I was sincere, but I hurt him, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-04-10
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm a boy, and I analyze this problem from the perspective of men's psychology. You start to lose your temper and don't cherish it. Although he likes you in his heart, he is wary.

    In fact, how do men change their strategies after you toss like you. That's to keep a few points for the people you like. So his attitude changed.

    But that doesn't mean he's changed his mind. Later, if you torture him too sensitively, no man can stand it. When you break up, even if your heart hurts, you will insist on parting, after all, you are a man, and you won't drag your feet.

    Your hearsay information is either a delusion of your own psychology, or that the boy may want to find a new girlfriend after being hit, but they can't start too quickly, according to my experience, men are not so easy to change their minds, not so ruthless. You have a chance, you take the initiative to contact him, admit your mistakes, cry in front of him, and he will be soft-hearted. In the days to come, don't be too sensitive, give a man a space, mature men will not pester you every day, they have their own dignity and career, but they have a sense of responsibility, and what you expect is inconsistent but it does not mean that he has changed his mind.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, you have to ask him out, tell him all the feelings you have felt from the beginning to the present, and then apologize to him. Whether you are able to move on or not, you have to apologize. Look at his attitude, if the person he loves is still you, you will have a chance, if his love is no longer in you, you must not disturb his life again, leave him a chic back.

    Don't dwell on it, he'll look down on you. Maybe he will think of you as a matter of time, and since you can't be together, you have to leave a good impression on each other. You didn't know how to cherish him at the beginning, maybe you didn't have that fate.

    I've had similar relationship events to yours before. It was very painful at the time, and I thought that I would never forget him for the rest of my life, but now, in just two years, I have a boyfriend, and now I feel very happy. Seeing him, he didn't feel anything, time is the medicine to heal.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's normal that even if he doesn't delete you, he should have other friends. If you don't let him see what you wrote above, no matter what the result is, correcting your own shortcomings will help you in the future.

    Man is a lonely animal, no matter how strong, he wants someone to have mercy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I strongly support the view of Jiangopen on the seventh floor, and I am also a boy, so I am deeply touched by this. Here I want to tell girls: you must cherish the sincere contribution of men, and don't let them feel that their true feelings are being teased.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let's talk about it and see if there's room for maneuver.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think he's your true love!

    Cherish it! Don't be afraid to communicate with him because you are "afraid"!

    As long as you tell him what is going on in your heart, I think he should be able to understand! There is one more point that you should bow your head and admit your mistakes!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Of course, there is a chance, because he loves you, it depends on whether you really want to keep this feeling, if you really love him, then work hard to fight for it, no matter what the result is, the probability of fighting for it is a little greater than not fighting, and then two people love each other, don't let excess self-esteem destroy such a rare love, the rarest thing in the world is the feeling of mutual affection, grasp your happiness, because happiness is often very short-lived, and it will fly with wings!!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People want to be loved, and they want to be noticed, at least for most people.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1 All women, don't be stupid, you have nothing to find a lover.

    He can socialize with you behind his wife's back, and of course he can also socialize with others behind your back.

    The third party, which one has a good end. Don't do it yourself.

    Extramarital romances will not end well;

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You've broken the rules of the game, be careful about breaking up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Why are you disappointed, just explain it to him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Disappointed? Do you have sexual dysfunction?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then go on, because no matter how much we advise you, don't "give up", what you're afraid of is that you will still not be able to let go of it even if you are full of holes.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The key is whether he deserves love. If he has someone else in mind, is it still necessary?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    One reason, hurt not deep enough, so melancholy.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You can lose anything, but you can't lose a smile. If there is love, you will treat it wholeheartedly, and if there is no love, you will be comfortable alone. Learn to live alone, regardless of whether you are loved by someone around you.

    Do what you have to do, with love or without love, treat it safely. When fate arrives, reach out and grab it, and before fate arrives, go to create a warm little world for yourself. Love is a matter of preferring to lack rather than abuse, not to be in a hurry, not to be in a hurry.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think you should believe in time. He will erase all kinds of unpleasantness from the past, including the emotional aspect. It's not a big deal, she's not the only one in the world, it's much better than him, you really find one to show her, and let him know how wrong his choice is to give up on you.

    Let him regret going.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Time is the best healing medicine. Let time heal your wounds.

    You should also see a little bit yourself, love is only half of life, your love has just begun, it has not collapsed, and you can start again.

    Treat yourself well.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's nothing, just be a love internship, try it in another unit, and with the first experience, the hope of success next time will be greater.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Many women have experienced it and not come over the same, not to mention that you are a man, give yourself some self-confidence.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Find someone who loves you to be with! After a long time, forget about it!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The best way to forget a relationship is to start a new one.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There is an old saying: the best way to take revenge on someone is not to hurt him or anyone, but to live better than him. Let him watch you do well...

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Keep looking for your happiness.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    At a loss, just wait.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    This kind of thing.

    Only time can heal your wounds.

    But that's not to say that there is absolutely no chance.

    If you still love her when the time comes.

    There's still a chance.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Companionship is the most affectionate confession, and you can love over time.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you really like it, you will continue; Just don't be reconciled, just give up.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The twisted melon is not sweet, let it go.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Stick to the end, if you can't do it, you have no fate

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The human heart is made of flesh, and if you don't believe that he is beaten with iron.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's hard to explain the emotional thing, but I still want to say a few words. If she really likes you, he will come back to you, and she may have had her troubles before; But in other words, if you really like to laugh early, she should ask Li Zai to find out what the reason for leaving you, at least you have to understand why; There is also love is a matter of two people, you need to trust each other and not blindly suspect, this is a big taboo; Finally, I want to say that if it's really because of family conditions, it is recommended that you give up this relationship, otherwise you will be very tired, and the result page will not be very good, of course, this is still your own look at it, this time of time to finally go out to travel, scatter, think about it, don't make extreme behavior, otherwise it will be too late to regret it, hehe, good luck friends!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    There are a lot of things that are not clear, and no one can help!

    I had the same experience.

    Very helpless, very upset.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I think it's okay to have a problem with timing, otherwise it wouldn't be like this, you know, no, just calm down for a while, and you'll get better.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Feelings are like this, it's good to have feelings for her and warm memories.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Let it go, you have to learn to care about the people who care about you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Adjust your mood!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Maybe there's something hard to say.

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