How can I be mature and rational when it comes to feelings?

Don't be sad! Men are like that! Even if he loves you, but if a girl takes the initiative to take the initiative, he will not be indifferent!

It's a man's physiology! Boys and girls are the same, they will be jealous, which shows that he loves you! Isn't there only one year left?

Cherish it and don't let yourself regret it.

I don't know what to say, but I'm a boy, and I can only talk about it from a boy's point of view, but I don't know what kind of person you like him, so all I can say is what I think.

If a boy likes a girl, he should think about the girl, love is endless, but studies are more important, no matter how you like each other, you can't forget your responsibilities.

If you like someone, you should trust each other more, of course, no one can do it, because everyone has selfish desires and wants to take what they like as they have, which is understandable! We are not saints, so our selfish desires are very heavy, but since we like him, we should learn to trust.

That's all I can say.

It's so touching...

1 month and more than 20 hours of train to meet also once.

It's better to let it go for now ... It's also a kind of love.

All thoughts and practices should be guided by the true guidance of the heart, not like quicksand, the tighter you grasp it, the more it will be lost.

Self-love is based on self-love in order to love others.

Cherish the space of freedom, which is good for both of you.

Go with the flow, don't think too much, be more tangled.

The key is whether they will be together after work, if not, it is estimated to let go, because you will be in a different place for the rest of your life, and you can not let go, that is applicable, why do you have to do it once a month, why not once every three months, if the relationship is really deep, distance is not a problem, and time is not a problem, because each other will adapt to this state of being in a different place, and the flat adaptation will continue this relationship forever.

First, know how to empathize.

When we are young, we are actually very selfish, we are always used to taking, but we are not used to giving, we only think about what we need? Without thinking about what the other person needs? When you are truly mature, you will know how to empathize, take care of each other's feelings, and accommodate each other's ideas.

This is how people who are truly mature approach intimacy.

Some words are no longer spit out, but will be filtered in the brain before they are spoken, whether the sentence is appropriate, and whether it will make the other party uncomfortable. Before doing something, you will also carefully weigh whether it hurts the other party and whether it can be accepted by the other party.

Second, know how to respect each other.

Respect is mutual, as is the maintenance and handling of relationships. People who don't know how to respect others must not get the respect of others, mutual respect is always the basis for maintaining any relationship, no matter how close the relationship is, no one will tolerate you repeatedly challenging your bottom line and hurting your self-esteem.

Especially in the relationship between husband and wife, knowing how to respect each other is the best fulfillment. Don't control each other, don't interfere with each other, and don't limit each other, this is not love, but harm in the name of love. The maintenance of any intimate relationship is based on equality and freedom, and knowing that mutual respect is more important than love!

Third, know how to be independent.

In this world, no one can be counted on, and no one can be attached to, at any time, only they are the most reliable, and only they are the most reliable. Therefore, a truly mature person will not put his life in the hands of others, let alone fantasize and expect others to change his life, which will be the most stupid behavior.

Even if it's a loved one, even if it's a best friend.

Even if it is a husband and wife, only by maintaining each other's independence can the maintenance of the relationship be guaranteed, in a sense, it is difficult for two people who have lost their balanced position in a relationship to maintain the relationship normally. It's like when you go to work in a relative's company, it's like you're counting on someone else to give you money to spend.

Fourth, know how to control your emotions.

A truly mature person never loses his temper casually, and even if he has a serious dissatisfaction with something, at most he chooses to replace it with silence. Anger, tantrums, can never solve the problem, only expand the development of gaffes, know how to avoid head-on conflicts with others, is the most rational choice.

Tantrums are instinctive, and being able to control instinct is called ability. Excessive words, excessive behavior, can never be accepted, even if that person makes a big mistake, when he faces your excesses, he will definitely choose words to find fault with you, refute you, and even attack you. Because your temper can seriously hurt the other person's self-esteem.

Each of us hopes that we can get a happy and sweet love, and we strive for it. ......Among them, the love at first sight love that touches the heart at first sight is the most romantic and what we look forward to. But that doesn't mean that we will give up when we meet a boy or girl who doesn't have a crush at first sight.

The reason why I say this is because love at first sight is hard to find, people can only really understand each other through long-term interactions, and love should be rational and not emotional.

1. Love at first sight is unattainable, so it cannot be forced.

At first sight, this kind of love at first sight is the most romantic, and it is also the most enviable and expected headshot. ......But this kind of love is hard to come by, and only a very small number of people can get such love, and it is undesirable for most people. ......Therefore, we can't force this kind of love, even if we can't meet it, we should choose it rationally.

2. People can only really understand each other through long-term interactions.

Fundamentally, for two people to fully understand each other, they must be able to achieve it through a long relationship. ......Therefore, the kind of love at first sight, although it may be romantic, is not necessarily the best state of love. ......In fact, for love with the goal of lifelong companionship, two people who love each other should still get a full understanding through long-term dating, in order to achieve true happiness.

3. For love, we should be rational, not emotional.

Although love is a kind of feeling, the process of pursuing love cannot only focus on feelings. ......Emotional love is destined to fail to achieve a satisfactory result, so the kind of love at first sight that looks at the first glance of the heart does not necessarily lead to happiness, only through rational analysis and judgment, choose the most suitable person for yourself as a partner, in order to find a lover who is truly suitable for you. ......Therefore, even if we meet a boy or girl who is not attracted at first sight, we should continue to choose and give each other enough time to get to know each other, so that we can leave no regrets.

It's good to be young, you can express yourself truthfully, frank love, direct hate, and you can live more freely.

I walked more roads, saw more people, and slowly precipitated my feelings, a little less warm, and more steady.

Missing someone, no longer wanting to see each other right away, talk, or be together.

There are many ways to be nice to a person, without even letting the other person know, and of course, you can choose to let the other person know.

The goal is achieved, without harming others, and the process can be a little more casual.

Maybe this is maturity, there are many methods, no matter which way, just go to it.

The feelings began to turn from thick to light, if they could be okay with each other, it would be good to forget about each other. If you need to, you can give everything, and that's probably the world.

I'm not that important, I can just don't care about myself, as long as you're good and the result is good.

came and went in a hurry, learned restraint, faded away the youthfulness at the beginning, and finally reaped the beauty.

When you are dealing with these emotional problems, you can be regarded as truly mature, and when you meet the right person, you are no longer in a hurry to meet someone who wants to borrow money, you no longer want to borrow, you will not be dragged when you break up, and your family's affairs will no longer be self-proclaimed.

When you meet the right person and are no longer in a hurry, when you meet someone who borrows money and no longer wants to borrow, when you break up and don't drag your feet, your family no longer volunteers, you no longer look down on people who are worse than you, and you no longer make trouble and sentence money to do bad public welfare. Liquid calendar change.

Will you wronged yourself in order to cater to others, will you bravely refuse to accompany others, can you reasonably deal with conflicts with others, will two people quarrel and will not make trouble, will you reflect on your stupidity, and will you leave a way out for yourself in the relationship.