He said let me get rid of my bad habits, and he was saying, what do you mean

It just means that I don't want to change, I don't want to change

I'm not happy with you and think you need to improve.

When you find out the cause of the problem, you can find a way to solve these problems, maybe sometimes the problem is too big to solve, we can break down the problem, and then break through one by one, at the same time, you can also find someone to help, as long as you can solve the problem, you can try any way.

Ask him, he must know what is wrong with you, that's why he said that, the two of them are supposed to get better and better together.

People are not perfect, you have to have principles yourself, whether to change, what to change, how to change, whether he is looking for an excuse to leave you, think clearly.

You know.

There's something wrong with yourself.

And then correct it for the sake of the other party.

Hope you do.

Haha, interesting, he's at least a little kid temper, don't preach to him, you're not.

It should not be enough love, or it may be something else, take your time, after all, the emotional thing is a matter of two people, after a long time, the two people will have a very tacit understanding, and bad habits or something will not be taken seriously, or maybe after a long time, it will not be like now, unaccustomed.

How it feels like a childishness.

You still haven't recognized the problem, and it's useless for you to talk to him again. You yourself have some bad problems, and what he wants you to change means is that he is dissatisfied with you, you don't understand it wrong, but your boyfriend is not wrong. Getting rid of bad things is a start to correcting yourself, making you better, anyone has dissatisfaction with everyone, and the way to reduce this dissatisfaction is to correct mistakes.

So why are you fighting because you think he thinks you're upset? Isn't that true?

Unless you really self-reflect and change yourself, especially in this point of view, not blindly unilaterally and irrationally, you will break up sooner or later.

Your boyfriend seems more mature than you. He wants to be with you. That's why I hope you can change some of your shortcomings.

When 2 people are together, there must be sacrifices to be made. Judging by your words, it feels like you're not very old. If you just want someone to play with.

Then I advise you to let your boyfriend go. Don't delay others in finding happiness.

To really ask you to correct your shortcomings is to continue with you, to be impatient with you is to break up with you, please be sure to distinguish well, you have to deal with the problem rationally, don't be petty.

If it's because of some problems in the personality, I don't think what can be changed is that the two are not suitable, if it's just some habitual problems, then you can consider making some changes for each other. Another important point is, how long have you been dating?

You can think about his dissatisfaction with you at home, think about whether his dissatisfaction is right, and then choose whether or not to correct it.

You have to adapt or stay away. You can't even change yourself, how can you change others (==)?

You can imitate his approach and let him realize that doing so will have bad consequences for others, of course, you don't have to be in a hurry, slowly influence, and do the golden stone.

In fact, it is recommended to sit down and talk about it, bad habits can not be used to, but, think about whether you have done a good job, whether there are similar bad problems, or other bad problems, if so, do your best, and then go to others, if not, you can generously ask him to change it.

It's okay if people are bad.

It's just that I'm afraid that my nature will be broken.

Then you can't change him in your life.

Let me tell you something.

Since there is no way to change others.

Then start with yourself.

to change yourself.

It's the best way to do it.

Because that's what I do.

There are some men that you can't change in your life.

for he is inferior to an animal.

Don't try to change others, look at it from another angle, you should change yourself to adapt to him. You think it's a problem, maybe it's his personality, and if you change it, it's not the original man.

It is said that the dead lotus is a branch lotus, and it can't be changed, and it won't be changed when it is said to be dead. So don't expect him to change, just endure it if you can, and leave if you can't.

Don't dwell on a man's bad problems, he suffers on the contrary, does his own thing, and he is the one who suffers.

You can try to remind him tactfully and induce him to get rid of his bad habits, and it is extremely discouraged to take a tough attitude to get a boy to change his bad habits.

If severe consideration is given to sending a forced abstinence facility.

Hello! You only have to take your time and enlighten him patiently, and you will get better in the future.

You also deliberately imitate him and show his bad habits even worse in front of him! He can't stand it anymore! He'll change!

Nature is hard to change, and the mountains are hard to change.

Don't overestimate how much you can change his bad habits.

If you can't change it with verbal persuasion, can you beat him?

Since he doesn't like you, just give up and look for the next one.

No matter what you say, don't expect him to change, don't worry about it if it's not a big problem, you can't change it.

It can't be changed, maybe it's temporary forbearance. It is very difficult to change people's habits, and if you want to change them, you can only change your own ideas. It's helpless.

Let's tolerate each other! It's not who changes whom, it's who changes for whom.

It's not easy, unless you encounter something special that makes him have some meaning, maybe he will change it!

The most direct and effective way is to replace it if it is not changed.

There is no good way, follow the good path, say all the good things, and even deceive?

Instead of changing others, you should change yourself.

Dogs can't change eating, they can't change it.

If you still love him, give him a chance, after all, no one is perfect, right? This is not necessarily not to give yourself a chance, feelings and life are managed by each other. If he loves you, he will slowly get rid of those bad problems by himself.

It means that he needs you to get back together with him for no reason.

Hehe, I want to find a warm quilt for a woman That's all.

Verbal language is indeed not easy to change, this requires personal control and self-control, you can start with chatting with friends, when chatting with friends, if you say this sentence, you will smoke yourself, and it will be changed slowly, I hope it can help you.

Oh my God! Or my god!

I'm using this instead. I said that I thought about it, but I really can't think of any other words, and I have changed it.

Let's change it to something nice, such as: I'm dizzy.

Well, isn't it?

It depends on the situation.

That's a sign of not loving you, if a man loves a woman, no matter how many bad habits she has, he will tolerate it!

He may want to gradually distance himself from you, if this is the case, it means that your boyfriend wants to break up with you. If you still love him, then you should get rid of your bad habits for him.

Two people who really love each other need to accept each other, don't try to change each other, of course, if you do have some bad habits, you don't need others to say that you need to correct them...

Reliable, if your boyfriend has a lot of bad habits, you will do the same.

Sometimes it's also about listening to other people's opinions? You must have bad habits that people can't accept, change them, just don't look for him.

Maybe it's a little tired, so let's separate ourselves and reflect on it, and maybe there will be a surprise after a month.

What does your boyfriend do, is he older than you, does he point out that your faults are all those things?

Unreliable, this may be his excuse, if he really loves you, he will tolerate you, including your shortcomings.

If you want to break up, you should be separated for a month, and if you don't want to break up, you will stay in his life, which may be to break up with you.

Divide it, he said so, you don't plan to reconcile with him, you will regret it if you become better.

My boyfriend is like this, but I think that even if you change it, you two can't go back to the past, maybe there will be bad problems, but, if you change, don't think about him anymore, he said this purely so that you don't harass him,

Not necessarily. What can't be decided all at once. If there's something wrong, then change it. What does it mean to be apart for a month? Won't he supervise you to change?

He wanted to divide it, and it was just an excuse. Unreliable.

No one is perfect, your boyfriend has already given you a breakup message, if he really loves you, he won't say that, two people should accommodate each other and tolerate each other together.

It is estimated that he was euphemistically saying that he broke up! Personal insights.

It's going to be divided, it's cold violence.