Is it okay to walk away quietly, what does it mean to go away quietly?

You do this just to escape your feelings, and you can't go openly, you should make it clear to him calmly, will your heart be calm if you don't leave it clearly, are you right to do this "I'm not helping him, I'm also a man, I know what I'm doing" In fact, do you love him, you should talk to him if you love him, see what he means, you can't be rash.

It was he who did something wrong and overdid it.

People have times when they do something wrong, in fact, he just hasn't opened his mind yet, he is fascinated by the games on the Internet, and when he wants to open it, he may cherish you more than anyone else.

If you really want to leave, no one can control you, it's just not fair to you and it's not fair to him.

If you want to leave, you will seriously make it clear that you will leave in the future, so that no one has any regrets.

Do you think that's right?

Things have happened, you have to face it bravely, don't stay in regret all the time, you have to learn lessons to improve yourself, improve yourself, cultivate subjective awareness, don't blindly consider how others are, try to think about problems from your own point of view.

As long as you hesitate, you can make mistakes, which can be small mistakes or big mistakes, so be firm and judge whether this is right or wrong. Your indecision leads to your big mistake.

You have to take care of yourself, and you can't hesitate any longer.

As long as it is your own judgment in the end, you have grown.

After reading your narrative, you seem to be married!

I really want to say that since I am married, I should cherish my hard-earned family and run it well.

But it's so sad to read your narrative. Actually, there is no need to walk away quietly.

Is there something missing between you? That is – communication ...

You can try to do it and communicate more. Communicate more ... If that doesn't work, I think it's right to leave quietly ...

It's come to this, don't linger anymore, make a choice that your life doesn't regret, it's rational and clear, what we said is just for your reference, my sister should make a wise choice in contact with the reality, my personal point of view is to explain and then go, because this is so that he can review himself, and save him from having a chance in the future, hurting (harassing) you again and so on. Come on, you can definitely do it.

You can't leave, because you can't choose to escape, and if you choose to escape, your life won't be full of happiness, don't you say? You have to have the courage to face the facts and treat this matter with an optimistic attitude, so that you are also happy, then he will also feel very happy, happy on the basis of feelings, hehe.

I don't know how to say it.

Sometimes I'm very superstitious, and I think these are things that were destined in my previous life.

I also like my boyfriend very much, even obsessed, there are a lot of people around me who are better than him, I don't like either. He never spoke sweetly at all, and he always pushed me out. It always makes me sad, I know he hurts me, he will be sad too, because he loves me, so I insist.

But what about you? Does he really love you?

There have been many, let him pass, just treat it as a debt owed in a previous life. Anyway, it's all paid off. You never owe him, so you can walk away in style.

I don't know how to face it, but I still have to face it or I have to face it for so long I choose to leave him These people are not worth it for him anymore.

Personally, I think it's better to make it clear to him, because it's very unfair to you that you're just leaving, explain it to him, and then leave him, don't be sad, there are still a long time to come, you will find someone who loves you, believe in yourself

No, no matter what, there must be a result, don't be bold, don't choose to escape.

Things have happened to this point, no matter how sad and painful, it is just to vent, in fact, after the mood is vented, just live a good life, you must know how to love yourself, don't blindly be carried away by love, you also understand, don't believe in men's rhetoric.

Let's take it one step at a time later.

After all, life still has to go on!

As long as you live with your heart, happiness will come to you!

You are indeed deceiving yourself, everyone is the same, what happens to others we see very clearly, we don't know how to do it.

We are all the same, both men and women should love themselves and love each other.

Let's find our own happiness.

He's not for you.

Make it clear to him and walk away resolutely. Heart.

I'm a man. But I will always despise this kind of unresponsible man.

Of course, it is to be clear.

If someone else asks him why you're leaving, he's making up something, then where will you put your face?

It's not good for you to go in vain.

At least let him know why you left him.

Gotta go away! Don't hesitate.

I think it's better to divide it, but it's up to you to decide

You have to pay for what you do, and bear the consequences!

These two poems fully express Xu Zhimo's feelings for Kangqiao, and concentrate on the melancholy of parting. "Quietly is the sheng flute of parting" is a metaphorical technique. For example, Su Shi's "Former Chibi Fu" describes Xiao Sheng as low and mournful, while the flute sound is joyful, so "Xiao" is used as a metaphor for "quietly" to illustrate the poet's state of mind, so the action of "quietly" carries the poet's feelings, and then"Xia Worm is also silent for me, and silence is Kangqiao tonight.

The poems are concise, repeating "silently", "quietly" and "gently" again and again, emphasizing the main point, not wasting words.

From: Xu Zhimo "Farewell Kangqiao".

Original poem: Farewell to Kangqiao.

Gently I go, as softly I came;

I beckoned softly, and made a cloud of the western sky.

The golden willow on the bank of the river is the bride in the sunset;

The beautiful shadow in the waves ripples in my heart.

Wattles on soft clay.

oily swaggering underwater;

In the soft spring of the Cam River, let Pori be willing to be a water weed!

The pool under the shade of the elm is not a clear spring, but a rainbow in the sky;

Crumpled among the floating algae, precipitating a rainbow-like dream.

Looking for a dream? Hold a penny and wander towards the greener grass;

Loaded with a boatload of starlight, singing in the starlight.

But I can't play songs, quietly it's a parting sheng flute;

Xia Worm is also silent for me, and silence is Kangqiao tonight.

Quietly I went away Lu Sen Hood, just as I came quietly;

I waved my sleeves and didn't take a cloud with me.

1. The lyrics of "Quietly Leaving" are as follows:

Once it hurts, you will behave like a child again.

Hold tightly in your hands.

I don't know how to let go.

It's just that you don't understand the harm you're doing to me.

It has made me doubt love.

I don't have the courage to do it all over again.

Find my love, find my don't understand.

That naïve girl.

She is still gone.

It's just not supposed to smile so helplessly.

This girl who has broken her heart for love.

Once it hurts, you will behave like a child again.

Hold tightly in your hands.

I don't know how to let go.

It's just that you don't understand the harm you're doing to me.

It has made me doubt love.

I don't have the courage to do it all over again.

Find my love, find my don't understand.

That naïve girl.

She is still gone.

It's just not supposed to smile so helplessly.

This girl who has broken her heart for love.

Find my love, find my don't understand.

That naïve girl.

She is still gone.

It's just not supposed to smile so helplessly.

This girl who has broken her heart for love.

2, "Quietly Leaving" is a song sung indifferently, included in "I Am Indifferent".

This sentence is from Xu Zhimo's "Farewell Kangqiao", the original text is:

Gently I go, just talking about the state as I gently come; I beckoned softly, and made a cloud of the western sky.

The golden willow on the bank of the river is the bride in the sunset; The beautiful shadow in the waves ripples in my heart.

The green wattles on the soft mud are swaggering at the bottom of the water; In the soft waves of the River Cam, I am willing to be a water weed!

The pool under the shade of the elm is not a clear spring, but a rainbow in the sky; Crumpled among the floating algae, precipitating a rainbow-like dream.

Looking for a dream? Hold a penny and wander towards the greener grass; Loaded with a boatload of starlight, singing in the starlight.

But I can't play songs, quietly it's a parting sheng flute; Xia Worm is also silent for me, and silence is Kangqiao tonight.

Quietly I went, as quietly I came; I waved my sleeves and didn't take a cloud with me.

The whole poem of "Farewell to Kangqiao" consists of seven stanzas, each stanza has four lines, and each line has two or three meals.

The second and fourth rhymes, the tone is abrupt and catchy.