couple, at least one of them should have a better temper.

Even if two people quarrel, there will always be one person who calms down and doesn't let the anger burn. And if both people are impatient, when there is no third party present, the two people are likely to have a greater conflict because of the quarrel.

So to sum up, you really have to think carefully about whether to marry him or not.

However, it also depends on what kind of trivial things you quarrel about.

If your partner is because he loves you too much, he wants to know what you are doing at any time. And such frequent care becomes a burden for you, so you will feel that he does not trust you and does not leave you space. That's why you always quarrel with him.

That's what's wrong with you, a lot of people are selfish about love, and that's completely understandable. Just like you won't tolerate him having an affair with someone else.

Then, you should think about whether your behavior really made him jealous, or it was beyond the scope of what he could accept.

To be honest, it's not easy to meet someone who cares about you so much, and it's hard to find another one if you miss it!